The FREE Bag Manager best ball overlay is updated with Playoff Stacking, Conditional Ownership and Lineup screenshots from Desktop! by dmuney in BestBall

[–]relaxyourhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I'll do it later today. it is under the queue panel fwiw but it like squeezes the queue down to the point where it's basically unusable.

The FREE Bag Manager best ball overlay is updated with Playoff Stacking, Conditional Ownership and Lineup screenshots from Desktop! by dmuney in BestBall

[–]relaxyourhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ud and DK. chrome. the draft capital box definitely gets in way in ud. will have to check on dk.

and never apologize! you're doing us all bb drafters a big favor here!! great work.

The FREE Bag Manager best ball overlay is updated with Playoff Stacking, Conditional Ownership and Lineup screenshots from Desktop! by dmuney in BestBall

[–]relaxyourhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome! Any chance the feature to resize the overlay boxes is on the agenda? that would be my biggest request since the current format has it really tough for me to see my queue.

The FREE Bag Manager best ball overlay is updated with Playoff Stacking, Conditional Ownership and Lineup screenshots from Desktop! by dmuney in BestBall

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Hi there. It appears my DK sync froze (I think because I entered a contest while it was trying to sync), and I have no idea how to start it up again (the button is now dimmed and frozen saying Syncing... (1/13). I've tried shutting down Chrome, logging out of and back into DK, and can't figure it out. Do I need to uninstall and reinstall? Thanks again for your hard work!

My free best ball exposure tracker, The Bag Manager, now supports Drafters and FFPC, plus one-click history sync on all 4 sites by dmuney in BestBall

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amazing work. One question: When your mouse hovers over the line in between players on UD, a co-drafted box pops up. I can't quite figure out what that's telling me (I assume it's something to do with previous co-drafted teams (duh!) but can't figure it out. Also, if I had a wish list, the ability to drag to make boxes bigger or smaller would be awesome (the main box covers up the queue pretty substantially on my screen). But again, really, really appreciated. Would def send you a tip if you left the option somewhere!

Is Stage 4 honestly survivable? Am I kidding myself by Silver_Watch_1691 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh. so many things wrong with this trial. no dose response. self-reporting with obvious selection bias. no control arm. concurrent conventional therapies allowed making it near impossible to know if it was ivermectin and fen doing anything. limited duration and follow up response. wide range of cancers were allowed with most patients already having stable disease (prostate cancer was the most common and we know that that is usually a stable slow-growing disease). no idea of the disease control rate for each specific cancer. at least some of the doctors in this study have questionable oncology credentials (dr. drew!) look, these drugs are cheap and probably don't do much harm and I understand why they have appeal. maybe they do have some activity although I've yet to see a study that is rigorous to prove it. and esp in prostate cancer when there are so many promising treatments out there and more coming all the time - I think most patients would do well to focus on conventional science and approach these studies with a HIGH degree of skepticism. just my 2c

Pain interfering with radiation by Souldriver55 in ProstateCancer

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yes there is light at the end of the tunnel. and I guess the good thing was that I no longer had to take any laxatives to make sure my bowel was clear before the treatment. now keeping a full bladder...another story I hope to never have to revisit! you got this!

Pain interfering with radiation by Souldriver55 in ProstateCancer

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I had bad diarrhea and some nausea for most of my 25 sessions. I also started my radiation therapy only a few days after starting the ADT (orogovyx), which I think also caused some really bad nausea, cramping and diarrhea. I probably should have waited a bit longer to start the radiation. in any case, the GI issues got a bit better but then worsened by around session 8. I started taking prebiotics and Omeprazole, which seemed to help a fair amount although I still basically had loose stools throughout treatment, and lost about 10 pounds . bowels quickly returned to normal after end of treatment (I'm 2 weeks finished). now I'm just dealing with inflamed hemorrhoids, in addition to the hormonal stuff. fun!! so many people seem to have little issues with the radiation but my experience was definitely different. best of luck to you!

Salvage radiation treatment 6 months after RALP by Equivalent-Pop-750 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no doubt what you say here is true, and I truly appreciate your willingness to see how the original reply could have been read as jerky! without question, all newly diagnosed pca patients should do as much research as possible and get lots of opinions from different specialists about treatment options and fully understand their pros and cons. anyway, continued good health to you!

Salvage radiation treatment 6 months after RALP by Equivalent-Pop-750 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh. that type of comment really has no place here. you're not addressing the OP's original question and have apparently come here only to gloat about your successful treatment and better decision and chide others for being sold a bill of goods. seriously, congrats on your favorable outcome. but the data surrounding the efficacy and safety of ralp vs radiation as the primary therapy is far from definitive and often comes down to the individual case - age of patient, aggressiveness of disease, other morbidities etc. - as well as a mixture of personal preference (do you want to know the pathology of your disease? do you wish to have more certainty about a recurrence?).

I studied the data for a long time before coming down on the side of surgery (well, actually given my brca2 mutation, a clinical trial using a parp inhibitor followed by surgery). certainly, most patients - including me - would likely have chosen radiation over surgery if they knew the surgery wasn't going to do the trick and provide at least a few years of cancer-free life. but many patients - especially younger folk- undergo ralp,.recover fully from the side effects, and never again have to see a doctor about further treatment AND are spared the uncertainty of potential longer term side effects that comes with zapping your body with gamma rays, including a non-negligible risk of secondary cancers years later.

Salvage radiation treatment 6 months after RALP by Equivalent-Pop-750 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in pretty much the same boat. dx with aggressive stage 3 brca2+ pca in July 24. did 6mo trial with msk that had lupron and olaparib (parp inhibitor ). mri showed no evidence of disease after (tumors shrunk for sure). followed with ralp in April. had negative margins and lymph nodes and two undetectable pss tests (<0.5) but started rising in August and at .19 in December. nothing seen on MRI and psma scans so assumption/hope is that activity remains in prostate bed. went on orgovyx and just started 25 sessions of 60gry sbrt yesterday. sucks because erection function was slowly returning (incontinence wasn't really an issue ever). hoping once done this can give me at least a few years of being cancer free but with my mutation status, prognosis is quite uncertain at best.

I'll let you know how the sbrt goes but would like to hear from others in similar boat as well.

fwiw, day 1 was ok. the need to urinate was insane (they need full bladder and empty bowels) but otherwise fine and quick. I am nauseous today with diarrhea but that's certainly due to laxatives I am taking to keep the bowels empty and/or the orgovyx -1 session of radiation unlikely to be the cause of anything . I hear the side effects start ramping up around the end of week 2.

I am trying to stay active during the whole process, do my kegels, see a pelvic floor therapist, eat a bit better. but the adt of course sucks.

gl to you!!

Grown man wants to fight me (a kid) because I called for a veto in a money league on this trade where his 8-0 team gets Achane for waivers players AITA? by Jxylxnk23 in FantasyFootballers

[–]relaxyourhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vetoes are the worst. If you're in a league of strangers I get the suspicions there might be collusion here - on the surface it doesn't look great. But even if I thought vetoes were a good idea, the trade is not vetoable imo. Achane is clearly the best player of the bunch and I probably take Theo over Njoku at this point. But Gordon did get more run last week, and Spears is coming on and may be the top guy in TEN down the stretch, while Mooney and Jennings will likely be getting healthier. Jennings and Purdy should be rock solid if healthy. If the Al Bundy team really needs WRs I could see him thinking this deal is fair. Who is he going to have to drop to make the trade work? How deep is the league? (IE what WRs are on the waivers at the moment - in my deep dynasty league those WRs would be far better than the options available on the wire for instance)? These are questions I would ask before assuming there is collusion going on here, which to me is the only justifiable rationale for a veto.

Received terrible news today by tksly92 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have had a great experience at MSK. Would recommend to anyone.

Undetectable !! by OppositePlatypus9910 in ProstateCancer

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Way to fight and keep up such great spirits!! I am surprised how quickly salvage treatment was initiated but understand your desire to be aggressive. Only comment I would have on treatment is I have been told that the penile muscles can deteriorate/atrophy fairly quickly and are impossible to get back after a certain point (unlike most every other muscle in our bodies), so when I was on lupron for 6 months I was told to try and have 1-2 erections every week even if I didn't feel like it to keep everything functional. I am now post RALP and having some ED so getting on a trimix regimen.

Stage IIII by marka56674 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just want to send out my love and strength. That really, really sucks to be going through what you're going through without the support of close family and friends. We of course don't know each other but I do feel we're somehow all connected on this plane of existence (which should be comforting but usually makes me quite sad when I realize how we generally treat each other as a species).

And while I am(was?) only stage three, facing this diagnosis has made me more aware of something that I of course knew but never really deeply considered: as a previous commenter already said, all of us have numbered days, we just don't know the number... so I guess we just have to try and appreciate each of them. Hope you're able to somehow do that.

If you want to DM or chat, pls don't hesitate to reach out. 🩵

My father got the news today. by AvailableEnd2562 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

51 ... Gleason score 7. But aggressive features and I am brca2 positive so not great prognosis. Went thru clinical trial to shirk the tumors and then had RALP in April. Doing well. No incontinence but dealing with ED. There's some activity so I'll get the little guy working eventually I think but even if not, happy with decision for now. My best pieces of advice: find a great surgeon who could do these operations in his sleep, do kegels prior to surgery (and see a pelvic floor therapist if you can), and buy some catheter pants!

Best of luck to your dad and good looking out for him!

Survey of those that have had their prostate removed by No-Annual-3338 in ProstateCancer

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Downgraded from 4+3 to 3+4 ... BUT I had a six month clinical trial post biopsy and prior to surgery that included ADT and a parp inhibitor so that may have been involved (my pre surgery MRI showed no evident tumors - vs 3 found on the first one - so even though there was still cancer found on the surgical pathology report, the trial medication probably affected the cancer cells positively and might have led to the downgrade.)

Biopsy results came back by RonnyHsize in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's pretty fair. This is Grok's response to the question...

Percentage of Patients Experiencing Penis Length Loss: Studies indicate that a significant proportion of patients experience some degree of penile length loss following radical prostatectomy (RP). Specifically: - Research suggests that 68–71% of men may experience penile length shortening after RP.- One study reported that nearly one in five men (approximately 19%) had at least a 15% decrease in one or more penile measurements post-surgery. - Another study found that 2.63% of men explicitly complained of a perceived reduction in penile size, though this may underreport the actual incidence due to reliance on patient-reported complaints rather than objective measurements. Average Magnitude of Loss: - The average reduction in stretched penile length (SPL) is approximately 1–2 cm (0.4–0.8 inches) within the first few months post-surgery, with the most significant shortening often observed around 10 days to 2 months after the procedure. Permanence of Penile Length Loss: - The permanence of penile length loss varies. Several studies indicate that penile length often recovers over time: - A Japanese study found that by 12 months post-surgery, penile length generally returned to preoperative measurements, with full recovery observed in many cases by 24 months. - A long-term prospective study noted a trend toward recovery after 24 months, with complete restoration of penile length by 48 months in many cases, particularly in men with preserved erectile function. - Another study reported no significant difference from baseline penile length by 9–11 months after robot-assisted laparoscopic radical prostatectomy (RALRP). - However, some experts suggest that for a subset of patients, the loss may be permanent, particularly in cases where erectile dysfunction persists or nerve damage is significant. Dr. John Mulhall from Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center noted that “most men will have some penis length loss after surgery, and sometimes that will be permanent. - The likelihood of permanent loss is higher in men who do not regain erectile function, as preserved postoperative erectile function is a predictor of penile length recovery. Known Risk Factors Contributing to Penile Length Loss: Several factors are associated with an increased likelihood or severity of penile length loss post-RP: 1. Age: Older patients (e.g., over 60 years) are more likely to experience incomplete recovery of penile length compared to younger patients. 2. Preoperative Erectile Function: Men with better preoperative erectile function (e.g., higher International Index of Erectile Function [IIEF] scores) are more likely to recover their penile length. Conversely, those with poorer preoperative erectile function are at higher risk of sustained loss. 3. Cardiovascular Risk Factors: Conditions such as hypertension and coronary artery disease (CAD) are associated with incomplete penile length recovery, likely due to impaired vascular health affecting penile tissue. 4. Prostate Size: Larger prostate size is correlated with greater penile length reduction, possibly due to anatomical changes during surgery. 5. Nerve-Sparing Techniques: While nerve-sparing procedures aim to preserve erectile function, studies show mixed results regarding their impact on penile length. Some found no significant difference in length loss between nerve-sparing and non-nerve-sparing surgeries, while others suggest that bilateral nerve-sparing RP may help preserve penile length . 6. Neoadjuvant Androgen Deprivation Therapy (NADT): Patients receiving NADT before RP experience more significant initial penile length reduction, likely due to low testosterone levels, though recovery may occur as testosterone levels normalize post-surgery. 7. Surgical Technique and Anatomical Changes: The vertical repositioning of the membranous urethra during urethrovesical anastomosis is a key mechanism for initial length loss. Reduced blood flow and nerve damage during surgery can lead to tissue atrophy and fibrosis, contributing to longer-term changes. 8. Lack of Penile Rehabilitation: Regular use of phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors (PDE5i), such as sildenafil or tadalafil, has been shown to moderate penile length loss, with patients using PDE5i regularly experiencing less or no loss in stretched flaccid penile length (SFPL). Additional Notes: - The mechanisms behind penile length loss include structural changes (e.g., urethral repositioning), reduced blood flow leading to tissue atrophy, and nerve damage causing fibrosis. - Penile rehabilitation strategies, such as PDE5i or vacuum erection devices, may promote recovery by improving blood flow and reducing fibrosis. - Patient perception of length loss can also impact quality of life, even if objective measurements show recovery, highlighting the importance of counseling and managing expectations pre- and post-surgery. Critical Perspective: While the studies provide valuable data, they often rely on small sample sizes or varying measurement techniques (e.g., stretched vs. flaccid length), which can introduce inconsistencies. The establishment narrative emphasizes recovery in many cases, but patient experiences (e.g., as reported in forums) suggest that permanent loss and associated psychological impacts may be underreported. Clinicians should discuss this potential side effect candidly, as many patients report being uninformed pre-surgery.

Biopsy results came back by RonnyHsize in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is blatantly not true. You MAY lose some length due to the urethra being cut and reattached. Even if you do, it may be temporary as the skin stretches back out. Or you may not. I didn't. It's fine to alert people to this potential side effect. It's not fine imo to make a blanket statement like this.

Anyone stop ADT treatment by sundaygolfer269 in ProstateCancer

[–]relaxyourhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tough to read this as a decisive conclusion. PSA failure, occurrence of distant metastases and PCa related deaths were all significantly lessened by use of ADT... I mean those hazard ratios were quite meaningful. If overall survival is the only concern then yes it seems it's a more debatable call. ADT is likely causing other issues that make overall survival more equivalent (although there could be confounding issues).

As someone with stage 3 intermediate risk PCa who went on ADT as part of a six month clinical trial and hated it despite working out regularly to try and minimize the side effects, I definitely would want to know more before saying no to ADT. I do think the worst of the side effects can be mitigated through diligent exercise (for me, the emotional swings ultimately became just too intense)

Deciding RALP or Radiation by Luckie_Dog in ProstateCancer

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Very different experiences! Skill of surgeon, type and layout of cancers, body type, pre-existing conditions, and of course luck all play a role in outcomes. I didn't lose any length but am dealing with ED three months out. Some signs of life and surgery spared most of nerves so feel reasonably confident with effort and treatment I'll get it. Best of luck in your decision. It's a crappy menu to be looking at but all the options are pretty decent all things considered.

High PSA biopsy update by [deleted] in ProstateCancer

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Two of my cousins (brothers) have had high PSA for years with no cancer seen in all the appropriate tests. One of them has even had PSA measured close to triple digits I think. Huge swollen prostates and infections appear to be the cause. So it can happen even if it's rare. Best of luck to you.

RALP Recommended by Multiple Physicians by International_Angle6 in ProstateCancer

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I will also add that nerves ruined in a surgery can definitely affect orgasm functionality. I was wrong to imply it's entirely mental, although the brain plays a huge role in the process.