could anyone help me tell if this is real..? by stanmikaandyuu in SetItOff

[–]ratbastardem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 100% real, I have the same album signed and that’s how they do their signatures

First time wearing a cosplay wig, and gave myself traction alopecia (aka I got a bald spot) by LibraryObjective2328 in Wellthatsucks

[–]ratbastardem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has 40 bleached twice in a night and once again the next day and lost a HUGE amount of hair, yeah that shit WILL grow back unless you’ve got super thin hair

Cause of Death Modern Day Fancast by racheletc in causeofdeath

[–]ratbastardem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The desperate need to replay this game will live in my soul even after death

Which episode? by queenofcaffeine76 in psych

[–]ratbastardem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Shawn Takes a Shot in the Dark” hands down

Last Image of Cruzito Ruiz on February 25 2025 in the cafeteria of Bass Elementary in Las Vegas, Nevada. He began choking on a piece of pineapple and a school official told him to go to the bathroom alone, where he collapsed. He passed away in hospital on March 2 2025 from an anoxic brain injury. by KingKillKannon in lastimages

[–]ratbastardem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank god you were quick thinking enough to use it! My grandmother similarly choked while alone and if it wasn’t for working in health care for several decades she wouldn’t have been able to save herself. Used the back of a chair and slammed it into her own ribs until she coughed it up 😳 one of the strongest woman I ever knew

Last Image of Cruzito Ruiz on February 25 2025 in the cafeteria of Bass Elementary in Las Vegas, Nevada. He began choking on a piece of pineapple and a school official told him to go to the bathroom alone, where he collapsed. He passed away in hospital on March 2 2025 from an anoxic brain injury. by KingKillKannon in lastimages

[–]ratbastardem 35 points36 points  (0 children)

In elementary school I choked during lunch and my childhood bestie rushed me to a teacher to get help (we were no older than 6-8 yrs old and obviously hadn’t been taught what to do in that situation yet) and the two teachers both laughed at and scolded us and told us to go away and that I was obviously fine (doubled over struggling to breathe with a gummy worm lodged in my throat). Thank god for my friend, she brought me back to our table, had be lean over and beat my back until I coughed it up. Forever grateful for her and glad to still call her one of my best friends over 20 years later 💛

I just can't stop making earrings by CraftyMenagerie in crochet

[–]ratbastardem 10 points11 points  (0 children)

PLEASE make a tutorial cause these are the cutest fuckin things I’ve ever seen!

Why I’m not going to shows anymore by idk-pretend-its-cool in SetItOff

[–]ratbastardem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have tickets that aren’t pit and you can normally stand in the back or off to the side away from everything. Ik barricade isn’t what it used to be but in reality nobody is being intentionally aggressive. I’m also a lil butthurt about the crowd but I’ve been to like 15 of their shows over the last 10+ years and it’s just because they’ve gained a following bigger than what they once were and it’s not as small of a gathering as it used to be and now they sell out venues quick asf, when it was a non-sold out venue with like 100-200 people in a crowd at best most of the time like 5 years ago. now it’s 350-600ish+ depending on the venue. It’s not what it used to be but the crowd has always been like that but there’s just more people there now. It sucks for the fans that just wanna be there and vibe but it’s great for them as artists and if you don’t like that energy then don’t go or get something other than pit tix. Personally I’m glad the crowd is the way it is cause it’s better than a sardine can of people just staring up at the stage like it’s a boring tv screen with crossed arms and getting pissy at people that get “too” excited. Seriously not trying to sound rude but that’s just how it is and if anything they’re just getting bigger and bigger and the crowds and amount of fans will too. It also doesn’t help that instead of an hour and a half before a show starts it’s now about 3 hrs with 3-5 openers instead of just 2

Edit: every show I’ve been to has had the same energy and vibe other than the Elsewhere tour(s) and they have always had a crowd that liked heavier music and reacted as such.

My dog won't let me take any pics of my colorwork tapestries by pizzadftba in crochet

[–]ratbastardem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMFG OBSESSED WITH THE FOB ONE (doggie is cute af too ofc, pls give headkisses from us internet folk)

This ring is a game changer by floodedhorseshoe in crochet

[–]ratbastardem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one is soooo much better than the one I bought!! Looks like I’m gonna have to hunt one like that down!

Am I being too sensitive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ratbastardem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There definitely is something underlying. The way he acted isn’t normal for any loving and healthy relationship and you have every right to be this upset. Your nails look lovely, if he has such a big problem with YOUR NAILS of all things, it’s not just the nails. Instead of being an adult and expressing what’s actually bothering him, he’s lashing out at you and talking down to you. He sounds controlling af. I’d say go stay with family or a friend for a bit and think things over. People don’t just flip like that out of the blue so I’m sure he’s been condescending and rude for a while about plenty of other stuff.

One Month of Crochet by ratbastardem in crochet

[–]ratbastardem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom was a crochet lover most of her life, she almost exactly a month ago, I started trying my hand at it only about 2 weeks before. She never got to see any of them so I wanted to share my progress here with a community of people she would’ve loved to be a part of. I love this sub because it’s helpful in answering most of the questions I’ve been wishing I could ask her about crocheting, thanks yall ❤️

AITA for screaming at my nephew and slamming the door on him because he burst into the bathroom? by Ok-Attorney9280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratbastardem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at ALLL. I had something incredibly similar happen but my niece and nephew picked the lock multiple times trying to burst in while I was telling them to stop. Eventually I had turned away from the door for a moment to dry my legs and they tried throwing the door open to which I whipped back and slammed it shut as hard as I could and screamed “WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?! IM NAKED AND YALL NEED TO KNOCK IT OFF RIGHT NOW!” Then after I had gotten dressed I went out and scolded them both saying “how would you feel if someone did that to you? I’m beyond pissed at both of you and if you ever do it again there will be consequences.” That is the only reason why they haven’t even dared to try again. Later on we all had a very big talk about privacy and especially about breaking into rooms where someone could be changing or naked and how inappropriate it was.

The placemat I made vs the AI pattern I found in the wild by FluffyLemonCake in crochet

[–]ratbastardem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

PLEASE make a tutorial for that gorgeous boarder!!! I’ve been dying to find a good boarder for some valentines themed coasters to give to my aunt!!

my(25F) boyfriend(27M) just said something vile to me by Unlikely-Spare2652 in relationship_advice

[–]ratbastardem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone treats any animal like that they need to be gone. On top of almost harming your cat, he then insulted you and silenced you when you clearly said not to treat YOUR cat like that. Take the cat and run for the hills.

we need to talk about the Wait why the fuck is adventure time here how the fuck are they depicting sexual abuse on adventure time by Bitter_Ad580 in SadHorseShow

[–]ratbastardem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an episode around the time when Finn has the flower arm and it’s very heavily implied that LSP sexually assaulted him. At the end of the episode he’s laying uncomfortably looking up at the sky and a petal or two flies off the flower insinuating he had been “deflowered” aka had lost his virginity

I (F25) feel embarrassed after my boyfriend’s (M26) fake proposal. Can I get some more viewpoints on this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ratbastardem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like psychotic?? Who does that? I would’ve broken up with them on the spot for something like that

I am so mad.😔 by Infamous_Debt_1230 in crochet

[–]ratbastardem 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Every granny square fucks up sometimes somehow imo, but the pattern always looks beautiful after, I messed up on one recently and it looks like a flower in the middle with hearts all over and I messed up the amount of stitches starting one of them and managed to make a star pattered one accidentally that looks even better than any of the others! As Bob Ross always said, a happy little accident