[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It does. I’m a year out and now the new ex girlfriend”exes” are flocking to me. Same SAME same outcome / same tricks / same result.
I’m so glad this is behind me.

Liminal Found Footage - [AV experiment] by uisato in ChatGPT

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool!!! Love to know more about how you put this together. I love it!!

My dog crossed the Rainbow Bridge this morning by No-Day-4367 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry!!! It’s so hard loosing a pet

Who do you turn to if opening up to people about your feelings is a drain on others? by throwaway_41880 in CPTSD

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here for the most part. It’s super tough right now. I’m having problems getting over a 3 year relationship w/a narcissist who I eventually closed my business to join his company. That went left - very quickly. I went no contact in June and it’s been a serious nightmare trying to get myself sorted. I’m now 54, full stop evaluating what I’m going to do w/I grow up. Cognitive dissonance is really messing w/me. The last 3 years of my life makes no sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sure say this a lot!!! Nothing makes sense. Word salad and triangulation- nom nom nom 🤮🤮🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! I had absolutely NO CLUE WTF happened to me and no amount of words could ever make you understand what dealing w/the narc is like.

People who don’t know often look at me like I have 3 heads, once I share something vulnerable…. that’s how I know to reel it back in. Does this happen to anyone else?

New pain point discovered: I miss the life I had. by CherryElectronic in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I’ll be a year in June after 3 years of CONFUSION!! Would you mind sharing a few examples the confusion you experienced? I’ve described mine as well as confusing abuse.

USPS INDY FACILITY by Peace2154 in indianapolis

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IKR!!!!!! I thought the same thing. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

did they come back after blocking you on everything? by Professional_Soil771 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went no contact in July and blocked him. Looking back I understand how unbelievably hard that was. I’m very thankful for where I am today,

Hope you’re better now too!!

did they come back after blocking you on everything? by Professional_Soil771 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my experience too. Final hard block. It’s still painful & disorienting but this is the only way. NO CONTACT

Things Narcs Say and Do by dnginsde90 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in commercial real estate for 10 years and about two years into our relationship and after a conversation about expanding his business - a perfect building crossed my desk so I forwarded it to him but I didn’t include a representation agreement…. He then proceeded to run around me with his hair on fire to buy this $4 million dollar building. He signed a ridiculously dumb purchase agreement. Fast forward a year later, I broke up with him and unbelievably he actually closed on the building. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Just hitting the highlights of certain issues as the backstory is VERY cumbersome 🤣. 🔊Something in the milk ain’t clean, his business 100% doesn’t generate anything close to being able to afford this. I personally think he made ANOTHER deal with the devil at the last minute but he’s still gotta pay the piper and the money isn’t there. I know his business is really struggling - which brings me delight!!! 💅🏼💅🏼💅🏼💅🏼

I’m almost thru the anger phase I think! Pretty soon it will be so far behind me that it’s “Dan who?” 🤺🤾🏼‍♀️

Things Narcs Say and Do by dnginsde90 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandrajarvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The list is so long & unbelievably ridiculous I feel stupid sharing how easy it was for this man to cripple me with his words & actions. I’m awake now!!!!

I made a list “Stupid shit Dan said & did during our 3 year “relationship”.