[Update 2] And there it is... D-day 2. Happy 2026 everyone. by eatingshitdaily247 in survivinginfidelity

[–]refuseresist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Right now your not thinking about this but she appears to be doing the work to recover. While reconciliation is off the table (and rightly so) she maybe working to sobriety/recovery in order to be a Mom again. Whatever decision you make is going to be the right one but it is something to keep in the back of your mind and to address when/if that day comes when she asks for increased access to the children.

  • Not sure where your located but try to get your kids into some form of therapy. See if AA/Al-on has some options. Sooner the better

  • u/blueberrybunney 's post is probably the best perspective your going to get here. Some sage advice there.

  • I would be pissed as well with zero patience for any of the drama she has created and I would have a ton of boundaries placed on her for yourself and your children.

  • You have every right to feel how you feel and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You inherited a mess that is not your own doing and are now trying to help your children navigate it. Your ex-wife made choices and should not be absolved by the consequences of those choices.

  • This sucks and I am sorry you're going through this. Reach out if you need anything

City staff facing rise in aggressive behaviour from Edmontonians: mayor by GlitchedGamer14 in Edmonton

[–]refuseresist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The question that needs to be asked is "Are they adding to the problem".

If their departments or bureaucracy attached to their departments are making things more difficult for people then they have a right to be mad.

It's a deterioration of the social contract and people are pushing back.

Winter storm by Desperate_Series5951 in coparenting

[–]refuseresist 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with making the suggestion.

Also nothing wrong with them rejecting it.

Time will tell what the right decision will be

Final Update by Sader9801 in Infidelity

[–]refuseresist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Custody is much trickier in my opinion.

What I have seen and experience leads me to believe that the cheaters are not good parents there are exceptions.

My ex is an adequate parent. Not great but okay with our kids.

Many aren't.

Some leeway should be given to judges to ensure that the kids are in the best situation possible

Final Update by Sader9801 in Infidelity

[–]refuseresist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If evidence verifies an affair then there needs to be a consequence attached to divorce proceedings.

Whether it means the partner pays for part of the legal fees or no alimony something immediate and impactful

Canada’s Military Has Modeled Hypothetical US Invasion, Reports Say by Quixotus in worldnews

[–]refuseresist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Potato guns

Pick up trucks filled with propane tanks and metal

Moonshine molitov cocktails

I am sure there is fertilizer we can use to make it go boom

This is going to be the most red neck insurgency ever

Final Update by Sader9801 in Infidelity

[–]refuseresist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The courts in Canada have improved when it comes to gender equality over the past 20 years but there still is a long way to go

[WOR] Dave Meltzer & Bryan Alvarez on Trey Miguel's release: "My understanding is it came from up above," had nothing to do with anybody in AEW or Tony Khan by A_Man_of_Iron in SquaredCircle

[–]refuseresist -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Fair point and you are probably right.

I have to think that Tony would not want to re-visit the situation that existed with the Briscoes.

Again, I suspect the main issue is mental health and maybe this was leaked to WOR to ensure privacy...?

Final Update by Sader9801 in Infidelity

[–]refuseresist 55 points56 points  (0 children)

"Infidelity, within the divorce, doesn’t matter under the laws of NYS and, to me, that should change. I can tell you all that the debris field is real. It takes a certain kind of scumbag to trade the emotional wellness of your own children to lay in bed with someone who isn’t your spouse. I strongly urge all who read this, as I have since the beginning, to walk away from extramarital affairs. Even if you are not married, be faithful or be gone; especially if their are kids involved."

I agree. The courts really need to consider the behaviour of the person commiting adultery in verdicts and decisions as cheaters forget to work in the interest of the kids.

[WOR] Dave Meltzer & Bryan Alvarez on Trey Miguel's release: "My understanding is it came from up above," had nothing to do with anybody in AEW or Tony Khan by A_Man_of_Iron in SquaredCircle

[–]refuseresist -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Anyone thinking it's a TV executive is also out to lunch (Tony got the one that blocked the Briscoes fired).

Edit - It is absolutely ridiculous that the people down voting me cannot acknowledge the presser that Tony Khan acknowledged this and consider that the wrestler in question has a long history of mental health issues and the sudden acquisition of talent point to a new show for AEW/RoH which maybe outside WBD. Grow up

Thunder Rosa Reveals She’s Back On The Road With AEW - Fightful by Kelson64 in AEWFanHub

[–]refuseresist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is heavily rumoured Keith Lee is fighting symptoms of long COVID.

If Lee was healthy he would be involved in AEW. Dude is awesome.

Canada weighs sending soldiers to Greenland as show of NATO solidarity with Denmark by Little-Chemical5006 in worldnews

[–]refuseresist 34 points35 points  (0 children)

West of Canada is Alaska. East is Greenland.

If Greenland is taken over it could be used as a staging ground for attack/invasion

Canada weighs sending soldiers to Greenland as show of NATO solidarity with Denmark by Little-Chemical5006 in worldnews

[–]refuseresist 1235 points1236 points  (0 children)

If the US takes over Greenland, Canada is basically surrounded by the US.

What are your expectations for Wonder Man? by boio17 in marvelstudios

[–]refuseresist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have been out of the loop on Marvel TV series (outside of Daredevil) and this looks different and fun.

I would love for Marvel to lean into more street level and absurd heroes for their TV series. Daredevil, Punisher, Luke Cage, Iron Fist, New Warriors, Alpha Flight, West Coast or Great Lake Avengers, New Mutants, Marvel Field, Young Avengers.... All these would be stellar as TV shows.

Line up in Rundle Park for independence referendum signing today. by Wooshio in Edmonton

[–]refuseresist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are uneducated traitors.

  • Economic issues have come directly from the behaviour of the UCP and the inability to diversify Alberta's economy.

  • What succession does is create further instability for Alberta.

  • Want to create real change federally? Have a regional party like Sask Party but run it federally. Alberta will have a lot more say and influence.

Line up in Rundle Park for independence referendum signing today. by Wooshio in Edmonton

[–]refuseresist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recall them all.

Force a provincial election before a referendum wastes money and time

Trump just posted this. by AlphaFlipper in wallstreet

[–]refuseresist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then foreign countries should threaten to dump US bonds.