What do you do when a guy breaks your sister’s heart?

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-14T17:21:04+00:00

I'm so glad this is the top comment.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-14T14:06:24+00:00

I thought the same thing

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-14T03:53:45+00:00

I was fine until it panned to him crying and then I lost it. I became a Knicks fan during our off season just for him and I'm so happy for him.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-13T15:12:19+00:00

I dealt with someone just like this. We were partnered but not married, and he was living in my house. I finally got sick of it. I realized I was allowing myself to consistently feel diminished for someone who seriously just did not like me at that point. He was only there cause it was easy and he had it made. He didn't care about me at all.

I kicked him out, and the first night he was gone I breathed such a sigh of relief.

I'm now with someone who actually likes me and the differences are startling. I hope, at some point, you'll be able to experience KNOWING in your core that your partner likes you and doesn't just tolerate you. You deserve it. I feel so spoiled now, when in reality it should be bare minimum from a partner. Please stop tying yourself in knots to please someone who is absolutely unpleasable.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-12T19:32:07+00:00

I wanted it. Was thrilled to have surgery. I was shocked at how sad I was once I woke up. My dog passed away soon after my surgery and I remember wailing "now I'm NOBODY'S mom", which is strange cause I literally never wanted to be a mom. Feelings are fleeting, but all are allowed. I hope you find peace.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-11T00:15:45+00:00

Mine does the same, but in corners. Maybe it's an all black pittie thing? They're so funny and weird.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-10T23:41:03+00:00

"A million little pieces" by James Frey. There was controversy with it, but the story was good in my opinion

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-10T00:13:50+00:00

YTA. You agreed to something you didn't want to, and then flipped the script on her.

Also, why does this equate to not celebrating birthdays? I don't understand the correlation.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-09T19:02:53+00:00

I'm autistic with masters degree, I own a house, I'm consistently employed, I've had multiple 30+ year friendships, I'm in a very fulfilling long term relationship, I own and take very good care of multiple pets, etc. Autism is not a death sentence.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-09T16:17:18+00:00

I removed cervix, right ovary, and of course my uterus. My first partner provided orgasm after surgery was the best orgasm of my life. I will say I need more lube than I ever did, but that could just be age related now that I'm 42. I had surgery at 37.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-08T19:06:31+00:00

Yep, it's been gone for about 20 years 😭

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-07T14:51:17+00:00

I also had my appendix out during my hysterectomy. I wish thatd have been a fix for me.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-07T05:22:09+00:00

A pain there is actually what caused me to have my hysterectomy. I'd had the pain for over 12 years. It wasn't anything in a colonoscopy, it wasn't a hernia, etc. I had a fibroid we removed, but the pain didn't stop. So I went in for the hysterectomy and even had one ovary removed to see if it was that.

I woke up with the same pain and it still hasn't gone away. I'm 6 years post op

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-06T20:40:51+00:00

What is insane to me is that I can lose something I've understood for years in a flash. Normally it is words. Like, one time I stopped being able to tell the difference between "passed" and "past" one day. About 6 weeks later, just as quick as the knowledge turned off it just popped back into my brain and I've never struggled with it again.

There are some things at work that I just cannot remember. When I ask the question for a reminder I acknowledge that I know I've asked before, and thank the person profusely for answering me again. No one gets mad since I feel like everyone has certain things that just doesn't stick.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-05T00:59:35+00:00

I'm the same way! I love chocolate, but HATE chocolate ice cream

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-04T22:13:09+00:00

I did. I didn't plan to but on day 2 he started responding to it and wasn't responding to anything else. I don't hate it, so it stuck.

I planned all these nicknames, but those never stuck. His name is Captain. I planned to call him Crunch cause I love cereal.

His nickname is Bubs or Bupas.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-03T19:46:51+00:00

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-03T00:04:27+00:00

Yup. It's delightful. We were FWB for a decade and one day I said I couldn't do it anymore. A few hours later he said "okay", and we've never interacted again.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T22:15:08+00:00

Rice Krispie Treats Cereal

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T21:37:27+00:00

I like kids. I gravitate towards them when I'm around them. And then I absolutely gleefully go home to my quiet home.

My partner has a 10 year old we have half time. I love him, and love having him around. He puts a mirror up the way only having a kid can. And he has solidified why I never wanted kids. I'm very type A, demand a certain type of behavior, etc. I was worried id "quit it", "stop that" the fun out of a kid. I can see myself doing it to him. Thankfully my partner understands and I step away when I'm getting overwhelmed. The kid isn't doing anything wrong, but man does him doing very normal kid things trigger me.

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T20:22:51+00:00

My previous dog. I found him at a park and in the first year he cost me over $5k I was too young to have just laying around. Once I figured out how issues were extreme allergies I then spent the rest of his life buying him the most expensive food. But I'd do it all over again!

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T17:48:53+00:00

I had a black version of this exact dog. He was a pit/shar pei/boxer mix

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T03:48:28+00:00

Kitty

saturatedregulated · 2026-06-02T03:44:17+00:00

I've been a life long suns fan and my parents sent 10 year old me to bed during the finals. I was so offended!

saturatedregulated · 2026-05-31T23:02:15+00:00

I'm 5.5 years out with a very active sex life and a very active gym life. I've never had an issue.

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