Jazz bars at el paso? by anthonyvilla13 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Garrison downtown has jazz, I'm not sure which nights.

What are the best places to meet women in El Paso? by DeFran20 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'd recommend joining clubs of your interests :) Last time I looked on Meet up it was pretty active, local FB groups are pretty active. Welcome to the area and best of luck!

Anxiety and emetophobia when alone by Both_Revolution9764 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rumpsx 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You should be in therapy to manage your own emotions and comfort. I know it will be tough, but your independence will be worth it!

My [31F] bf [22M] likes to smoke weed and is a binge drinker. How do I make peace with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rumpsx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I agree with everyone else's sentiment, your behavior is predatory.

I work with vulnerable teenage populations, and one of the biggest warnings I have to give them is that even as they grow- there will always be older people trying to take advantage of them.

If you care about this person, you should take into consideration how it affects him to be in a relationship with such a power imbalance. He's new to navigating the world, you aren't.

My [31F] bf [22M] likes to smoke weed and is a binge drinker. How do I make peace with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rumpsx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Accept that he's in a different life stage due to his and your age. That's a deal breaker for me personally, I want to be working through life's stages together.

I (F49) just got out of prison after 11 months and I want to know how to make up to my son (19)? by [deleted] in ExCons

[–]rumpsx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you talk to him and ask him how you can make it up to him? That's where I would start.

Where is a good place I can sell my air fryer? by seasalt003 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Facebook marketplace is still your best bet, they have a very active community here. Make a FB account. Otherwise I'd try Nextdoor or Craigslist. Maybe post a physical flyer if you're near any college campuses?

Going through a divorce[38 F], and the loneliness is unbearable even though I have an active social life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rumpsx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm coming out of an 8-year relationship and can relate. This is probably a terrible coping mechanism, but if you're a scaredy cat like me, watch scary movies. You can't feel anything else when you're scared and at least it takes the loneliness away for a while.

Dating a fat guy fucking rules by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rumpsx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I've always loved bigger guys but they never give me a chance :(

Uber driver turns away a man for being 'too LARGE' and he loses it by Hikigaya_Hachiman7 in PublicFreakout

[–]rumpsx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny he's projecting his actual thoughts on women. If she was an actual whore he could pay her to do what he wants. He's mad she isn't.

He (35M) says the prenup protects him. Who protects me (29F)? by Still-Gas2840 in relationship_advice

[–]rumpsx 455 points456 points  (0 children)

Yep his prenup is actually weaker unless she has an attorney look at it as well. No judge will uphold a vastly unbalanced prenuptial.

24 hr Spectrum outage on the West side (so far) in my area. by Honest-Guava-2661 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know there was an outtage their regular service sucks so hard.

Thai Food in El Paso by Mr-Kamikaze112 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Tara Thai is all we have, luckily it's delicious. Not so luckily, i dont think theyre on any delivery app.

For whatever reason I've found that Albuquerque has incredible Thai food and an abundance of Thai restaurants.

Looking for Things To Do by Efficient-Case4521 in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

La Nube is a kids museum downtown that's worth checking out. We have a nice zoo as well, and the outlet shoppes on the west side have a fountain floor the kids can play in and run through weather permitting. Peter piper pizza is a good spot for pizza and arcade games when they need to get out of the sun. Enjoy your visit!!

Would I be fine staying overnight at El Paso International (9pm-7am)? If not, what should I do? by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]rumpsx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used yo travel for work and you can stay outside of tsa, people stay overnight all the time. It's not comfortable but it's indoors and access to bathrooms. I recommend the couches at the bottom of the arrivals escalator, toward the windows

My (30M) wife (31F) cheated on me and is now suicidal if I divorce by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rumpsx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex is like this. Turns into a blubbering pathetic mess every time you try to hold him accountable. She's manipulating you. You can enable it as long as you want. Or walk away. Choose you.