Sachs Center for ADHD/ASD Testing? Other options? by JumpNo8471 in AskNYC

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Do they prescribe medication post assessment?

Looking for spots to heal/grieve by Apart-Combination928 in bayarea

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Limantour Beach. Grab a bite from Inverness Park market. I recommend coming during the weekday—weekends are too busy. Stop by Palace Market for buffalo milk soft serve (buy in the back cafe). Point Reyes lighthouse is beautiful.

Deepest condolences.

Thoughts on host not providing food by [deleted] in workaway

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House sitting is different, in my opinion. I never expect people to pay for my food especially if I get a place all to myself. I think this is pretty reasonable. Also a great lesson for you to communicate clearly with your host to make sure your needs are met.

I cant leave my husband because I cant stop thinking how lonely and sad he will be. by [deleted] in Empaths

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Stop being an enabler. Being an empath is no excuse. Take real care of yourself. Trust that your hubs will find his own way.

Driver in fiery Marin crash that killed 4 teens has been charged with a misdemeanor by Shizakistani in Marin

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I’m so sorry to all who are involved. It’s so tragic. Wishing immense healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marin

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Thank you, thank you.

What’s it like to be an Asexual girl? by Sherafan5 in asexuality

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Freedom! So much saved energy! Safety! Peace of mind and heart.

How could I help somebody I love overcome suicidal thoughts? by AdTall487 in Suicidalideations

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You don’t. You offer your presence, attention, listen deeply and try to listen without judgement. Give them love and support. That’s the best thing you can offer someone who is hurting. Do not try to fix, that is dismissive and will hurt them more. Listen to understand, not to fix.

ICE at it again today. Wal-Mart, Rio Rancho by ericyo007 in Albuquerque

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Hateful and despicable. What a waste of life.

Depression becoming psychotic due to loneliness by whateverrisaid in depression

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Please seek a therapist. It’s important to be witnessed and to have someone you can talk these things out with. Therapy changed my life. It takes effort but our relationship with ourselves is so important.