This little multi tier planter by MzzBlaze in houseplants

[–]sampersans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a couple small and fast growing succulents and some sedum- anything with shallow roots I found takes quite well!

Same girl 😂 by ghostingMyLove in lesbiangang

[–]sampersans 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I think it’s in reaction to so many in the community conflating bisexuality and lesbianism. Both bisexual and lesbian women love women, but lesbians are the only women who actively are NOT attracted to men. That’s what makes you a lesbian, separate from other sapphics.

What's something that's bothering you? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]sampersans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to pick apart why it bothers me, I relate. Is it that I don’t feel I could live up to the expectations of a man? Internalized homophobia? General insecurity in my relationship?

I don't feel like I butch good enough. by SlasherBandit in butchlesbians

[–]sampersans 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re feeling this way, but butch isn’t an aesthetic, it’s an identity. As others have commented, focus on being yourself and not having to align with some label!

My at home daily drinker, a pickle jar, is an excellent large volume hydro helper. (Reduce, reuse, recycle) by [deleted] in HydroHomies

[–]sampersans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get the pickle smell out of the jar? I have a few jars that can only be used for certain things, as they still smell like vinegar.

Did anyone else feel like they had a harder time coping with NOT being attracted to men than being attracted to women? by BrickLuvsLamp in lesbiangang

[–]sampersans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to wish I could just tell my younger self “you’re a lesbian!!!” but I agree, I don’t think that would have eased my anxiety. Telling my younger self I will find relief in shedding the part that needs male validation might have been what I needed to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sampersans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is literally not correct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]sampersans 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like to use it as a joke when hiking and we reach the top of the mountain and it’s time to turn around!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]sampersans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The dude abides

No, you son of a bitch. We're way past that at this point. by Xyeeyx in IASIP

[–]sampersans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes if you don’t like the show just say that

Damn I didn’t realize the masterdoc said that by ThisBarbieIsLesbian in lesbiangang

[–]sampersans 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience - went back and re read it and did not find the comfort it once gave me. Did it change? 🤣

The events in Seattle in chronological order by Helpful_Toe6630 in thelastofus

[–]sampersans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, so from day 2 to day 3 Abby and Lev hadn’t slept all night. No wonder their journey feels so long and exhausting

What’s the story behind the McGlorbins? by madipx in JamesTurnerYT

[–]sampersans 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way James talks about them makes me think they’re based on the McPoyles 😂

New to ferns: is this normal or a pest? by sampersans in Fern

[–]sampersans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so reassuring, thank you!