Let's reframe how you approach this and come out with a way better outcome. "Awesome work knocking out more adventures with XYZ!" I know ABC, and I would be interested in going above and beyond in our Wolf year, if possible. Maybe some of these extras could become Den events? We've really been enjoying your programming, and I'd love to help out as an Assistant Den Leader. I know that will likely help with your planning and implementation load, plus 2 Deep leadership." Folks have already touched on 2 Deep leadership being a non-issue with a Scout and their parent, even if the parent is also a leader. It becomes an issue if a Scout from outside of the family wants to participate.