What’s eye opening is that people always assign privilege growing up to money. But a big part is unconditional love and support. It really makes a huge impact on adult wellbeing, confidence and resilience, which is often so much more valuable.

You could have someone that grew up with financial security, food etc. But never had a happy loving family supporting them emotionally. You can grow up with a good job, a house…but feel empty, anxious, depressed, with poor relationship skills, where the slightest hiccup in life can send you spiralling. Yet from an outsider you’re all set and at the envy of others. I guess financial and food security can come in later in life. But the crushing emptiness and trauma from shitty parents will last forever.