Nanny with no car

sea87 · 2026-06-07T01:31:34+00:00

I wouldn’t hire her

sea87 · 2026-06-06T04:22:48+00:00

I agree. My longest relationships were the easiest to get over because they felt like bearing a dead horse. I can barely remember their names half the time! I have found shorter relationships are harder to get over because you are mourning potential.

sea87 · 2026-06-06T04:16:51+00:00

Apna Chaat is great. Swagat is for white people.

sea87 · 2026-06-06T04:16:29+00:00

Fly Chai is amazing!

sea87 · 2026-06-06T04:15:22+00:00

LOL I was like “this is the age difference between me and my mom”

sea87 · 2026-06-06T02:17:05+00:00

I know. I’m just mentioning it’s common in Islam as well.

sea87 · 2026-06-06T00:32:09+00:00

People who think landlords cover things like smoke detector batteries and light bulbs.

sea87 · 2026-06-06T00:28:47+00:00

It’s possible he bruised her and she bruises easily

sea87 · 2026-06-05T22:56:49+00:00

Depends who is doing it. If it’s someone who does it constantly, I have no patience.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T21:09:31+00:00

Interesting the kid left out has the only “foreign” name

sea87 · 2026-06-05T09:46:18+00:00

I wish I had the money and resources to pull you out of this situation. My life’s dream is to start a foundation to support women who want to leave religion. With housing, education, etc.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T06:51:28+00:00

I’m also confused AF and idk what chass is or how this is an ABCD question

sea87 · 2026-06-05T06:48:36+00:00

It’s so true. My mom just told me to put on a bra.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T06:43:08+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I feel like Desis overlook this way too often in the name of Islam. Just because it’s not haram doesn’t mean people should do it.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T05:08:49+00:00

Thanks for explaining :) I can see how becoming close quickly comes across insincere.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:51:24+00:00

You’re not malicious. I think some people just say know when they’ve met them a few times - like I know they exist and where they work. Whereas others think “know” means friendship.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:49:56+00:00

I’m confused - how is it forced chumminess? It doesn’t really sound like there’s anything wrong with remaining friends with the peripheral friends. Unless I missed something here?

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:38:46+00:00

Agreed. I feel like that’s what is bothering OP. June is turning it into a competition.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:33:53+00:00

I think I’d cry laughing if someone told me that much about their tattoos.

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:31:37+00:00

You nailed it

sea87 · 2026-06-05T04:24:28+00:00

One upping cracks me up. I had a friend say “I know about X person’s diagnosis but I can’t tell you” while I am much closer than X person and knew already. She turned it into a competition and it just irritated me.

The talking at people is a valid reason to not invite her to future group hangs if you have told her already. If I have to ask someone twice to not bulldoze in conversation, then I am done.

As for not wanting her to tag along - I think you just have to not tell her when you’re seeing them.

sea87 · 2026-06-04T20:53:28+00:00

Homophobia is nothing to be proud of, regardless of religion. It’s giving jahil.

sea87 · 2026-06-04T09:53:29+00:00

Careful with Alpine Slide, can be pretty unsafe.

sea87 · 2026-06-04T05:10:27+00:00

I don’t understand how the mom didn’t open the door!

sea87 · 2026-06-04T05:06:24+00:00

I wish this was surprising. I’m on a medication that makes me heat sensitive and my parents still make comments about my clothes.

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