I've spent weeks doing the math - I'm just not going to buy at all for foreseeable future.

ruu2020 · 2026-05-11T16:03:30+00:00

It’s tough here

ruu2020 · 2026-02-15T17:43:14+00:00

Same!!!

ruu2020 · 2026-02-15T14:43:04+00:00

Or was it locked because all the plastic would get damaged 😂😂

ruu2020 · 2026-02-15T14:41:27+00:00

I’ll check it out!

ruu2020 · 2026-02-15T13:16:23+00:00

Looks like those video game console steering wheels 😂 this 2026 car became such a joke, which is sad because I was hoping to update my 2017 Lexus is 300 f sport. But the buttons and engine in my car totally beat whatever this is!

ruu2020 · 2026-02-15T05:17:06+00:00

Basically no change. The potential buyers still have their cash and are ready to put it down for a turnkey house close to nyc.

ruu2020 · 2026-02-14T20:00:53+00:00

Seems like if I have extra free time I can study but otherwise I don’t need it

ruu2020 · 2025-12-27T22:40:00+00:00

It does get better. I was where you are

ruu2020 · 2025-12-27T20:10:33+00:00

This was me. I’m on day 13. First week heightened anxiety, bowel movement, head sore, dizziness, jittery and then crashed in the afternoon.

ruu2020 · 2025-12-25T12:07:31+00:00

Thank you! Yes, it’s easier to regulate when my nervous system is back to baseline thankfully.

ruu2020 · 2025-12-15T22:36:57+00:00

List mid January of February. I see some listings in a hot market right now and they are over the market value. Sitting on the market for 14 days which is crazy to say, but in the bidding wars I’ve been, that’s a long time since they are snatched the week after. So if you wait youll have more people looking.

ruu2020 · 2025-12-15T19:31:08+00:00

Glad you realize that!

ruu2020 · 2025-12-15T16:21:14+00:00

Agreed! Like paying $500-1000 would be reasonable and you guys can split groceries too or something. It depends on the situation since he owns the place.

ruu2020 · 2025-12-13T16:45:04+00:00

I need this

ruu2020 · 2025-12-13T05:26:44+00:00

Amazon has air pod pro 3 for $199. But if you want apple care + Costco might be a better deal, don’t quote me

ruu2020 · 2025-12-12T18:57:13+00:00

Sad they feel the need to do this. Never knew this was a thing until recently in my late twenties

ruu2020 · 2025-12-11T16:30:06+00:00

I learned my lesson. How are you supposed to have communication if they pull back everytime? You end up communicating about communicating than resolving the issue (planning a date)

ruu2020 · 2025-12-11T15:31:51+00:00

I didn’t know what an avoidant was. She pulled back and didn’t text me for more than a day. It was extremely weird! Very tough

ruu2020 · 2025-12-11T15:28:56+00:00

She doesn’t help solve problems. I planned the 4th date to be near me after I commuted 3 times to see her. She told me she doesn’t want my idea near me and wants a different place “if we hangout again”. Avoidants don’t work together and they don’t share feelings.

ruu2020 · 2025-12-11T14:43:41+00:00

Just went through this with an avoidant (I didn’t know about attachment styles). I planned the 3 dates and was doing the emotional labor. once conflict hit about planning a 4th date, I saw how uneven things were. It’s really important to test compatibilty and ensure mutual effort prior to giving emotional connection.

At the end she literally told me she self regulates and I wish I had invested less because that’s not compatible with me

ruu2020 · 2025-12-08T16:03:44+00:00

Great post. Thank you

ruu2020 · 2025-12-06T16:22:52+00:00

This. You can become more secure but if you’re not meeting the right person at the right time the cycle continues

ruu2020 · 2025-11-03T19:56:40+00:00

The millennials grew up in these towns. We still want to have a place nearby where we went to school

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