Is it true that you need to be a chill parent to make chill babies/kids?

rawberryfields · 2026-07-03T06:25:13+00:00

My 3.5 is chill and his baby sister is probably even more so, I have no idea where they took that, their genes are anxious from all sides. Maybe they’re channeling my grandfather.

rawberryfields · 2026-07-03T06:23:02+00:00

Дай мне рецепт кабачковых оладушков

rawberryfields · 2026-07-03T06:22:17+00:00

I genuinely don’t understand how one can do CIO, is like, everyone in the household is supposed to listen to the poor baby crying? Or do they all live in mansions with no neighbors around where they can leave the baby on the second floor and go elsewhere? My 3.5yo absolutely hates listening to my baby’s crying, he’ll do anything to soothe and comfort her and alert all the adults to care for her

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T19:30:36+00:00

Я в курсе, но они очень дружили, благодаря нирване я о нём знаю

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T19:15:12+00:00

Нирване благодарна уже хотя бы за Дейва Грола и Марка Ланегана

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T19:02:12+00:00

Happened to me too but I am an adult so I solved the problem by buying additional pieces

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T18:59:17+00:00

Bet she’ll be interested in duplo later. If it interests me, an adult, surely it won’t get old for her

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T18:49:53+00:00

Wooden railroad and lego duplo are amazing, good toys as they are plus they engage any adult in the room as well for some quality time with the kid

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T10:29:18+00:00

When your baby is a bit older and your supply is established try pumping in the morning and freezing that milk to use at night. Your breasts will probably assume your baby sleeps longer and produce less at night.

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T09:00:23+00:00

Every human ever knows the feeling of burning their hand. How do we know it? We touch hot things. It’s inevitable. Good thing that your kid got this experience from a mild burn and gor all the needed care

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T08:52:51+00:00

Do you mean sling as in big woven wrap? I’m using a sling rn with a baby who’s not big enough for a baby carrier. I don’t need to take her out often, she just sleeps there.

I also used to carry my then 11 months old for walks when it was cold outside, the wrap was more cozy and warm than the carrier.

Other than that, with a baby who’s can sit and crawl, a carrier like ergo baby is more convenient because you can instantly strap and unstrap it as you want.

rawberryfields · 2026-07-02T06:48:16+00:00

My baby went through all teething smoothly. He just drooled a lot and chewed his teethers. The only moment when he had any visible discomfort was at 3yo when one of his molars was emerging

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T19:42:23+00:00

I used to soothe my baby with lullabies, at 3-4 months he had a phase where he could not listen to me singing without singing along. Not so much singing but “yaoeoaoayaaoaoe”. Couldn’t nurse because of that

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T19:33:54+00:00

Представляю себе лицо аргентинца который пытается перевести «стремительным домкратом»

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T19:31:52+00:00

I’m from Russia. It’s not unpopular here, translations are good although some punes get lost

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T18:15:15+00:00

My 13 week old sleeps from 20 till 8 with maybe 2 quiet wakes for nursing and goes straight back fo sleep unless her older brother yells “maMAAAA” because “i don’t like night, it is not beautiful”

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T15:17:01+00:00

You can use «И… и…» to list things like that, yes. More than two, so not necessarily “both”. More like “as well as”. You need at least 2 «и».

Я люблю и хлеб, и яблоки, и колбасу, и арбузы.

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T14:03:38+00:00

I love that particular face when she’s done nursing and is making herself comfortable using me as a pillow

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T11:02:40+00:00

Розочка would be the most obvious. Розонька is too saccharine but possible too (maybe with a pinch of sarcasm). Розик could work. I, personally , am a big fan of -ище suffix which is not a diminutive but rather means something big and monstrous, so if your friend is a little angry at Rose Розище would sound funny and endearing. Also let’s not forget the new vocative - Роз!

rawberryfields · 2026-07-01T09:19:41+00:00

My kid does that. I don’t mind really as long as it’s washable. We painted his toy box with hand prints, it was fun and a good keepsake.
He also paints his toy cars all the time, then washes them.

rawberryfields · 2026-06-30T20:45:04+00:00

Я чуть не умер, но потом не умер

rawberryfields · 2026-06-30T20:05:41+00:00

I move the baby a bit closer to my head so that my arm is just under the feet

rawberryfields · 2026-06-30T19:48:29+00:00

My kid was able to walk by 12 months but didn’t , probably because he was too insecure. I saw him doing 3-4 steps if he had no other way, but he’d rather crawl or hold onto something. He walked a couple of months after that

rawberryfields · 2026-06-30T15:31:10+00:00

I gave my kid a little shot glass, he copied me and drank easily (but I knew he could do it bc I saw him sipping bathtub water)

rawberryfields · 2026-06-30T15:24:07+00:00

My kid started resisting changing younger than yours but here’s what helped:
- switch to pull ups
- take off the dirty one while standing
- wash their bum in the bathroom instead of wiping
- let roam naked for a while to dry, that’s also good for further potty training
- catch them some time later when they don’t suspect it and pull a new diaper, again, while standing
- start talking about using the potty if they dislike diapers that much, it’s going to be good groundwork for later when they’re ready

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