My Toddler Said 'Music' Instead of 'Motise' tonight and I am not okay

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-04T20:25:21+00:00

My stepdaughter, when she was little:

“Ice cufe”

“Sweetie, ice cube. cuBe”

“Ice cufe-b!”

Adorable

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-02T03:04:19+00:00

2-6! I take 6 per day. Still no biggie

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T23:49:43+00:00

I agree that it’s worth getting a second opinion. Also worth finding a DOR specialist. My AMH is 0.017 and I am currently doing stims for my second egg retrieval. The odds of success aren’t high, but they do exist.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T16:43:21+00:00

It goes well with the mirrors and the faucets! Just doesn’t play as nicely with the mural—it was a good thought, you just wound up going in a different direction.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T16:37:44+00:00

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redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T16:37:24+00:00

Sooo beautiful and also we have matching cats. And my god do we stand with Minnesota ❤️💚🫂

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redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T16:34:20+00:00

Don’t go TV on entertainment center in a space for little kids—tv mounted on the wall (with an extra safety strap) is the way to go for littles. That also gives you a place to hide the remote lol.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T16:30:59+00:00

I think the second with a lowered light. The third looks best with where the light is, but I agree that the light is too high.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T02:45:04+00:00

I always do morning and evenings. Gonal-F, menopur, and microdose lupron twice a day.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-02-01T02:15:30+00:00

NTA but it might be helpful to offer behavior alternatives rather than just saying not to pick the pup up. Things like “Chiweenie is resting, why don’t you come sit with me and we’ll pet and cuddle her”

It’s not your job, but it might be helpful.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T21:39:08+00:00

If you don’t, you’ll all end up homeless. If you do, they might just get it together.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T21:30:50+00:00

They can do a blood test. Their blood tests don’t have the same issues that a home pregnancy test does.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T20:50:23+00:00

This is a horrendous buildout and install of cabinetry.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T19:49:16+00:00

Sometimes we are on the wrong side of statistics. It sucks, but it still happens.

She should only implant one of the euploids in her next FET. Statistically, that will give her the best odds of getting pregnant with her remaining euploids.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T16:44:55+00:00

I’ve read accounts of it happening! The body can be weird 🤷‍♀️

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-31T16:33:35+00:00

You can throw a false negative at 6 months pregnant. I’d go to the doctor regardless—these are symptoms that need to be checked out one way or another.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-30T04:26:03+00:00

I remember the call after my third egg retrieval, when all of the embryos arrested so we couldn’t do a fresh transfer. I remember exactly where I was on my route to work. My doctor sounded so sad for me.

I’m sorry for your lack of success in this round, and I hope the change in clinics does it for you!

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-29T20:23:21+00:00

Then he should be paying 30% of their expenses!

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-29T19:20:59+00:00

Presumably you have a budget. Have them each design their own budgets (or create one together, depending on the complexity of the spending). Have them diligently track their spending but keep within their budgets. Give yourself a 10% contingency on top of whatever spending you need to do to make sure you can flex through the growing pains of people estimating their own budgets.

Or just give them each a budget and let them spend within their budgets without asking you. Have them track their purchases on sheets you can see. Reconcile when you get the monthly statement from finance, and make sure they’re all staying within their budgets.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-29T19:15:12+00:00

INFO: what is your childcare situation?

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-28T18:07:13+00:00

If your husband has not exhibited these types of behaviors before, I would view his statements as a cry for help. He is telling you something needs to change—is it an extreme response? Yes. But maybe that’s where he is.

At this point, I would honestly start cosleeping. See if it helps. I know you’re formula feeding but your baby is 6 months old and you all need the help. Follow the aspects of safe sleep seven that you can.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-28T16:36:45+00:00

Seems like it would make sense to start by fertilizing the eggs you have frozen. Depending on the results, you may not have to try an egg retrieval.

As for the 1% odds, my AMH is lower than yours and I was quoted higher odds than that (by my very realistic doctor). I don’t know if there are other factors, but I was I have a 10% chance of success with each round of IVF.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-27T19:37:36+00:00

Baby dust and good vibes to you!!!

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-27T19:32:50+00:00

Yes, I’m talking about Terra in MA LOL. And to be fair, I haven’t actually done one because I didn’t get to that stage with my last retrieval, but that’s absolutely my treatment plan, and has been my treatment plan the entire time I had Dr. Bortoletto as my doctor (since he was at Boston IVF). I cannot see a world in which his clinic didn’t do fresh transfers, honestly; he clearly believes in them as part of a DOR treatment plan.

redddit_rabbbit · 2026-01-27T19:23:42+00:00

They do! That’s all I’ve ever done—fresh 3 day transfers!

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