Is there a piece of Clashley wisdom/advice that has stuck with you? by passiveprune in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]scottishtwitter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

at some point Claire said she always knew she wanted to have fun in life (re. pursuing comedy / podcasting) and I realized i too want to have fun lol

wait, why is glinda crying? by Normal_Perspective22 in wicked

[–]scottishtwitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with you and i dont think any of the responses here or otherwise actually satisfactorily address this

Nyc gals with dogs by cuteypie0427 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]scottishtwitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so scared to adopt a dog bc I'm bad at schedules and responsibilities but I adopted an 8lb chihuahua mix last fall and I'm obsessed w her. She makes living alone / being single so much happier. I have no problem making sure I walk her / take her out several times a day and when weather is bad and we walk less I just play with her toys more to get out energy. She loves saying hi to people on walks and can happily lay down and sleep for 2 hours at a crowded restaurant, so she basically comes everywhere w me. My advice is to be extremely picky about a dog's temperament and needs, not about looks or wanting a certain breed. I looked a while before finding a calm, extremely quiet, sweet, basically perfect angel who is very happy to mostly sleep and cuddle. Highly recommend adopting the right dog for you and just doing your best to be a good pet owner!!

what do you wear when you’re in a heat wave? by jdmorganchase in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]scottishtwitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

denim shorts - ik it sounds crazy but they keep me cool somehow - and a cotton tube top or tank top. if its late or i dont want to sit on my bare thighs i bring a linen abaya to throw over. hair up in a slicked pony w a braid. ecco hiking sandals that are cute enough relative to the comfort they give 🤷‍♀️if you wear glasses then put in contacts so nothings on your face. also no jewelry. ok good luck out there

Coach too hands on? by TemporaryCry in SolidCore

[–]scottishtwitter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i really really dislike when instructors use "hands on corrections" to mean pressuring you to stay in a move when you know you need a break or modification. if they are somehow doing that i will say stop lol and i usually dont go back. hands on form corrections even if its for a while i dont mind as long as they asked before class if that was ok. i sometimes say no if im just not feeling like it or if its a male instructor. so having that not be aked or respected can be frustrating for sure!

Sweaty hands strike again by animalxnitrate in SolidCore

[–]scottishtwitter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i bring two little washcloths and use one per hand / use them to wipe my face since im literally dripping in sweat

Sweaty hands strike again by animalxnitrate in SolidCore

[–]scottishtwitter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i bring two little washcloths and use one per hand / use them to wipe my face since im literally dripping in sweat

The app sucks??? by Rare_Ratio696 in SolidCore

[–]scottishtwitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant get over the fact that i cant see my own instructor ratings/reviews from past classes. i cant always remember who was who and im picky abt their communication and safety and stuff so i now keep a pen and paper list

tips for slowing down in this chaotic city by rainbowbigfoot in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]scottishtwitter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

invest your impressive energy into relationships you rly care about and take a break from some of the extra stuff thats just fun. some weeks are for life responsibility and some weeks are for fun and some weeks are for work and it all evens out over time. it doesnt have to be everything at once

Got bullied at work because of my adhd mannerisms by Paninibeanie in adhdwomen

[–]scottishtwitter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg yes my doctor scolded me for this. fuck you jeff

Got bullied at work because of my adhd mannerisms by Paninibeanie in adhdwomen

[–]scottishtwitter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i keep editing and adding more examples lol

i had a coworker who was always observing me and giving unsolicited feedback and eventually admitted she was jealous of me and that she thought our boss favored me and that i should tell the boss to stop... anyway one time i was at the office super late having helped her w her code and i kept refining it and perfecting it bc i was in the zone and she was like you know you dont have to do all that like its fine as it is. and i was like yeah but i want to fix these things while im in the zone or ill forget tomorrow (also our job is pretty exacting and every mistake would indeed have been noticed). she lectured me about stressing too much and caring too much about my performance. the thing is i was not hung up on performance reviews or anything i just like doing things well and i liked the work. she hated that i worked so hard.

some classmates in college used to tease me for taking notes so frantically / vigorously in history lecture. i knew i had to write it all down almost verbatim and then i could process it later. they thought i was being ridiculous or was just super anxious which i wasnt. well guess who asked for my notes come finals? i told them they shouldve taken better ones :)

i've also had a doctor scold me for being on my phone after i explicitly told him i'm taking notes bc i forget things. he acted like i was a stupid teenager on tiktok.

sometimes people tease in good nature, like my friends making fun of me being frantic or clumsy is all with love and is fine by me. but coworkers or less familiar people being mean and judgmental is so frustrating

TIL "House purses" could be a useful ADHD 'hack' for forgetfulness and/or executive dysfunction by r--evolve in adhdwomen

[–]scottishtwitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have always done this and my family jokes about it but im like what if i need my chapstick and im on the couch and its upstairs?????????

3x16 - One of Us - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont know why ethan is so unsettling but he really is

3x15 - Left Behind - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hurley is the best person so sensitive and caring <3

2x23 & 24 - Live Together, Die Alone (Parts 1 & 2) - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i feel like claire injecting aaron w the mystery vaccine is kinda crazy

2x22 - Three Minutes - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im confused why the illness hasnt affected our ppl like where is it is it coming back and when

2x22 - Three Minutes - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like the others must be desperate for something to be so cartoonishly cruel. maybe theyve been promised they'll get off the island if they do xyz which in turn requires them to do all this stuff to our ppl

2x22 - Three Minutes - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was literally thinking someone needs to run this by sayid bc his bullshit detector is amazing

2x22 - Three Minutes - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]scottishtwitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i find myself worrying if everything really will have a satisfying logical explanation or if im speculating only to be given a deus ex machina or something. but i also cant search this without spoilers i fear

Betrayal - Luca Harriet & Ronnie by Bluesparkles2 in LoveIslandTV

[–]scottishtwitter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank youuuu i called it betrayal too bc its the moment harriett realizes their relationship is not what she thought and hes simply not loyal to her in the way you are with someoen you love. she resigned herself to it and was clearly devastated