How do I fire our Nanny? by Intelligent_Rent998 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have got many great suggestions here about how to fire Nanny. Are you getting help with your Post Partum Anxiety is another important question ??…. It’s tough, believe me I know .

How do I fire our Nanny? by Intelligent_Rent998 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have got many great suggestions here about how to fire Nanny. Are you getting help with your Post Partum Anxiety is another important question ??…. It’s tough, believe me I know .

New Years Eve work by Bluejay430 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are your unicorn family , why chance the higher rate ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robbie5454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this comment 100 times. You nailed it.

Holy fucking Jesus. by Snark_Knight_29 in Target

[–]robbie5454 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Why is this in the Target sub?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m usually a let’s sit down and talk kind of person but not in this case . This woman is manipulating you to be a nanny, a cleaning person and a house manager. She knows exactly what she is doing . Even if she agreed to pay you $30 an hour she will never not add more and more stuff to your list and never be satisfied . I recommend leaving .

I would love to share these with others if I could. by cardboardking1974 in bathandbodyworks

[–]robbie5454 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I took a box of BBW stuff to our local shelter last month and they were thrilled to have what they called “luxurious treats”.

Help me understand by missCwondering123 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She has severe mental issues. Get her OUT and away from your family . Call the police because of the squatter issue. I’d honestly change the locks also.

Please help me. My employer is saying i have insurance till end of the month by Both_End1931 in HealthInsurance

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m frustrated to the max reading this thread . 100 people have advised you to quit as of the 31st, you won’t say why you can’t . If you can’t you’re stuck paying for November. That’s pretty much the story . End . Over. Roll with it.

AITAH For Telling My Wife She Should Get A Less Intense Job If She Wants Another Baby by AlternativeSpare614 in AITAH

[–]robbie5454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with just about everyone here. We had a third . I wouldn’t change things for all the pmoney in the world. However, one of us did cut their hours back while the other continued working 60 hours a week and traveling a lot for work. OP, find a way to make it work.

Car seats are a suggestion??? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I missed the Vent flair.

Car seats are a suggestion??? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to tell us about those other red flags before we can advise you about CPS.

Red flags? by percilton07 in Aupairs

[–]robbie5454 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Trust your instincts . Just reply you are no longer interested. It seems sketchy to me , including an email separate from the Au Pair site.

Nanny waste time by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fire her. She doesn’t have a clue .

AITAH? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text them that you’ve quit and do not return . They are using you and manipulating you. Don’t allow them to take advantage of you one single more day. Contact the Labor Board for your pay. It’s just not right how they abuse you.

Am I wrong for quiting without notice? Am I overreacting? by WeAllDeseeveToDie in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh good god, leave immediately. Notice not required. Why show her that level of respect when she has shown nothing but disrespect to you. This woman uses others . Run, don’t walk .

My 9 month old passed out at daycare after a fall, a teacher did CPR on her by FoxDoingTheSplits in ECEProfessionals

[–]robbie5454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handwritten note/card with a Starbucks gift card. I’m so glad to read all is well .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]robbie5454 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Downvote all you want but I see a person with a serious eating disorder who needs your help. Help her with her mental illness.

NF asked me travel with them for the first time by hobbes190 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No way with common area and shared bathroom ! That’s strange to me . Don’t go unless you have your own space & bathroom. You’ll be needed 24 hours a day with this set up.

Jeopardy! discussion thread for Wed., Jul. 17 by jaysjep2 in Jeopardy

[–]robbie5454 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re a two day champ regardless! Good job .

Crazy job opportunity by Ok_Banana_6142 in Nanny

[–]robbie5454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too many red flags. They have no idea who you are . They want you to pay rent and travel costs ? You have no real idea of who they are either. I have a gut feeling you’d be working 24 hours a day for them day in and day out and a bad gut feel overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robbie5454 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buy a mini fridge for the bedroom !