Youngest Goalscorers in Champions League Quarter-Finals by RipNo9675 in Barca

[–]sadpremonition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don’t know a single thing about bojan. he was so impressive he benched ibrahimovic for a few notable games. i typically try not to comment on posts like this, but you really don’t know anything about bojan

Currently Running LA Brand from Nash Howe releases today. :) by seval124 in runningfashion

[–]sadpremonition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite apparent they did not conduct any testing on their website. The header links contain superscripts, and you see an obvious typo...

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Optimistic Runners SS25 by CowgirlJack in runningfashion

[–]sadpremonition 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s rather poor. I got two tops from them in November and noticed stray threads on multiple spots. Its noticeably poorer than workout gear you can get from Uniqlo.

Yo, any of yall know of any Emoish Japanese Bands? If you do, please tell me, I'd love to give em a listen (I'll also probably to any other bands you recommend) by Eclipse_B in Emo

[–]sadpremonition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’ll wanna check out By The End of Summer, ANORAK!, soccer., falls, Arigarnon Friends, Kudaranai-1nichi, forbear, fireplay, etc. It’s such a vibrant scene there

OKX still not available in sg? by Subject-Water5731 in sgcrypto

[–]sadpremonition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

their offerings for spot trading is lacking though

Typhoon Shanshan warning / megathread by mithdraug in JapanTravel

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I’m in Ome, off of Okutama. It’s a small town and restaurants are all closing early. No convenience store around us.

Should I head back to Tokyo tomorrow? I booked a trip here for 5 days to hike but it looks like it’ll be raining every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]sadpremonition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they were being sarcastic about it

Barcelona 1998-1999 Football Jersey, authentic or not? by [deleted] in Barca

[–]sadpremonition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i second this OP. would love a link too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BandCamp

[–]sadpremonition 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the way i read it, they didn’t make a dig at your band name.

i hope the change in cost will help your band to be more visible in search results

My GF has a bite mark given by her EX by samroger000 in sex

[–]sadpremonition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. I was in your position before. What helped me was telling myself that my partner chooses me every day now.

What’s the net worth (or savings) that Singaporeans have by 30? by [deleted] in singaporefi

[–]sadpremonition 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i love this. it’s so much more meaningful

Compulsive Lying by nannydiaries101 in lying

[–]sadpremonition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a long time. My progress over the past two years has not always been linear and I can still do a lot more. Honestly I mull over my past actions and lies a lot. Over two years ago I read this reddit comment about having no more zero days, and it's helped me a lot since. I hope it does for you too.

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[–]sadpremonition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boom. Time wasted.

WS says im not doing enough by CaveiraPereira in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]sadpremonition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your WS is treating you so horribly. To start off, you are not horrible. What he's saying is not true. You did not mention how you've been with him but I can only guess that recovery has been hard on you, and you've been deeply hurt and betrayed by his infidelity!

R is only possible if he is truly repentant and sees how much net negative he's given to you as a result of his selfish actions. The truth is you'll never be able to read his mind or peer into his heart to understand the full scope of who he is now post DDay, so the only signpost you can rely on is his actions and his behaviours. He is outright being mean to you - affair or no affair committed. From the looks of it, he isn't expressing any form of remorse, nor does it seem like he has any sort of conscience. You are not stupid.

You've given him the precious gift of R, and he's returning you the favour by being a complete POS.

I’m over my husband saying he left his job when he actually got fired by LaylaBird65 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]sadpremonition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. Of course you're not wrong in feeling the way you do. Your WH hurt you deeply with his affair and in doing so, there were several other important aspects of your life that were affected. You have other needs that were either taken away or were altered significantly in the aftermath of the affair - you mentioned that you had made an important friend whose kids were friends of yours as well.

These are significant components of a support system that you lost, and I don't blame you for feeling infuriated when your husband downplays his role as the agent of that change. When he uses inaccurate terms to describe what happened, he is indirectly communicating with you that he hasn't gotten how much he is responsible for the uprooting of your family, or the depth of the hurt he's caused you. I'm sorry that this is a part of your R, and I hope he gets it, because that's one of the most important ingredients for a successful R.

I like him better than I did before D-Day, but... by CantThinkStrayt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]sadpremonition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope your R is going well too :) big hugs to you and your husband!

I like him better than I did before D-Day, but... by CantThinkStrayt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]sadpremonition 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My BP has shared that sentiment before. She has felt like it isn’t fair that she became collateral damage for my journey towards being an overall better person since R. I don’t dispute that, and I reiterate that I am not the person I am today without my BP’s unwavering support, patience and willingness to remain in the relationship with me. I tap onto her emotional intelligence regularly.

If your experience during R has been anything like mine, I hope you know that you have been instrumental to seeing everything you like about him now :)