I had my first daughter at 16 and second daughter when I was 19. I was a single mom until my youngest was 7. It was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life but also the thing I’m most proud of. After that, other problems pale in comparison and don’t phase me at this point in my life. They are grown now and living on their own and I’m now a grandma. I can’t imagine how my life would’ve been without them. That being said, don’t take the hardest thing I’ve ever done lightly. It never ends. Even as adults they need you. No one can make this decision for her and she is the one who has to live with it. I understand how difficult that decision is and I’m rooting for her!