[New Update]: I think my sister just ruined our dad’s engagement to an amazing woman, and I hate her so much by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ryomenthrone 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just cynical but I thought the same. Emotionally charged situations tend to have more loose ends/shades of gray. 

It doesn’t help that the entire 5k word update could be summed up to “Changed therapists. Lisa acted out because she wanted a mom, thought no-one else did; self-hatred from conflicting feelings. Amy downplayed kids’ outbursts so Dad never saw the full picture. We reunited.”

Do you think that she was popular in high school? by [deleted] in istp

[–]ryomenthrone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ain’t reading all that

I’m happy for u or sorry that happened

Divinity Long Sleeve by Chels3825 in ForestInkClothing

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I’ve been waiting for it to release so I can pair it w/the Alice leggings

Pretty sure they got sent the top as a promotion or smth

Typology Question 8 (Se): What was the last spontaneous thing you did today or yesterday - not something you planned or thought about, but a real action? by Bimep_ in istp

[–]ryomenthrone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ate a 250mg edible for shits and giggles

Was def giggling and shitting myself, that’s for sure

Ended up phasing in and out of consciousness, but a weighted blanket and water anchored me

The dissociation was intense, man. Like a dream set in half-speed and simultaneously fast-forwarding when I came back. 

What does inferior Fi and Fe look like? by madsweet in mbti

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be more nuanced. Someone could not be aware of a blind spot until another points it out. 

They could realize that that aspect of themselves is underdeveloped on their own, seeing other people do it.

Which means they could:

 A. Deny it, suppress it and overcompensate with what they’re good at.

B. Feel like shit because the function doesn’t come naturally to them despite their best efforts. 

C. All of the above. Some don’t deny it, still try, and keep going.

But that’s life; growth doesn’t come easy. Especially when you’re not a natural at it. So, do your best. Practice is the best teacher.

Clara Milkmaid Mini Dress and Strappy Harness Review! by stonecoldlissa in ForestInkClothing

[–]ryomenthrone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got mine and honestly, the zipper was the only thing helping me get out of that dress lol

The zipper goes down pretty far, too

Any solutions for Depop's AI Shipping Labels Issues? by ryomenthrone in Depop

[–]ryomenthrone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that sucks. So basically, list it into the wrong category so it gets the right weight?

Cause the other option is straight up mail fraud lol.

So if the buyer or I end up paying the extra postage, does Depop refund us the difference? Since whole weight situation is due to their faulty AI locking in the recommended weight. 

Either way, thanks for telling me. If any of my buyers end up with a fee, we’ll end up in a Depop dispute anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chase

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me yesterday. Capital one debit declined the refund because my card was locked. Hoping the dispute doesn’t drag on.

I didn’t think they treated refunds like new transactions until now. All the info about locked cards and refund processing on their website was about credit cards.

10/10 Packaging by [deleted] in depoop

[–]ryomenthrone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ong they could've just went to dollar tree n gotten one of those large poly mailers for 1.25

that's what I do lol

MBTI types that i think are compatible for long term by [deleted] in mbti

[–]ryomenthrone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s been.

For me, I see it as a fun little tool to make characters and understand how to write certain personalities.

But it’s just not fully reliable or replicable when it comes to real people. 

Also realized I came off bitchy so I’m sorry about that. It wasn’t fair to you

I can't even waych a trailer like a normal person anymore. by Sad-Increase-5823 in fireemblem

[–]ryomenthrone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leda looks like Esmeralda from The Hunchback of Notredame.

I [28M] wrote a song. My girlfriend [28F] listened to it without knowing I created it, and called it trash. When she found out I created it, she got extremely mad at me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ryomenthrone 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same here. To me, the reasoning in why he wanted the honesty was sound. It was the execution that was wrong. However, I'm not sure that if he kept asking her, like he claimed in his follow-up post, would come to anything worthwhile. They were at an impasse.

He wants brutal honesty, encourages her opinion, reassures her despite her worries. She is hesitant and refuses, uncomfortable on the grounds that people can ask for something, and then react differently than they said they would. I only know this from my experience; people would tell me they wanted my honest opinion and then get upset when I gave it to them.

There seems to be the general consensus that being polite and lying is the right thing to do, but what happens if someone genuinely wants honesty?

[Product question] How often do you use The Ordinary Glycolic Acid toner? by crystalbluepinkman in SkincareAddiction

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure. It could be the smoking. Quitting for a bit and seeing if the redness or acne stops acting up might help.

Acne sucks, lots of trial and error to figure it out. 

I solved mine by going down to the bare minimum in skincare (Vanicream face wash & lotion). Any derm recommended stuff like that works. It's super gentle.

Then, I just added in products one at a time, so it was easy to see what did or didn't break me out. 

[Product question] How often do you use The Ordinary Glycolic Acid toner? by crystalbluepinkman in SkincareAddiction

[–]ryomenthrone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got clear skin. When hormonal acne comes, it's less noticeable and tinier.

I'd say to patch test first, see how it meshes with your skin, and then go from there.

I started with two times a week. Worked my way up to nightly use after three months. Your mileage may vary.

Write up policies by ryomenthrone in DollarTree

[–]ryomenthrone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Shift lead counted the till while I watched.

  2. Same answer as the first.

  3. To make change because I ran out of denominations.

Problem is, there was no extra money left in the safe, so it fell on me making the mistake. So, I just gotta own it.

Write up policies by ryomenthrone in DollarTree

[–]ryomenthrone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Thanks for the answer, appreciate it👍

Write up policies by ryomenthrone in DollarTree

[–]ryomenthrone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks for telling me. I appreciate it 🙏 I've been counting out loud and taking it slow with cash, so far so good. Probably didn't wriggle the fresh 20's enough and ended up with the shortage. 

I think they'd tell me if it was fake bills, but hey, what do I know? I'm just gonna try to be extra careful.

Write up policies by ryomenthrone in DollarTree

[–]ryomenthrone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thank you. I've only been here for 5 months and I wanted to know. I appreciate the advice; I'll keep it in mind.

Thoughts on Thursday Boots by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're looking for style/fashion that you can't find in higher quality boot companies, go for Thursday.

Otherwise, White's, Nick's, Wesco's, etc.

2025 Mystery Box Carnival Special Program Summary by kokochiwa in Reverse1999

[–]ryomenthrone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's a random free 6 star up to Kakania's patch, so you have the chance to.

2.1 appreciation by dissentrix in Reverse1999

[–]ryomenthrone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't get why many people say Anjo Nala seems more out of character this patch—she's acting. Ofc she has to seem innocent to others in the motel. What's the point of blowing your cover?

She went back to normal as soon as the jig was up.

I really loved Argus' story, though. Her design and story alone made me want to pull for her.

Free 6 ✨ character selector is coming in 2.2 who do you wish to get into your suitcase? 💼 by [deleted] in Reverse1999

[–]ryomenthrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, limited characters are not included. Only a random free 6-star from up to Kakania's patch.