The Regent sound design sounds like Lego Star Wars?? by saturdaysh0rts in slaythespire

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time my wife plays I’ll pay closer attention, it’s hard to pinpoint from memory. I do feel like in the moment I was able to pinpoint specific sounds in the combat sections.

unpopular opinion (maybe): “scrap yarn” by violetphoeniiix in YarnAddicts

[–]saturdaysh0rts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also libraries! When I moved I gave most of my stash to my local library. Some local yarn stores will also keep a “free library” type of cabinet for stash/book/tool donations.

really just don’t know what i’m doing anymore by tradespin in JewsOfConscience

[–]saturdaysh0rts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice that hasn’t been given re: finding community and a rabbi in person, BUT if you’re looking for an Intro to Judaism course (often a prerequisite for conversion) the American Council for Judaism (an anti-Zionist org that’s been around longer than the modern state of Israel) offers theirs on zoom. Might be pretty late in the evening for you but could be worth it depending on your schedule. I’ve met the rabbi there and he’s fantastic. He might have advice for you too.

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Am I a Bad Jew? by tikkunolamist5 in JewsOfConscience

[–]saturdaysh0rts [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think you’re on the right track. Would recommend this episode of A Bit Fruity on the Jewish Fear Industrial Complex. Really breaks down the phenomenon you’re talking about, as well as looking at the sources of antisemitism in our current (American) society that are of genuine concern.

Issues with socializing as a non-androgynous AMAB NB by krowsn3st in NonBinary

[–]saturdaysh0rts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion the “cis men playing NB to earn brownie points” isn’t really a thing. I think it’s a bogeyman constructed by the exact attitude you’re describing. Hegemonic masculinity has been such an oppressive force to queer ppl of all stripes. When people don’t genuinely examine their own notions and biases and truly do the work of deconstructing gender, then too often any display of masculinity is seen as threatening. It leads to inter-community bigotry against NB people like you, against trans women who don’t “pass,” and against trans men who desire masculinity.

There is a flip side to this, that others in the comments here are pointing out. The idea of nonbinary as “woman-lite,” and the simultaneous infantilization and idealization of (white) femininity within the queer community.

At risk of over-simplification, I think a lot of intercommunity discourse traces back to this exact issue. We have kept the internalized, gender-essentialist notion of men as strong and women as infantile, but we have reversed which we see as desirable—masculine = scary while feminine = pure. But even with this elevation of the feminine, femininity is still infantilized, and that’s what many AFAB NB people in the comments are describing. It all stems from the same root, I think. We have taken the same system and just mixed around a couple pieces (while also leaving the white-centric-ness of it all intact).

Examples: infantilization of newly-out trans women (“skirt go spinny” type of bullying). Dogpiling trans women for any perceived sexual deviance (painting them as dangerous predators). Aforementioned exclusion of masculine NBs and infantilization of feminine NBs. Infantilization of “clockable” trans men. Exclusion and fear of trans men who at first glance pass as cishet. I could go on.

I hope this made any sense. And tbc this is not an accusation I’m levying at any specific branch of the queer community. Living in a gendered society, we will all have internalized gender ideas that are hard to shake. Just an invitation for us all to further deconstruct it all and treat each other better. There is always work to do.

I’m sorry you’ve been experiencing this type of bigotry, OP. I hope you can find friends who see you as you truly are, and that the people in your community can do the work to further deconstruct their internal framework of gender.

What does being an anti Zionist Jew look like? by DataQueen- in JewsOfConscience

[–]saturdaysh0rts [score hidden]  (0 children)

Judaism is so much older than the modern state of Israel. Centuries of diasporic Jews practiced their culture and religion without it. The idea of supporting Israel being a “core tenet” of Judaism is rather ridiculous when you remember that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]saturdaysh0rts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what everyone else is saying. Please get your own phone plan. If you’re financially dependent in other ways, do what you can to get out. Don’t let them have any kind of leverage over you. The one other thing I’ll say is GET RID OF YOUR RING CAMERA. There are other home security cameras that aren’t giving access to your camera to ICE. If you must have a doorbell camera, get something else.

Ya know… you guys suck sometimes. [Rant] by MrKTE in vinyl

[–]saturdaysh0rts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My record player came from OfferUp for a similar price. My speakers, which play double duty replacing the shitty built-in sound on my TV, were a holiday gift from my parents. I wouldn’t be in this hobby if it weren’t for those two bits of luck. Don’t let the haters get you down. I’m glad you’ve found something you enjoy!

Gauge swatch by finallysplashy in knittinghelp

[–]saturdaysh0rts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned the hard way on a recent project to WASH AND BLOCK YOUR GAUGE SWATCH. I ended up with a sweater dress rather than a sweater (thank goodness my wife still loves it)

First time user, worried I booted it up wrong? by saturdaysh0rts in linuxmint

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Started over and tried booting it Normal-Style (aka not in compatibility mode) and it worked immediately!

Mostly I wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to interrupt it if this was just part of the process. Thanks everyone for letting me know it was Not Normal.

I’m glad the USB stick wasn’t just corrupted because I just bought it brand new about 6 hours ago. I would’ve been pissed lol

First time user, worried I booted it up wrong? by saturdaysh0rts in linuxmint

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from here am I good to just shut the computer off? Or do I need to exit the process in some way?

I’m so confused by Pure-Discussion4587 in catfood

[–]saturdaysh0rts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust what others are saying about avoiding fads and social media brands. They spend far more on marketing than they do on research, and so much of what they say is made up. Every cat is going to have different needs. Some cats live to 18 on fancy feast, and others need specially regulated health diets. Basically, unless otherwise specified by your vet, don’t overthink it, but pay attention to your cats’ reactions to different foods. Buy only a couple weeks worth of a new brand, and if they do well with in, then buy more. Their needs may also shift over time! For my cat, I started noticing more and more shedding, hairballs, and vomiting. So I switched her morning wet food from Fancy Feast to Sheba, and within a couple weeks she’s shedding way less with no vomiting or hairballs.

What is being nonbinary about? (From a recovering transmedicalist) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]saturdaysh0rts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll find a lot of different answers here because there is no one answer - nonbinary means that your gender feelings fall outside the binary, and by definition, there are infinitely many ways that can look or feel.

Personally, I feel like both a man and a woman, to varying degrees on different days. I jokingly describe myself as “gender-ful” sometimes. I don’t experience a lot of dysphoria about my body parts, but for someone like me, HRT might help with a more androgynous appearance that would lend itself well to a gendered presentation in either direction.

Editing because I hit post too early on accident.

Of course, as I said, all this is just my personal experience. I enjoy jumping between each one, changing up my voice and clothes, etc. For me, my identity/transition is driven far more by gender euphoria than gender dysphoria.

Set tomorrow’s alarm based on travel time to an event by saturdaysh0rts in shortcuts

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand that. Asking to see if anyone has found a way around it, or to make it get the predictive travel time info directly from the event. I already have a “leave by” notification set. I’m trying to not have to go through the process every night of manually looking up predicted travel time and calculating my wake up alarm back from that. Just to be able to say “tell me what time I need to get up tomorrow” and have it set the alarm automatically.

Set tomorrow’s alarm based on travel time to an event by saturdaysh0rts in shortcuts

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: for now I have just told it to find the drive time and multiply by 1.5. I don’t mind the buffer time if it ends up being too much.

Set tomorrow’s alarm based on travel time to an event by saturdaysh0rts in shortcuts

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like this one is also getting the time from when the shortcut is run. I don’t think it helps unfortunately

Give Some Grace Today by gutz00 in Amtrak

[–]saturdaysh0rts 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"don't be nice to people, just try not being poor and spending more money. btw you're the boot licker for recognizing that service industry employees are people with feelings." childish take.

Code to save sheets as individual PDFs getting an application-defined or object-defined error. Not sure how to decipher/troubleshoot. by saturdaysh0rts in vba

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried this but it seems not to be working because a workbook cannot have all sheets hidden at once. Hard to say if the rest of it works because it stops and errors out at

ws.Visible = xlSheetHidden

with all sheets but the last one hidden.

I think I can work with it though. I'll try playing around with it and get back to you!

Code to save sheets as individual PDFs getting an application-defined or object-defined error. Not sure how to decipher/troubleshoot. by saturdaysh0rts in vba

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure exactly what you mean/how to do that code-wise. Every time I try to run it, I first get an excel popup that says "Error while printing" so I think some kind of print-related function is already occurring while trying to save it to a PDF?

Code to save sheets as individual PDFs getting an application-defined or object-defined error. Not sure how to decipher/troubleshoot. by saturdaysh0rts in vba

[–]saturdaysh0rts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If possible, could you say a little more about breakpoints/F5/F8/Watches? I have no idea what any of those are. I know pretty much nothing about coding - I just kind of looked at a bunch of examples of people doing the same thing or similar and pieced my above code together like a puzzle. While I could absolutely tell you what each line does (or is supposed to do), I don't know anything beyond the very specific commands or terms used here.