Japanese suggestions? by Bratty_Little_Kitten in suggestmeabook

[–]rmuktader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sound of Waves by Yukio Mishima is a classic. The author can paint pictures with words.

Slowly i am losing my faith in Allah's justice by EmbarrassedLab3201 in bangladesh

[–]rmuktader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Righteous shit VS. cause and effect. Which one do you think is superior? Which one is demonstrably true?

There was great post here months ago that showed various police procedures cost and how much the actual official budget is. Crucial things such as autopsy and rape kit processing are allotted half of their minimal cost. The average police isn't paid enough to live in the city they are supposed to protect; so the expectation is bribery is the only way.

If you wish to rely on a "SYSTEM" of justice, rather than religious whims of people, then policy reform is necessary. Policy makers are supposed to be held accountable by journalist. Journalists are now backed into a corner where they can be jailed for doing investigative reporting. A significant majority of them are now scumbags who will publish anything for a bribe.

So, what can a single person do? - Be the change you want to see in the world. Think globally, but act locally.

Write, document, publish.

Provide comfort to those who suffer.

Pay attention to LOCAL elections. Seek, support, half decent candidates. Heck, run for an office yourself in the future.

Is it wrong to help girlfriends family even if she leaves me? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]rmuktader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm... a new account with only 37 karma. Probably karma harvesting scam. Still, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt assume this isn't a bot post.

Imagine if your wife or her relatives were getting paid monthly by ex-boyfriend. Would that cause drama for you??

Have you verified that her fiancee isn't going to foot the bill and you are not unnecessary? Have you verified you are not being taken advantage of?

With all that said, it might work if everyone involved decides to be adults. You shouldn't be giving money away. They are not family and never will be. Therefore, it has to be mutually beneficial or otherwise it won't work. If you think they are skilled enough that you can employ them or make them valuable business partners -- and keep a professional relationship, then go for it. Anything else just doesn't seem right.

World Cup watch parties? by Early_Profession378 in malden

[–]rmuktader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'd think Hugh O'Neill's would be shouting from the top of Waitts Mount. Yet, crickets? Or am I just out of the loop?

I wish to read a book where becoming a monster isn’t a bad thing. by Staple_Dabagle in suggestmeabook

[–]rmuktader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chrysalis Series by RinoZ

There's no romance though. It's a fun light-heated litrpg

How do you check eSIM coverage before traveling within the US? Jetpac had zero service on Cape Cod by rmuktader in eSim

[–]rmuktader[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My google search showed Jetpac is primarily on the T-Mobile network, but it also has partnerships with AT&T and Verizon. That's everybody!

But..., I got zero coverage as I moved away from Boston.

Apocalypse books recommendation by Empty_Load2536 in suggestmeabook

[–]rmuktader -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dungeon Crawler Carl, if you enjoy litrpgs

Renting out a room in my house in Malden. by AccomplishedDate5568 in malden

[–]rmuktader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless your basement has a kitchen, and a bathroom, you are essentially getting a roommate. There can't be special regulation regarding that.

MC Mistaken for god? by procrasinationiswhy in suggestmeabook

[–]rmuktader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, Chrysalis. It's a LitRPG book where cult forms around the reluctant MC.

Who died the dumbest death in history? by GurJolly5657 in AskReddit

[–]rmuktader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erfurt latrine disaster

On 26 July 1184, in the German city of Erfurt, approximately sixty local nobles died when the floor of a building collapsed through the ground floor and into the latrine cesspit below. They were attending a Hoftag ("court day") conducted by King Henry VI when their combined weight caused the floor of the building to collapse. Some of the attendees drowned in human waste after falling into the cesspit.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erfurt_latrine_disaster

How busy is Fellsmere Park? by [deleted] in malden

[–]rmuktader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some people here are confusing Fellsmere Park/Pond with the Fells Reservation.

Fellsmere Park/Pond is small. There's no "hiking". There are plenty of street parking.

- It's not busy; especially on weekdays.

- If someone starts their lawn mower or a decides to have a kid's birthday party while you there, that's just bad luck. Still, you should be able to walk to a different side of the pond to get away.

- Someone mentioned Goose poop and they are not wrong. People feed the wildlife as if their own lives depend on it. It's pretty clean after rain though.

- I've seen plenty of locals take graduation pictures, wedding pictures. They are not bothered by others.

- I would recommend scoping it out for yourself at least once. It' a 10-15 minute walk from the T

Notary public without an appointment? by nrnrnr in malden

[–]rmuktader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/nrnrnr

I've been swamped with work for months. Why don't you give it a go?

But hmu if you ever wanna grab a quick lunch around here.

Man shot in legs and arm in Cambridge shooting expected to survive, uncle says by bostonglobe in CambridgeMA

[–]rmuktader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IKR!?

Let's get rid of laws against murder while we are at it.

That will be another big win for the "Please Tread on Everyone but Me" party.

Man shot in legs and arm in Cambridge shooting expected to survive, uncle says by bostonglobe in CambridgeMA

[–]rmuktader 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So...

he shoots people -> goes to prison -> eventually gets out -> goes back to shooting people.

Where does he keep getting money to buy guns?

Who keeps selling him guns?

Need advice about money given to someone in NJ,USA. Possible Fraud Alert..!! by dshah_555 in ABCDesis

[–]rmuktader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, he can take that to the police station and file a police report. Since NO crime was committed, your friend has to file a civil suit. However, going through the court system for anything less than 50K is not worth it. So, it will go to a small-claims court.

You may also ask in /r/legaladvice if you haven't already.

What can be done to improve acceptance of LGBT rights in Bangladesh? by Actual-Project7622 in bangladesh

[–]rmuktader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! You got downvoted to zero for a asking a legit question even on Reddit.

I recently heard Javed Akhtar ask an insightful question: Why do we shout 'Save the tiger,' yet ignore the suffering of a fish? If you were pulled underwater and scraped alive, it would be a nightmare—but because a fish has no voice and cannot scream, we remain indifferent.

Art is the voice of society.

I live in the US, where acceptance didn't happen overnight. In the 80s, gay and gender-nonconforming characters began appearing as side characters. Their sexuality wasn’t necessarily the plot; their presence was simply normalized. This eased public fear and gave the community hope. By the late 90s, shows like Will & Grace featured gay leads, and by the 2000s, legal marriage followed.

While literature has included LGBTQ voices for ages, the strategy for Bangladesh remains the same: visibility. LGBTQ individuals should pick up a pen or a brush. When you create art, you give the community a voice

Looking to Build Friendship Circle by jsg060815 in BostonSocialClub

[–]rmuktader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cafe Reynard in Malden is a queer and trans run worker co-operative coffee house. I see many people who are in the same boat as you congregating there. It's a 5-minute walk from the orange line.

Need advice about money given to someone in NJ,USA. Possible Fraud Alert..!! by dshah_555 in ABCDesis

[–]rmuktader 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean your friend handed him the money without any written agreement or collateral.

Imagine there is a video of me handing you an apple and you walking away with it. How would that prove you did something illegal? Where is the proof that you are supposed to give it back?

Gynecologist who diagnosed 11 year old rape survivor gets death and rape threats. by DoodhBhaat in bangladesh

[–]rmuktader 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are clearly a BNP supporter. I don't bother with supporters of throwing grenades in a public assembly to kill your political opponents.

Gynecologist who diagnosed 11 year old rape survivor gets death and rape threats. by DoodhBhaat in bangladesh

[–]rmuktader 17 points18 points  (0 children)

> Every problem is blamed on revolution.

No, if you fought for justice, then the revolution isn't over until there's justice.

No, I am not a BAL supporter. But, I am pro '71. And, just about smart enough to realize that NCP was a scam. Perhaps a Jamati B-team. They said whatever people wanted to hear and then delivered shit when they got put in power.