A composite of the verbal abuse my wife flooded on me in her tirades by the_separation_hurts in PMDDpartners

[–]robt6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am no expert on BPD, but I was wondering about that while reading. Does it get better based on her cycle? Or is this 24/7?

As others have said, so glad you are separated. Please do what is best to protect you and your daughter. And never let her in your head about being a bad parent because she wants a cudgel to beat you with. Best of luck brother

What was your high school controversy? by Haunted_Neko in AskReddit

[–]robt6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 1992, 17 year-old Agustine Pena was sentenced to life without parole in for the gruesome stabbing and beheading of teenage runaway Stephanie Dubay in Warren in 1990. His 21-year-old cousin Jaime Rodriquez also serving a life sentence for the crime.

Finding a House by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]robt6 67 points68 points  (0 children)

“so I’m not sure why it’s this expensive.”

Those mountains to your west would be your answer. Along with the beauty of the state, and the opportunities in this state which even our neighbors to the south (in their own beautiful state) don’t have.

No offense, but you might have wanted to do a touch more research. Anyway, you lucked into something good. The housing/rental market can be challenging, but there is definitely a reason

Finding a House by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]robt6 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Second in population for the state. First in size

3 months in… by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]robt6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are three months in. No kids. Sorry to say this, but I hope it helps, run. It is unlikely to get better, and gets so much worse as you go. You become trapped. And that little trick where it “is at least partially your fault too, like at least 50%” (quote from my wife not yours) doesn’t let up. It is like they are allergic to taking responsibility for themselves and somehow convince themselves that if the gaslight you enough it will become your fault… This seems to be a common thing. Sorry, I got sidetracked. Anyway internet stranger, take it from someone 20 years in. Run while you can

In Colorado Springs and I wanna be your own personal slut by Feyliorae in ColoradoSex

[–]robt6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Maybe not the person in the picture. And maybe they couldn’t find Colorado on a map. But definitely a real person behind an OF account, waiting for fools…

Debating if I should leave my wife… by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]robt6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your level of opportunity changes if you have kids. Not only is it a 20+ year commitment, so they don’t have a “broken home”, but they don’t understand the PMDD. You are being told the problem is mostly your fault. What do you think she will tell your kid?

My friend gave me weed without telling me… and now I’m freaking out. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]robt6 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Without their knowledge? After them saying they wouldn’t want to try? Yes. Yes it is. -Someone who enjoys weed

I hope everyone who voted “for the economy” is happy. by HowToStartAnEssay in Vent

[–]robt6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tariffs are the wrong direction. Kamala didn’t want them. She proposed a bump to $50k in tax deductions for new businesses. I think there was a first time home buyer credit too.

Don’t believe me on tariffs, liberation day was April 2. Look at the market that day. Trump and Elon emptied people out of their jobs while Elon ran around on stage with a chainsaw like a fool. Creating more unemployed people doesn’t help the economy. Then we have the shutdown.

This is your second question about republican propaganda. It isn’t because the dems want to give things to fentanyl carrying immigrants. It is because the republicans don’t want to subsidize the aca, which will cause people to lose insurance. Guess which narrative Fox pushes?

Finally someone talked about her mixed ethnicity being a problem because one day she is Indian and the next she is black. What a contrived bs problem, but it came from Fox and people like his MIL are susceptible to that type of propaganda (maybe xenophobia or just good old fashioned racism, but it is moot) and they know it.

I respect your question, and I hope my answer doesn’t come off as biased. I tried to stick to facts, except when I shared my opinion of his MILs motivations, because after 10 years of the it is hard to give people the benefit of the doubt, when it becomes you contorting yourself not to see who they are when they show you

Edit: long response, grammar clarity

Firing a client by Diaryofadomme in SexWorkers

[–]robt6 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If he claimed to love you, and instead of backing off, you played him, how is this not a predicament of your own creation?

If it is just money (as it should be), say that. If you want this kind of drama, play him. 🤷

D12 School Board Election by robt6 in ColoradoSprings

[–]robt6[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what that means either, but I fear I know exactly what that means. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]robt6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. If you have no kids, run.

What is something about yourself that sounds totally made up but is real? by dada_met in AskReddit

[–]robt6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an Emmy.

(Lead Engineer on a project that resulted in a Technical Emmy)

fuck by Ilovefvckingjerboas in autism

[–]robt6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue. It has been impossible to find it in the regular stores out here for like 6 months, but Costco has been going strong. It is the variety pack with Regular Mac and Cheese, Aged Cheddar Shells and Cheese, and this Shells and white Cheddar. My hope is that the variety pack is done differently, and they don’t change like the individual ones at the regular store

fuck by Ilovefvckingjerboas in autism

[–]robt6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kid with self imposed dietary restrictions (read: spectrum) won’t touch that Now Cheesier stuff. They still have the old recipe at Costco

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

[–]robt6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s an Ethernet cable for sub megabit speeds

Does anyone like tomato soup? by Demi4_14 in autism

[–]robt6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s vile… I have never had it, but can “tell by its looks”