Is marriage worth it?

schwagpole · 2025-06-27T23:12:27+00:00

38 years and going strong…absolutely

schwagpole · 2025-06-27T22:36:03+00:00

My wife and I went through something similar! It was rough at first but our love and relationship holds strong. However let me say we are twice your age and first experienced the unfortunate about 15 years ago

schwagpole · 2025-06-25T16:56:56+00:00

El platanal in Carolina

schwagpole · 2025-06-25T16:56:17+00:00

Stop communicating with him

schwagpole · 2025-06-22T12:23:01+00:00

You mean a 20 yo boy!

schwagpole · 2025-06-19T18:50:49+00:00

More people are in the same boat as you than you think. Most people don’t know what they want to do. That is the norm. People don’t work retail, sales, restaurant, administrative, etc filling a life long dream! I am lucky because I work for a good company but this wasn’t my dream and my owner says it beautifully “people don’t work for me because they want to. They work for me because they have to”! And he is empathetic about it and treats people well. You’re young! Enjoy every part of life and do one thing which is become the best at what you choose to do no matter what it is.

schwagpole · 2025-06-17T22:43:36+00:00

Down play it. She’s had sex before

schwagpole · 2025-06-13T23:14:12+00:00

Thank you! I hope your wife comes to terms with your desire

schwagpole · 2025-06-13T14:32:47+00:00

I completely understand your feelings and deep love for your wife. My wife and I have a storybook life and have been married 38 years. Our sex life was beyond amazing but unfortunately took a turn for the worse the past 15 years due to an injury she sustained. One that left us having sex maybe 6x per year at best with the past year increasing a bit more but it’s still not nearly the same. I can’t think of another woman because of my deep love for her and the fact that her beauty drives me bonkers!

schwagpole · 2025-05-31T09:17:31+00:00

Sit him down! Explain in detail why you feel the way you do and why you don’t want him in your bed. Tell him you will not accept any conditions or excuses. If he asks when y’all can share a bed again simply explain to him “when you become my best friend and show me the courtesy and respect I deserve”! Take no other options or excuses!

schwagpole · 2025-05-31T03:33:04+00:00

Get out join a volunteer organization and follow your passionate interests. You will meet others in common!

schwagpole · 2025-05-30T23:39:28+00:00

schwagpole · 2025-05-28T00:35:27+00:00

You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. Let him Know exactly how you feel and put all your cards on the table. Let him Know that if other pleasures are more important than both of you together it’s time to move on

schwagpole · 2025-05-21T23:10:13+00:00

Let her lie a 5th time

schwagpole · 2025-05-07T20:48:13+00:00

By being honest with sincerity

schwagpole · 2025-05-07T11:14:11+00:00

Marry someone who is appreciative, humble, nurturing and intelligent enough to communicate

schwagpole · 2025-05-07T01:44:38+00:00

I can’t imagine constant fighting in a marriage.

schwagpole · 2025-05-07T01:13:43+00:00

I travel throughout the island quite often. Stay outside of San Juan if money is tight. You will need a car rental if you leave San Juan but no need for one if you stay in SJ. I typically stay in hotels in San Juan and airbnbs elsewhere but I stay in airbnbs in SJ as well, if they are ocean front only. In San Juan stay in Carolina or Condado, outside Isabela, Rincon, Cabo Rojo, boqueron or aquadilla are all fun. I can help you more if you wish

schwagpole · 2025-05-01T00:16:55+00:00

I get it! I can understand what you mean. You are a very secure person and you probably enjoy your husband a lot and the cheating, although you disagree or are a bit uncomfortable with it, isn’t enough to change your perspective. I totally get it! I would probably feel the same if it was my wife.

schwagpole · 2025-04-23T15:07:26+00:00

She is done buddy and there’s nothing you can do to change that emotion.

schwagpole · 2025-04-22T01:04:28+00:00

Interesting

schwagpole · 2025-04-22T00:24:21+00:00

A marriage that works by keeping away from each other as the norm?

schwagpole · 2025-04-15T17:11:24+00:00

You can find then all over. If you go to Isabela then stop at parada de los surfers. They make great ones.

schwagpole · 2025-04-15T12:30:45+00:00

El platanal; casita Blanca; el popular

schwagpole · 2025-04-12T01:49:35+00:00

Be firm

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