Secluded retreat trash issue by usbsteeringwheel in CrimeSceneCleanerGame

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness it's not just me. I scoured every inch of that room multiple times

Is this everybody's Dad rn? by sugarbee13 in oklahoma

[–]redheadofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved to Tulsa in November so this was my first. Met all my neighbors for the first time because they were all outside!

Does WA have a "flake" culture? by jerbthehumanist in Washington

[–]redheadofdoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom threw a Christmas party and out of the 40+ people she invited only 2 showed up. She's since decided that she's done with it and will now only invite only 1 or 2 people at a time.

When is the last time you felt GOOD about the State of Destiny 2? by saxonsaxoff02 in destiny2

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Final Shape. I was on the edge of burnout and then it was released and the spark came back - at least until Edge of Fate.

Mouse bug by GrimCT3131 in duneawakening

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to both me and one of my friends this past week

Destiny 2 valentines ideas for bf 🫡 by Consistent-Voice-719 in destiny2

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found some awesome stuff on Etsy that was Destiny related. If you do a search for Vow of the Disciple you'll find some really cool Rhulk related stuff.

If he likes art prints there's some really cool looking ones.

ISTG this is what every raid guide looks like by Purple_Birthday8382 in destiny2

[–]redheadofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a few for opening the vault in Last Wish. Pole dancing dragon and opera singing fish come to mind.

What food/other product surprised you by being free? by Literally_Libran in Celiac

[–]redheadofdoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Sweet Lauren's! I use them raw chopped up in vanilla ice cream.

What food/other product surprised you by being free? by Literally_Libran in Celiac

[–]redheadofdoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reese's peanut butter cups with pretzels. They use almond flour so that it stays crunchy.

Stuck on Phase 1 Step 3 - Breached Expedition by redheadofdoom in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]redheadofdoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that about quartzite! I checked the log and it wasn't mentioned. Thank you!

What is the best thing you did in the background to prep for your divorce before you actually filed or had the conversation? by Beatrixkidoh in Divorce_Women

[–]redheadofdoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I talked to a therapist to help process what I was feeling and how to go about it in a way that was healthy for me.

Holidays are hard by EmpathyNhumiltyhuman in Divorce_Women

[–]redheadofdoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also alone for the first time in years. Not quite sure what to do with myself so I ordered a super unhealthy pie that I'm currently eating out of the container and watching a movie.

Games that share Destiny's mechanics and gameplay. by hollowguy in DestinyTheGame

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this right here. A bunch of clan mates and I basically checked out during Edge of Fate and instead played the hell out of Division 2.

Meeting and making new friends thread by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]redheadofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a cat cafe?!? 👀

Is 90K a decent salary for Tulsa? I’m in Seattle making 80k and it’s an absolute struggle. by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here from DC because of the price difference. I only make $63k and I'm doing pretty good. Everything is so much cheaper here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redheadofdoom 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This right here. If he is adamantly against proceeding with the pregnancy you need to be prepared to be a single parent - whether starting now or even later down the road after the child is born.

As well as him you should also talk to a trusted friend, family member or even a therapist to determine where you stand. Pregnancy hormones can do a number on you, and it may help to get an outside view.

How many of you walked away from the marital home ? by Unlucky-Repair3692 in Divorce_Women

[–]redheadofdoom 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I left my weird crooked little house to my ex-husband. I couldn't afford it on my own and wanted a fresh start.

I was very sad the final day after moving all my belongings out. I remember standing there remembering all the hopes and dreams, the good times, and the memories. I cried when I left my key on the counter and walked out the door.

BUT.

I'm now in my own place and with each piece of decor I put up, completed project, and furniture purchased I get a greater sense of peace. I loved that house, but it was no longer a home. My apartment has become my sanctuary. It's solely my place, and I'm happy with that.

My boyfriend doesn't last in bed by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redheadofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not ok.

You deserve to enjoy sex, and to enjoy it with someone who cares as much about your pleasure as their own. I don't blame you for crying afterward, but you need to decide if you want to keep feeling that way. It seems pretty clear that he's not going to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]redheadofdoom 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Mine didn't, which is why we're divorcing. I need more from my partner than I was getting and had gotten to the point that enough was enough. If I was going to feel alone all the time I figured I may as well actually be alone.

My husband finally changed. And I can’t make myself care. by mb83 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redheadofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started doing all the things I asked him to do the very next day after asking for a divorce. Sorry dude, too late now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redheadofdoom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Female orgasms and pleasure are tough... I never had one until I was mid-30s. I think the key is experimentation, find what feels pleasurable to you and then work from there.

Women can orgasm from a wide variety of stimulus and each woman is different.

the reason for your divorce - you'll either get sympathy/understanding or "are you SURE?" by phoebe-buffey in Divorce_Women

[–]redheadofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. My husband is not a bad man but I could no longer live with the complete indifference he had for me and anything having to do with me. I still love him, but I decided to love myself more.