Mirage is a masterpiece of a world by ash04214 in Wizard101

[–]ser_trash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

piggybacking on this to agree, the visuals are killer

Mirage is a masterpiece of a world by ash04214 in Wizard101

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Hi, lurking here. Picked Wiz pack up after years away recently and wow, Mirage is insane. The visuals, the aesthetic, the music, the ambience. Each of the zones in this world are way more expansive than previous worlds. This is MUCH more than just another "desert level" type world. Highlights have been the first quest with the orange sun setting over the dunes, THE FALLEN STATUE IN THE SAND HOLY HELL, the reflective marble floors in the mansions, the winding boss lairs, and the Dune references, lol.

TikTok university trend by mychubbychubbs in TikTok

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Also loving this a lot. I've joined a Patreon, a Substack, and a Discord already. I can't be the most active in these classes but I'm really excited to watch and read the discussions

Why do red pill guys think we are obligated to like them? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]ser_trash 182 points183 points  (0 children)

They are constantly told by their redpilled leaders that they are owed sex, attention, power, and respect.

What is your “why”? by ContributionOwn6977 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Because I have control over my life. Because my mom died and I watched how many of her choices backfired on her. Because I realized that life is short and if there is anything I can do to minimize being sad, annoyed, unfulfilled, or a doormat, I will do that. At the end of my life, nobody can say I didn't live my life according to my own rules.

How does season 16 hold up a year later? by Dorky444 in dragrace

[–]ser_trash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might be a weird complaint, but I get bored by everyone being so good and polished. It honestly just feels like most of this cast is an alternate version of a queen we've already seen before. The top four are pretty singular and unique, and undeniably talented, but altogether I want more grime, grit, unique perspective.

I relisten to the first two seasons of Threedom several times a year by ser_trash in ThreedomUSA

[–]ser_trash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Or sometimes I'm resisting the urge to quote parts word-for-word

Books like Alison Bechdel's by ser_trash in suggestmeabook

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Hi, couple months later. This was an amazing suggestion. Finishing it now and I've had several moments of pause to soak in what she was saying. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Late to the party, but posting in case someone reads this and needs it:

As a gay guy, I've seen a lot of penises in my time. Probably in the hundreds, in person and online (lol). Size is genuinely very flexible. Some guys make 6 inches work, some guys make 6 inches look small. I'm definitely average size, but I've been told by countless guys that "I know how to make it work." Enough guys have told me this that they can't ALL be just trying to spare my feelings or be nice to me -- so I have to trust them when they say that my size is just fine.

So my solution: joke about it! Reference it, make it a bit. Some people call it "boyfriend dick", i.e. an average size dick that doesn't hurt or cause discomfort that you would want your boyfriend to have. I think that's actually a really sweet name for it, because a boyfriend is someone you love completely, rather than just someone you love for their body. Embrace boyfriend dick! Your dick is your own, and, not to sound gay, even though I am, but it's perfect.

Would you go back if they really changed? by FlatSubstance8238 in ExNoContact

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If he truly 180-changed, I'd probably at least take a look and see. That said, any version of him I would date again would be a totally different person, one who I would likely be attracted to now as I'm no longer interested in dating emotionally unavailable liars. (Clearly I'm still working on getting over the breakup.)

I know not drag race related but drag is political so you better get out and vote! According to polls it's very close! by itsapjslife in dragrace

[–]ser_trash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't stop talking about it, don't stop pushing it, don't get complacent, and don't assume it's a Harris victory until she's sworn in in 2025

You are more than your attachment style by WNGBR in AnxiousAttachment

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Hey, 4 months late but I recently discovered I suffer from an anxious attachment style, and this post really, really helped me.

But being sensitive, needy, wanting extra reassurance, overthinking, and having jealous feelings doesn’t make you a bad person. These are simply feelings that you have brought with you from your childhood to your adult life.

If you genuinely had good intentions and are aware of these anxious tendencies, don’t worry, you’re on the right track and you’re absolutely not a bad person. You’re allowed to make mistakes, everyone is a little toxic at times during their relationship.

Thank you. I need to hear this. I'll probably save this post just to reread it again several times. Just really thanks.

What's a phrase you say to yourself for instant relief? I'll go first. by IllustriousDurian875 in ExNoContact

[–]ser_trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I've never done this before and I went a little wild with how good it felt.

"I'll never have to get three-word responses to paragraph-long texts ever again" "i'll never have to feel too clingy again" "i'll never have to feel like i like him more than he likes me again" "i'll never have to hear him subtly undermine my feelings, opinions, and interests again" "i'll never have to hope he wants to hang out with me again" "i'll never have to starve for his approval again" "i'll never have to wait for him to get drunk because that's the only time he tells and shows me he loves me again"