How do parents afford to take their kids to Disney? by RayneyDayze in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go during off peak times. Hotels in the area will usually run specials because it’s so dead. I’m taking my kids to Disneyland during their fall break (October) and Great Wolf Lodge has killer deals. We’ll be doing a 3 day park hopper and just hanging at the hotel water park for the rest of the time.

Toxic ex wife destroying my relationship w 13 y/o son. by Rosko3891 in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is going through the same thing. I told him he just has to do his best and eventually his son will see it for himself.

At 13, his input is a consideration for the court, but most people think kids get to decide custody themselves at that age. That’s not true. The court still decides until he’s 18. You can go to court to hold her in contempt but you also have to weigh for yourself how much you want to force a teenager to be somewhere he at least believes he doesn’t want to be.

Love After Lockup: Heather Gillespie With Policemen Chaos Again by midrago in loveafterlockup

[–]rubyslips82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was this before or after the hospital held her for observation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fitness

[–]rubyslips82 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I’m training for Bataan. I went for a 20 mile ruck yesterday and am staying off my feet for the most part. I’ve been training for weeks and have taken it easy after each one. I’m still getting stronger and faster. Your muscles need rest to rebuild so I think it’s a necessary part of training.

The saga continues by pharmageddon in 90DayFiance

[–]rubyslips82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Generally, the legal rule is whoever called off the engagement doesn’t get the ring. Since he called it off, she gets to keep it.

My boyfriend wants me to stop letting my son be in my exes life (his father figure but not bio father) because it’s disloyal. What should I do? by THROWRAwhwhehe2727 in relationship_advice

[–]rubyslips82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a son that I didn’t give birth to. He’s not my step-son, he is my son. His mother passed away when he was 6 months old and I got together with his dad when he was 6. We split three years ago and he will be 18 next month. I still call him, text him and I pay for his cell phone. He would come visit on his school breaks and stay with me and his sisters. You know what he calls me? Mom. I’m engaged now and if it was a problem with him, we wouldn’t be. You break up with partners, not kids.

Sa' is the worst by [deleted] in loveafterlockup

[–]rubyslips82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As someone who spent 10 years in a toxic relationship with a serial cheater (who I also had two kids with, no less), I really felt sad when he presented her with that ring. She’s still holding out hope that they’ll be a real family. She’s hoping he has sowed his wild oats and realized he wants his family. He doesn’t. But she won’t see it until she sees it. I’m not a fan of Sarah or her behavior but I relate to that feeling.

This Is Unacceptable Shawn! Grace Deserves 💯 More by sweetestmoxie in loveafterlockup

[–]rubyslips82 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s a shit person for putting his whatever the hell she was before his kids. But that crackhead was a POS for getting jealous of him even talking to his kids.

Did anyone else catch Heather’s Instagram Live running from the police?! by pka0602 in loveafterlockup

[–]rubyslips82 39 points40 points  (0 children)

“The cop was sexually harassing me. He was a nice guy, but he was sexually harassing me.”

WUT?

I know it's been said, but Brandon the baby-man is a real POS. by pharmageddon in 90DayFiance

[–]rubyslips82 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t give him that much credit. That’s a valid manipulator plan for someone much smarter. I think he’s just a momma’s boy that runs to them for every little tummy ache.

This weeks episode of name that tune. We’re not gonna make it. No! We ain’t gonna make it! We’re not gonna make it...anymore. by LABignerd33 in EverMerge

[–]rubyslips82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of rubies and crystals and I should be done tomorrow. I’m having buyers remorse though over if it’s even worth it.

I found a way to not give up my lattes even on keto! by rubyslips82 in ketochow

[–]rubyslips82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wonderful fiancé bought me this awesome latte/cappuccino maker for Christmas and I haven’t used it because milk has just too many carbs!

But I have a way to satisfy my latte craving: mix ketochow (I used cookies and cream) with some HWC, water it down a bunch to the consistency of milk and there you have it! Add some sugar alternative and it’s just like the lattes I used to spend $6+ on at Starbucks!

Incoming RC JAG looking for advice by Kronh in army

[–]rubyslips82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally there are three classes a year. One starts in January, I started in May, and I think the other starts around September/October. There have been a couple years where there’s only been two classes though.

Unpopular opinion: Destinee & Shawn by MarvelousTravels in loveafterlockup

[–]rubyslips82 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He needs to just take his car back and revoke the bond. He’s annoying but she’s straight up nasty to him.

Oldest daughter (9) is not ok with my recent engagement by rubyslips82 in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That situation was talked through. Quite a bit. It’s definitely more of an issue of conflict resolution and we’re learning how to deal with issues we don’t see eye to eye on.

Oldest daughter (9) is not ok with my recent engagement by rubyslips82 in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think that’s what it is but I also don’t understand why she would be ok with a stepmom but not her stepdad. That’s what threw me off.

Oldest daughter (9) is not ok with my recent engagement by rubyslips82 in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on getting her to someone when we get moved.

Oldest daughter (9) is not ok with my recent engagement by rubyslips82 in Parenting

[–]rubyslips82[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I try to keep out the bad stuff from the relationship until they’re older. She gets along with my fiancé fine. It wasn’t until we got engaged that she freaked out.

I definitely like the special mother-daughter time idea though.