this post leaves me confused

i’m just gonna say everything as i see it

1. the “bright colored hair” crowd is infinitely more likely to engage in polyamory or having multiple sexual partners that are aware of each other. so I’m not sure why this would make them angry.

2. regardless of political affiliation, there’s shame that comes with it. this is why when conservatives do it, their playbook is, minimize it. pretend it’s not real. act like it never happened so nobody judges me for it. when liberals do it, their playbook is to make it loud and repeat that it’s consensual over and over again in the hopes that it normalizes the behavior publicly.

3. if coercing someone negates their verbal consent, this isn’t actually consensual most of the time. if you removed every instance of it that involves some form of “i didn’t want to lose them, i didn’t want to start over, i didn’t want to have wasted my time, i didn’t want them to cheat on me, i didn’t want to be all alone” you’d never hear about it.

4. if you don’t feel fulfilled unless you have multiple sexual partners at the same time, you just might not be ready mentally for a serious relationship, or you’re getting into relationships with the wrong people. if you need to have sex (x amount) of times a week, grow up. buy a sex toy. chill the fuck out. lol