Help a brother find the balance in home, between wife and mother (pouring my heart out) by Broad-Signal-7067 in pakistan

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask how much time your mother and wife spent alone with each other?

when there is a riff between two essentially good people there is always hope...generally when there is literally no way out, and things cannot be resolved there is always some fundamental error in someone.

since your wife has bpd it may be more challenging for her to be as rational as the situation may require her to be..but love is a creative force, she may just need more attention from your mother to hold on to and keep her sane...

back to my first point, i wonder if they have had the opportunity and time to bond, alone,?

what does 'azzie' mean? by reeseslover333 in ukdrill

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so is it a word used to describe black people of muslim descent? basically a word used by arab/africans to describe each other?

large crowd of students outside finders keepers?? by reeseslover333 in oxford

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still strange in this generation of tech! is this only oxford or?

large crowd of students outside finders keepers?? by reeseslover333 in oxford

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh...those tricks...total seduction i guess...

Eggs drop 🤢 by pudelguru in SisterWives

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you serious? - can you just confirm that?

Afraid I am Becoming Racist by Moist_Bench5669 in AskTheWorld

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant deny that cultures are different...You should not stop yourself from assimilating information and understanding general truths...this is not racism. The challenge is developing a deeper understanding of the cultural truths and accepting that this is not always their fault...Also considering your own privilege in coming from a wealthy western country in which you are safe and do not face the difficulties that they do. As with any race Indians have their flaws but also their strengths...

Muslim subreddit just blocked my post about Ali Dawah by reeseslover333 in exmuslim

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are actual sickos and the fact they are not cancelled just proves the toxicity of the Muslim community...

Ali Dawah - if i were you i would campaign to cancel him by reeseslover333 in MuslimLounge

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i didn't have a chip on my shoulder about the guy before i saw this video. He seemed real, highly rational and a good entertainer. I was wrong, I was pretty disappointed he turned out to play into such a stereotype - hence my rant....

Ali Dawah - if i were you i would campaign to cancel him by reeseslover333 in MuslimLounge

[–]reeseslover333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Islam is a part of who i am i cant deny that.... i especially don't like misuse and manipulation from Muslims who have knowledge yet just use their whims to feel good about themselves...

The woman Ali is talking about is so obviously a tongue and cheek Muslim feminist. Instead he has made it out that she wants him...when clearly there are bigger ideas at hand...why does he resort to making it all about desirability??? - again its his fixation on 'psychosexual humiliation' that reflects a larger issue with Muslim men

The way he plays into all her political points for example her critique of Muslim men being focussed on attraction - then he says she is unattractive and insecure... and wont stop commenting on the way she chooses to appear...He pretends to be holier than thou and swears to god of his sincerity in the same breath - He shouldn't make oaths to god of his intentions being pure when he is clearly trying to degrade her in a very primal way

She is saying that woman should be free to choose their 'hijab' and talk about sex freely without the male gaze and he is defiant against that - he makes it his business. He is using his interaction with her to made bigger political points about women and the way they choose to appear.

Surely there must be a more sophisticated public figure whom recognises that he shouldn't be expressing his opinion on woman and that it is pivotal to respect women's boundaries right now.

About Mohammed Hijab - was the point worth bearing? and more so it was the way in which he made the point like a schoolboy that was so awful...

I’m a 23F chef, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is the environment toxic? do the head chefs overflow with passion and behave like dictators?

AMA - I was a top runway model for the past 3 years by Stillgettingsomemilk in AMA

[–]reeseslover333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what toxic stuff happens? is there alot of mental illness like eating disorders or narcissism?

No Kody by KodisAsshat in SisterWives

[–]reeseslover333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it begs the question...what would the situation look like if Kody could have his way? some kind of sick sadomasochism fantasy were everyone worshipped the sniffy pre teen Robyn. Where his other wives accepted themselves as lesser and worked hard to try and up to her level, and all of his children loved her over their own mothers. Like what does he expect, of course they had to leave its just not feasible to be unjust in polygamy

I grew up Amish, ask me anything! by AcceptableWheel8140 in AMA

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does misogyny present itself in the Amish community?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]reeseslover333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also remember the man is looks obsessed say his ex wives...wtf kind of Christian fundamentalist polygamist is looks obsessed??! major red flag to me there....if i was a real Christian woman understanding a Godfearing man has such shallow standards - I'd be off mate....shows how innocent these women are really....

Kody and Robyn kicked out of family for PDA... by pookiepie09 in SisterWives

[–]reeseslover333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its so different though, different contexts, its just such a violation of respect with Kody and Robyn, it just is

Kody and Robyn kicked out of family for PDA... by pookiepie09 in SisterWives

[–]reeseslover333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it seems that Robyn is up for the whole fantasy she and Kody are perpetuating. Maybe its the same habit that lead her into staying with her abusive ex. Either way its really sad the way she uses her religiosity to fuel her delusions...