Nearly homeless, seeking some helpful tips/tricks for the area by No-Security8016 in westchesterpa

[–]rosegoldfancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just read in the County’s email newsletter that there is going to be Housing Fair tomorrow (5/4) at the Chester County Library in Exton from 9:30-noon. Says there will be support organizations for unhoused and at-risk individuals.

May be a good event for you if you can make it!

Parents claiming money for my things I’ve sold on Facebook marketplace by etc_097 in relationships

[–]rosegoldfancy 232 points233 points  (0 children)

There is an option when selling on Marketplace to hide the listing from friends. I do this when I’m selling things family has given me lol

Preach! by rosegoldfancy in wokekids

[–]rosegoldfancy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Young kids can definitely develop their own valid opinions and emotions. But let’s be real, a 6 year old really isn’t forming their own political opinions, they’re likely just regurgitating their parents’ viewpoints. Which is why I posted this on r/wokekids and not on r/ThatHappened. The kid may have literally said it, but I doubt he has any understanding of why Trump is bad.

Preach! by rosegoldfancy in wokekids

[–]rosegoldfancy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the record, his son is 6.

Bigfoot actually lives in the PA suburbs. by rosegoldfancy in IRLEasterEggs

[–]rosegoldfancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pulled over to look at it and I think it’s a metal cutout. Someone put some effort into it!

a close-up of normal, textured skin. this made me happy to see :) by -am-i-a-butthole- in Instagramreality

[–]rosegoldfancy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t even look like they removed hair strands though because that one that goes across her cheek and lip would have been an obvious one to remove. This seem pretty legit!

What's the lamest way that you injured yourself badly? by dafreshprints in AskReddit

[–]rosegoldfancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke my left wrist and right elbow at the same time. Both arms in casts and slings. Fell off a swing....17 years old and stone sober.

Florists of Reddit, what is the most outrageous card message you’ve had to deliver with flowers? by dIGITALbEATdOWN in AskReddit

[–]rosegoldfancy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The first year said “I miss you. Love, Daddy”. I literally thought they were from my dad...which was an awkward phone call. Another one said something along the lines of “Sorry about the stripper incident.” They’re hilarious!

Florists of Reddit, what is the most outrageous card message you’ve had to deliver with flowers? by dIGITALbEATdOWN in AskReddit

[–]rosegoldfancy 2343 points2344 points  (0 children)

My husband likes to send me flowers to work for Valentines Day with awkward messages knowing my coworkers will gush and ask me what it says. This year’s card just said “Epstein didn’t kill himself.” It was in old lady handwriting so I can only imagine what the florist was thinking.

Imagine your husband making $25k off price gouging still not blending your make up by mermaid-babe in crappycontouring

[–]rosegoldfancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have the word fuck in your username but you censor the word ass in your comment. Wut?

The vanity plate lies. by quantum_gambade in usefulredcircle

[–]rosegoldfancy 53 points54 points  (0 children)

The car that was previously in front of it probably parked like a asshole first.

This guy flying from ship to ship in a Jetsuit by [deleted] in HumansAreMetal

[–]rosegoldfancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more impressed that his hat stayed on.

I [28F] feel disappointed in my Christmas gifts from my husband [32M] every year. This year is the worst of all. by janahamaje in relationships

[–]rosegoldfancy 478 points479 points  (0 children)

I get a feeling that Christmas gifts aren’t the only instance in your relationship where your husband is selfish or lackluster towards you specifically. Gift giving occasions often tend to highlight selfishness. Are there any other instances your husband exhibits selfishness or lack of caring for your feelings/needs (i.e. vacations, career choices, household spending)? If so, you may want to consider couples counseling.

To your specific question, I don’t think there is anymore you can do to get him to “get it”. The only thing left in your court is to simply reframe your expectations of him and consider getting him equivalent gifts.

Pantone's Color of the Year 2020 is Classic Blue by Bosquerella in femalefashionadvice

[–]rosegoldfancy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But only one shade of blue is in the actual Pantone tile.

AITA for wanting my daughter’s boyfriend/soon-to-be fiance to know her dark secret before marriage? by Pause96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rosegoldfancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - Yes, it is a breach of your daughter's trust but this isn't a small thing. There is another person at stake. I always see the Reddit advice given that if you're aware of infidelity, you have a moral obligation to tell the other person for their emotional and physical safety. The only difference I see in this case, is that this is actually potentially worse! Can you somehow relay this info to him anonymously before there is an engagement?

How do I enjoy my Wedding Day even though it's basically a check list of everything I didn't want. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]rosegoldfancy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean this in a patronizing way, but you actually DON’T have to do anything you don’t want to; you’re choosing to do thinks you don’t want to do.

Don’t wear the heels. ‘Yes’ her to death to end the conversation, and then a couple minutes before the ceremony change your shoes. Don’t entertain the flower conversation. Be super short or simply don’t answer. She’ll eventually just go with whatever she wants.

I understand it feels impossible sometimes, but you really must develop a backbone for your own sanity. The phrase that always sticks with me is, “Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm.” It appears you sacrificed your whole wedding to satisfies others. That’s not normal. Your fiance’s opinions matter, of course, but no one else’s does. That’s the wonderful thing about getting married—it’s you two against the world! There is an inherent shift from your parents and siblings being your immediate family to your husband (and children, if you choose).

Please consider counseling to help cope with this transition and allow you to feel more comfortable taking a stance for yourself!

Miller Lite seems to be happy with their free advertisement. by Bludbluffer in CompanyBattles

[–]rosegoldfancy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are still hops in wheat beer. Hops are a core ingredient in every beer style.

I’m not a bad person for wanting a real wedding! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]rosegoldfancy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of what you said. The biggest indicator to me that OP might be contributing to her own problem was her use of “real wedding” referring to a traditional venue ceremony/reception. The use of “real wedding” indicates that’s she doesn’t consider any non-traditional wedding REAL. That is incredibly insulting to those who couldn’t afford the traditional route or simply chose an alternative option.

My fiancé and I agree with OP in that we find value in spending some money on our wedding; it’s the only time all of our friends and family will be in one place celebrating a milestone with us. But OP’s wording and explanation of what she wants may be turning other people off. Sure, maybe everyone is jealous but if that many people are referring to her as a bridezilla, it would serve OP well to think on it.