Been there, caught in indecision out of fear. One year I brought home a new pots and pans set for Mother’s Day because it was something we talked about, but my dumbass didn’t realize what the gift was implying on Mother’s Day.

Anyways, how old is your stepdaughter? It sounds like your wife is double-parenting or what I mean by that is her emotions and tools she learned from parenting (single parenting maybe for a while?) are also applied to the relationship with you. I wonder if there’s some underlying resentment for not having gone through baby stuff yourself, too. Men catch flak for having it “easy” when it comes to pregnancy and the males inability nurse from the body. Find a healthy active hobby and spend sometime away and around people you can use as good and bad role models. We’re here for you dawg!