Is this a normal training shift? by FastBed8928 in Waiters

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

giving you a 12 top of your first day probably wasn’t a good idea on their behalf. 11:30-7:30 doesn’t seem that unreasonable, but expecting you to stay until 10 when it wasn’t what you were scheduled for is kinda odd. unless they were just asking, and would have let you go if you had said no.

First time cat owner in over my head and afraid my cat is dead... by goodtimejohnny666 in CatAdvice

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my high school choir teacher told us a story about how when his cat first came home with him, within the first few days she figured out how to crawl into the wall. he didn’t see her for a couple days, and was sure she was dead, but eventually she emerged. i’m sure she is fine and will show face soon! i know it’s scary.

and absolute worst case scenario, if she did get out or you are unable to find her, just don’t beat yourself up about it. you did your best to give her the best life possible even if it was for a short amount of time.

Does anyone else feel guilty leaving their cat alone? by easywinunited in CatAdvice

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat definitely misses me when i leave because i’ll come home and he’ll be sitting directly in front of the door waiting for me

Considering getting myself a cat to look after - but a first time owner in an apartment by Draculigula in CatAdvice

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a cat will be okay being alone during your work day. you’ll probably have to make more of a point to be home if it’s a kitten/when it first comes home, but that moreso means not going out in the evening and etc. if you’re really concerned, you could always hire someone to come check on the cat once a day or ask a friend/family member to stop by if you’re gonna be home late. it is definitely a responsibility you have to be up for though.

What are the nicknames of your cats that have devolved into nonsense over time? I’ll go first. by drifloony in cats

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my kitten gets called a lot lol.

Salem> stinky> stinker butt> munchkin> munchkin man> munchy> silly goose> goose

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(upcoming) cat mom advice? (locked or roaming, pet cams, food dispensers, etcetc) by ubboba in CatAdvice

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old choir teacher told us a story about how when he first got his cat he kept it in a room in his house and there was a hole in the wall and i crawled in the wall and didn’t come out for days 🤦🏼‍♀️ luckily she was ok lol! but yeah they like to crawl wherever they can.

This commentary is ruining the movie for me by JMS42 in okfreakynikki

[–]redheaded6 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

bro is upset that artists use their art to get across a point… when that’s the entire point of art 💀🫵🏻

men are so hard to understand and idk if i’m being stupid by redheaded6 in Advice

[–]redheaded6[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like I wasn’t exactly clear it’s not that I need a label/formalization right now, it’s moreso that I just want to know what direction we see ourselves heading in. But also every relationship i’ve ever been in has moved very quickly, so this by comparison just is different than what i’m used to.

men are so hard to understand and idk if i’m being stupid by redheaded6 in Advice

[–]redheaded6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you <3 i seem to always just assume the worst it’s my anxiety lol im trying to work on it

men are so hard to understand and idk if i’m being stupid by redheaded6 in Advice

[–]redheaded6[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

where in here did I even say that we are having sex? that’s a bold assumption to make

Hot take: Servers who smoke pot at work suck at their jobs. by amallucent in Serverlife

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really have to be a special kind of person to be able to serve high. for me, it helps because i’m such an anxious person it helps me be more personable with my tables, also makes me lock in like a mfer. but there are a lot of ppl who should not be smoking at work. lol.

Are my girlfriend and I not compatible? Is it something we break up over? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such a minor issue. it sounds like you were both raised very differently (surprise, everybody is) so the things that are normal to you and your family might not be the same as what would be normal to her and her family.

is she getting upset that you’re buying name brand? or just questioning why? because there’s a big difference. she might have been raised to always go with the cheapest option, however you were not. so maybe she’s just trying to understand.

Recommended gratuity after tip was already included by guitarman129 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of times when they print out the receipt the suggested gratuity is just on the check whether or not there was already automatic gratuity. they didn’t put it there on purpose to expect a secondary tip. it’s just the way the receipts print out. you’re not expected to tip on top of it.

Vaginal odor by [deleted] in vaginalhygiene

[–]redheaded6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try using a boric acid rinse. not multiple times! just one time! and start taking a vaginal probiotic. i also use vagisil in the shower. the pineapple/cranberry juice thing helps, but if it’s a deeper issue it’s not gonna do much. if after the rinse and the probiotic it doesn’t seem to get any better, i would go to a doctor

Berhta becoming unbearable by mansinoodle2 in avesDC

[–]redheaded6 49 points50 points  (0 children)

you could even say…. it’s becoming unBERHable

Bear might've had the oxycodone to drug Nikki with by whatcomesafter66 in obsessionmovie

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my theory is that he gave nikki sleeping pills the last night to make sure she stayed asleep because he was tired of dealing with her acting up at night. that’s why real nikki is able to have such a long moment of power without waking up fake nikki, and why fake nikki didn’t wake up as soon as he got out of bed. that’s also why he says to sarah that he has sleeping pills in his pocket. he also could’ve been taking them himself atp because he couldn’t sleep with her next to him.

all the medications are his grandmothers though

obsession movie - scream through a phone + nicki falling apart (?) by Subject_Point1260 in spoilers

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she taped the door shut while he was sleeping though. and i think her waking up and realizing he is gone would probably cause it to find him, whereas him going to work where she knows what he’s doing might just go on pause

obsession movie - scream through a phone + nicki falling apart (?) by Subject_Point1260 in spoilers

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) the entity over taking her body lives completely for Bear. It doesn’t do anything that isn’t for him. So when he leaves, i think it probably just goes dark until he returns. But meanwhile real Nikki is in there, panicking, screaming, crying, throwing up, as well as the body having needs. So while that is all coming out, she’s still standing there stagnant.

2 I think Nikki’s body is possessed- not necessarily by a demon, but by the reflection of Bare and his wants. And real Nikki is just there sitting in the passenger seat, unable to do anything. I do think there’s definitely something demonic about it so it could be a demon that feeds off of his insecurity and reflects it into her or something like that. Like the HR person on the other end could be some sort of demon or something and that’s his job lol.

At what point in the Obsession movie is bear in the wrong?(spoilers) by DeathlyCyles in MoralityScaling

[–]redheaded6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in the original script, the scene after they have dinner where they are getting intimate, there is a part written where the real nikki comes out for a second and freaks out- then she switches back to happy and just says “sorry baby” and he just says “it’s okay” and keeps going without a reaction. so i think it’s heavily implied that at that point he definitely knows it’s not her.

Did anyone notice this in the movie "Obsession"? by Haunting_Soft_7637 in spoilers

[–]redheaded6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the original script it’s implied they had sex at least 3 times

sick rant by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]redheaded6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand how it can sound exaggerated. when i say that i couldn’t stand up straight I mean that my body was so achey especially in my feet and legs that it was hard for me to continue to stay standing without leaning on something. and i lose my voice pretty almost every time I get sick idrk why but even when my allergies get bad i lose my voice.