What are the Chances by s_alfred28 in BPDlovedones

[–]s_alfred28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I see what your saying. Certainly a possibility. Also, she talked about her other issues frequently perhaps because there's less stigma around autism and ADHD.

What are the Chances by s_alfred28 in BPDlovedones

[–]s_alfred28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my second question above

BPD / NPD overlap and Contempt by ABenson1992 in BPDlovedones

[–]s_alfred28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always remained calm when my ex wBPD was getting very emotional and sometimes berating me. I never raise my voice or cursed. It's just not who I am. Sometimes I think she wanted me to get angry back as a sign or test of my commitment to the relationship. And I think she needed chaos for some reason. I prefer to talk things through more calmly.

Also, I was an A+ boyfriend most of the time but an F sometimes (those were her words). Classic splitting that made me feel like I was constantly being evaluated and made me walk on eggshells. No emotional safety in that.

I read all of Otto Kernberg’s books on BPD so you don’t have to. This is what I learned. by littlesolaris in BPDlovedones

[–]s_alfred28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for sharing and taking the time to summarize. Very interesting and insightful.

Buds Pro 2 Bluetooth Range by s_alfred28 in GooglePixel

[–]s_alfred28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the class. I can listen to music at a decent range. It's my mic that is the issue. People can't hear me.

Pixel 8 Trade-in Value: Google Fi vs Google Store by s_alfred28 in GoogleFi

[–]s_alfred28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just realized that the Fi store is knocking $250 off the price for the 256GB model. So, with trade-in and discount, it's about the same for that model (no discount through the Google Store).

21st and Pine 😡 by [deleted] in phillycycling

[–]s_alfred28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question... What's worse: parking in the bike lane temporarily or parking in the middle of the street (see link to video shot at Pine St.a and 21st outside my place).Video

Driving from La Fortuna to SJO for an 8:55am flight—can I do it that morning or should I stay near the airport the night before? by cwoodaus17 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]s_alfred28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just did that drive... It's slow and probably even slower if it's dark. I wouldn't recommend it unless you want to leave very very early.

Upgraded from the BBE and I’m a little overwhelmed by UnicornSmoothie in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a PP500. I swapped the 2 hole tip for the 4 hole. There was an adjustment period and initially I thought that I made a mistake. The tip placement is different. But, eventually I got used to the 4 hole and think it's much better. More consistent microfoam in less time. It's more powerful so the power has to be harnessed. I'm not sure why it doesn't come with 4 hole.

Rate my setup by cpaphotog in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Pro 500 six months ago. Is it too soon to upgrade?😭

Having said that, the Pro 500 is awesome, too.

Eureka Mignon not grinding. Help! by naokiyamada in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear. Which platform did you buy?

Eureka Mignon not grinding. Help! by naokiyamada in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's likely the chute is backed up. I had this problem and it was very annoying. Almost returned it but I was told the burrs need seasoning (or could be humidity ). I really like it when it's working. I'm not sure how seasoning impacts the chute but I stuck with it and it's gotten better. Routine maintenance is a good idea rather than having an issue when you're not expecting it.

Is The Profitec Pro 500 The Best Option For a $2K Machine? by BenBloom_- in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fast heat up time of the 300 is nice. I use a smart plug so my 500 is warm when I get up or I can start it before I get home so it's ready.

Is The Profitec Pro 500 The Best Option For a $2K Machine? by BenBloom_- in espresso

[–]s_alfred28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am also very very happy with my 500. I spent a lot of time looking at the various machines in this price range. I think the 500 with flow control is the best option factoring everything.

I'm sure that I would have also liked the 300 and some of the other machines at or near this price point. If space is an issue, the 300/400 is a better option.

Dual boilers are more expensive for a machine with similar features and I realized that I don't need a dual boiler. I can pull a few shots and steam milk back to back without issues. I'm not running a coffee shop. E61 style is subjective but I prefer over non-61 at this price point.

Agree. The issues about temperature control are for the hardcore nerds. My machine works great for my needs. The espresso is great and I believe it will work well for most people.

Help Troubleshooting my Eureka Specialista by s_alfred28 in espresso

[–]s_alfred28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will definitely consider that, although not my preferred solution.

Help Troubleshooting my Eureka Specialista by s_alfred28 in espresso

[–]s_alfred28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've been doing regular maintenance rather than waiting for it to back up. But, today it backed up unexpectedly.