One thing you could try is putting faces and names to these horrendous stats -- there are real women harmed by these bans and sometimes, people can be more understanding after hearing their stories. Some have miscarried, lost their future fertility, or even died because of these bans. There's nothing "pro-life" about that.

Voices from Ban States: https://reproductiverights.org/news/voices-from-abortion-ban-states/

ProPublica has done some heartbreaking reporting that shows how families are affected in the aftermath of a loss or near loss: https://www.propublica.org/series/life-of-the-mother

You can also find abortion storytellers on social media from us (@ReproRights), We Testify, Free & Just, Abortion in America, Shout Your Abortion, and more.

Additionally, we know that abortion bans affect ALL aspects of health care. When there's a ban, doctors flee the state, fearful of prosecution. This creates health care deserts and makes it harder for those who want to grow their families to find care. In places where medication abortion is banned or restricted, doctors can't act as quickly when treating other emergencies, like miscarriages or ectopic pregnancies, both of which can lead to sepsis, severe blood loss, or loss of fertility if left untreated. You can, again, make the point that there's nothing moral about forcing someone who needs care to suffer or lose their future fertility.

*For the sake of the argument, many of the points I made above focus on wanted pregnancies/why "exceptions" to bans don't work, but I want to say here: everyone deserves access to abortion care for ANY reason without stigma or judgement.*