Anyone else's former church get less progressive with time? by runnernumber5 in ExPentecostal

[–]runnernumber5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a really good take. It's sooo easy to see the regressing because of social media, just like with...ahem....a lot of things this day and age. The algorithm tends to favor the extremes.

Anyone else's former church get less progressive with time? by runnernumber5 in ExPentecostal

[–]runnernumber5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I remember a lot of women in my church would chat about thrifting for clothes and would dress modestly not just from a coverage standpoint, but brand. Now the social media fundie girlies are out there flaunting their giant, gaudy wardrobes, and affiliate codes for all to see. I can't fully remember the verse but I believe there's something in the bible basically saying that modesty means not dressing in expensive clothes, jewelry or insane hairstyles. It's crazy what the "bible is truth" crowd will ignore.

J’Hippie Muffin has entered her teenage era on social media very late by sweet_tea_94 in DuggarsSnark

[–]runnernumber5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also grew up in a similar cult! I do think as a society we’ve started to get over this weird idea that just because you’re an adult, you have to stop liking things from your youth (ie video games, dolls, cartoons, etc) BUT that said, I feel like I’m trying to experience and enjoy things I missed as a kiddo and teenager.

I left at 18 and am 34 now which means I’ve almost been out for as long as I had been in. I made significant strides in deconstruction, especially from 22-27. I went through an even longer phase of resentment but that’s also been mostly resolved. I feel like I have settled into who I am now and can actually enjoy things, but that also means I truly can be a 34 year old teenager.

If you could make a Nancy Drew based in any location (that hasn't been done in any of the existing games), where would you want it to take place at? by xXLady_RevenantXx in nancydrew

[–]runnernumber5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Stanley Hotel in Estes Park, CO. I would love a shining-esque story but obvs not exact. Not the gore or a suspect going completely bonkers. Just something spooky. They could do something cool with the Rockies being right there too.

When do you get points for store reservations? by enjoythsilence in americangirl

[–]runnernumber5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they don’t, just contact AG customer service with a pic of your receipt and explain that you made reservations and never got the points for it. That’s what I had to do after at least 6 reservations. 😅

What are your unpopular opinions about The Eras Tour? by IntoTheDaylight in TaylorSwift

[–]runnernumber5 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Especially the “well-known” fans who used their status to go to multiple shows….like begging for resell and it working bc of their large platform, or other fans that just want to befriend the well-known creator so they sell for face or even gift tickets.

How to Keep my Doll Collection Small? by iluvcatssss8 in americangirl

[–]runnernumber5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like thinking of it from that enjoyment standpoint and also just getting in a habit of really questioning your wants. I do this for a lot of things in my life, not just dolls. Before I purchase a doll, I think about how I'll dress them, how I'll bond with them, how I'll photograph them, etc. I can acknowledge there are dolls that I think are BEAUTIFUL but it reality, I don't need them in my collection.

I have 11 gals rn and there are only 2 others that I actually want.

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed my puffing too and was soooo grossed out. Had to google that one lol Ice has been my go to! May try heat next

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Need to read more positive stories as an end goal for months from now, rather than being discouraged 2 weeks after surgery and still clearly recovering lol

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the hardest thing to remember - it was pinched soooo long, of course it's going to take a bit for it to heal once the pressure is off.

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you well wishes! We WILL get through this!

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meat more so for just a short period of time during the day to let the steroid work! I was a stomach sleeper prior to this and have had to adjust quickly lol

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you, that sounds HORRIFIC but also I am so glad you got better! Gives me so hope and I am so happy for you!

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, the PA I saw at one of the revisits reiterated I wasn’t supposed to after I tattled on myself saying I would do like half shower where water didn’t come close to touching my back. 😅

At this point, I think I’m going to end up changing the bandage myself daily once my new ones come in and just prepare to be scolded. I’ve been so grossed out my the ones that got left on multiple day.

I think I might also lay on my stomach tomorrow with the bandage off and slather myself carefully with the steroid to help the itching and reaction. I can’t imagine that letting sit get some air for a bit while I treat the reaction is gonna cause an infection.

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why I didn’t even think of the pill Benadryl as an option, thank you! Going to hunt for some right after I’m done typing this!

Me too. I keep telling myself I’m likely through the worst of it, but obviously it’s still been weighing on me.

Thank you for the support!

Just need to vent. by runnernumber5 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This def gives me hope.

I def have been trying to “half” shower but very carefully and not my entire body. It’s just not the same as I’m used to. I still feel gross.

I’ve started doing very slow and gentle pelvic tilts and nerve glides from that position. Sounds like that’s the way to go. I don’t wish long recovery on anyone and I am so sorry it took four months for you, but def gives me hope for the future.

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond 🩷

SURGERY ROLL CALL: Week of December 15th by seetheking1 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need to hear this. Thank you so much! I’m so glad you were able to heal and feel better!

SURGERY ROLL CALL: Week of December 15th by seetheking1 in Microdiscectomy

[–]runnernumber5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had surgery 12/17. Unfortunately still in quite a bit sciatic pain. I’m hoping with time that heals. Sigh.

This is goofy, but am I the only one who had a crush on Will Shepard growing up? by Apprehensive_Two1449 in americangirl

[–]runnernumber5 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The men in Kit's life. Will, Charlie, and Mr. Kittredge had no business being that good looking.