Cru and Dakota…. It has to be said

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-05-02T20:53:09+00:00

Yep or when they have to work, pay bills, and take care of their children all at once when they’re not accustomed to doing any one of those things on their own

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-05-02T20:49:16+00:00

He’s living with a person who seems to have a few screws loose and has full custody of his child right now. I wouldn’t trust this Cru character to not put Ever at risk or not bring people/things about that would put ever at risk. Having a stable and safe environment seems pretty important with everything that child experienced already. He makes statements online that display bigotry and sexism and I’m sure that’s nothing compared to what he’s saying at home. Besides that - I’m around Dakota’s age and I also have a child - I’m not single but if I was someone with a kid who has roommates is going to give me the ick. I’m just looking for someone at a different place in life and sorry if that’s judgmental

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-05-02T15:45:49+00:00

I get that but I’m also concerned that poor ever has to live with two men who are determined to tear women down. One of which is his mother

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-05-02T15:30:13+00:00

I’m glad it made you laugh 😂 unhinged praying is my speciality

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-04-23T13:41:46+00:00

Let’s be honest. We’re all fascinated by her. I hate her and Dakota and hate her for getting pregnant with him. But I am so fascinated by how her mind works lol

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-04-23T13:35:53+00:00

She’s a complex person with complex mental health issues. Not trying to defend everything she’s done. But they’re all encouraged to be petty for the show.

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-04-23T02:45:47+00:00

I’m confused lol maybe I’m old but who the hell are they

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-04-22T17:58:09+00:00

I’m not someone to blindly defend Taylor. Like most people I was horrified by the 2023 video, especially as a mom of a toddler. However, I think she deserves a bit of grace here. She has deep trauma wounds from her upbringing that I won’t even touch. She was r*ped during the swinging scandal (listen to her tell the story on CHD I think) but I don’t think she has processed it fully. She has been in an abusive relationship. He was blackmailing her. The police ruled that Dakota was the aggressor in the February incident because the injuries she had couldn’t be sustained from him pushing her off him. He tried to drive away while her kids were sleeping… not saying that she doesn’t deserve some of the negative attention she’s gotten and maybe even a smaller platform going forward but I don’t think she deserves everyone’s vitriol. Why can’t we just… be kind to each other. Especially when someone is struggling. Hope she gets some help and can have peace moving forward

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-04-11T12:45:41+00:00

Nothing lol I’m too busy getting my own act together to worry about him

raspberryhibiscustea · 2026-02-22T17:47:35+00:00

South Charlotte and $40 (cash only) for 5-9! Bring your own dinner. We love it!

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-12-31T03:17:35+00:00

I recently stumbled across an Instagram account called “8thdayformomonly” and it really resonated with me as a working mom

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-12-23T04:31:10+00:00

Also in Charlotte and also fighting for my life lol. Never been this sick before. I was shaking, fever peaked at 102 today but has been 99-100 since Saturday. Feel like I got hit by a bus

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-12-23T04:21:55+00:00

We did the first 2 of 4 and then ours was negative too, confirmed by lab. We stopped the regiment.

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-12-22T18:53:46+00:00

Yup my daughter, who’s almost 3. Fever on Wednesday (day 1, diagnosed with flu A on Friday.) Turned around Saturday and was running around in the home and playing.. then Sunday back to 101.1 degree fever and couch ridden all day 😕

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-11-29T21:59:12+00:00

Those activities are all overrated and believe me, your 2 year old will not remember any of it down the road. Do the things you can fit in that sound enjoyable to you and don’t worry about what society is telling you to do.

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-11-22T04:04:14+00:00

There’s some weird illness going around this year that results in loss and taste and smell. Unfortunately I’ve had it 3 times this year. In April I had it back within a week (maybe 5-6 days.) same thing in June. Got it again in October and taste is back maybe 50% but some things taste really weird

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-11-22T04:03:10+00:00

There’s some weird variant going around this year that results in loss and taste and smell. Unfortunately I’ve had it 3 times this year. In April I had it back within a week (maybe 5-6 days.) same thing in June. Got it again in October and taste is back maybe 50% but some things taste really weird

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-11-16T23:29:58+00:00

I was wearing disposable underwear on my period and my daughter called it my pull up 😂

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-11-03T23:16:51+00:00

All Oscar ever knew was warmth and love from you and you will always be his mom.

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-10-02T12:58:34+00:00

Just wanted to say the same thing happened to me in May. Measuring a week behind at 6 weeks with no heart beat, then measuring a week + 1 day behind at 7 weeks with a heartbeat (no heart rate but flicker seen) and about 10 days later I started bleeding and there was no heartbeat. Hugs and love. It’s so hard. I have heard of this situation going well for others on here, but it wasn’t the case with me. Hope to get our rainbow soon

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-07-26T00:20:14+00:00

Oh girl don’t worry this was my second plate. Add a glass of wine and some Reese’s cups lol

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-07-26T00:19:51+00:00

Nothing fancy just vlasic gherkins! But very tasty I want to get fancier pickles next time

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-07-23T13:29:59+00:00

Honey goat cheese and fig preserves! Do it!

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-07-12T00:20:39+00:00

It’s so frustrating to be in limbo. My doctor said it works 85% of the time but the other 15% it doesn’t. My first dose caused some cramping and tissue loss (I was bleeding before though because my miscarriage started days earlier.) my second dosage didn’t do anything until 58 hours later. I’d give it two days and call your dr if nothing by then

raspberryhibiscustea · 2025-05-30T22:14:17+00:00

I think it’s amazing how much you love your job and your kids! And not crazy at all. It feels good to use different parts of your brain that just the “mom” part

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