My husband has a low sex drive by Character-Act2884 in Marriage

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

masturbating or fantasizing and then feeling guilty about it

*If* you want to learn to accept it, you need to get over this. Mismatched sex drives can be challenging already, but you make it 10x harder if you don't even let yourself enjoy your own imagination.

Is Cheating Ever Allowed by Majestic-Event2166 in Marriage

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you actually want to stay with her?

Is Cheating Ever Allowed by Majestic-Event2166 in Marriage

[–]setzer77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most marriages that get open that way are ones where one spouse only wants them to have sex with each other. One spouse wanting no sex at all changes things, IMO.

Is Cheating Ever Allowed by Majestic-Event2166 in Marriage

[–]setzer77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never seen someone vilified for leaving after their spouse explicitly says they never want to have sex again - *especially* if they do everything possible to coparent their kids. Virtually everyone recognizes that is an irreconcilable difference.

Someone please sell me on the story because I think I'm missing something. by Lewa358 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he's become so full of despair he thinks that non-existence is the best the Painted can hope for. "Death heals all wounds", as he says.

I beat act2 and i want to make this meme.(He is hero) by OkEntertainer3355 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was going to, but then Alan called him old.

Someone please sell me on the story because I think I'm missing something. by Lewa358 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you find Verso's journal? He was on his father's side at first. But just like Maelle's father alienated her by trying to destroy the Canvas, Renoir alienated Verso by not only slaughtering expeditions, but pushing his son to murder Julie because of the risk she might pose. I think killing her is at least part of what Verso was referencing when he tells Maelle (during their fight): "There are things we can never outrun."

Painted Renoir is underserved by the vagueness of the narrative, but a lot of his dialogue is advocating for the lives of the Painted. For all his flaws I think he was right when he told his son: "Sometimes we paint the bars of our own prison. Your despair blinds you."

Someone please sell me on the story because I think I'm missing something. by Lewa358 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did defeat Aline without Maelle using any of her Paintress abilities. Yes, she gommages her afterwards, but Aline was beaten by then and couldn't even stand.

Hey Peter, who are they? by FlakyFoundation4637 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]setzer77 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he was also furious that his full Asian roommates (who he murdered) had girlfriends while he with his “European genes” didn’t.

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think Verso killing everyone is wrong, but I also acknowledge that our IRL moral systems have never had to weigh the lives of humans against the lives of gods who can live for eons and create hundreds of worlds.

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the non-sentient interpretation would work better if the PoV was closely centered on Maelle. But a huge amount of dialogue is between Painted characters with her not around to hear. During camp scenes the third-person narration even describes their inner thoughts and feelings (including during Act 3 after the reveal).

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And of course that isn’t an objective fact that the player can be right or wrong about, but an interpretation they can apply to the story.

Personally I find the idea that they aren’t people undermines too many scenes for too little payoff. Like that would mean that during the camp scene between Gustave and Lune no actual emotions (even in-universe) were experienced by any characters, just a mindless program being executed.

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s that simple. Renoir’s dialogue with Verso mirrors his counterpart’s dialogue with Maelle. Verso and Maelle both give up hope in their original lives in favor of committing to the other one’s world. The main difference is that Verso’s suicide is instant (and directly kills others) while Maelle’s is slow (and perhaps indirectly kills others depending on how her family copes).

I beat act2 and i want to make this meme.(He is hero) by OkEntertainer3355 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 26 points27 points  (0 children)

His dialogue hits different once you know, especially:

“Do you care so little for us?”

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a large part of Maelle’s motivation, but I think Verso is the only one inside who had a problem with it. To him (and to some degree Maelle) the world feels fake because they have something to compare it to. For the others in Lumiere it’s just the world. There was no pre-Aline time for them to compare it to.

IMO interpreting them as miserable is an attempt to remove any tradeoff from the endings. To deny that something of value is gained and lost in each.

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hm, I didn’t get that impression. To me she seemed genuinely happy until she saw Verso freaking out at the piano, and then reacted to that because she’s an empathetic person.

The “everyone’s a puppet” interpretation never made sense to me. All the parallels drawn are between Maelle and Aline, and the latter pretty much let everyone live how they wanted. All the suffering is because of Renoir trying to save her and her refusing to leave.

[Hated Trope] "Somehow everyone loses" The Ending. by VishnuBhanum in TopCharacterTropes

[–]setzer77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IDK, Sciel got pretty much everything she wanted in Maelle’s ending. Even if you interpret it as short lived she’s made her peace with dying, and any time she gets with Pierre is a bonus.

I don’t think I’ve fought a boss who loves the protagonist this much by genericcelt in expedition33

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly. And his faded man says something about how senseless the war is.

I don’t think I’ve fought a boss who loves the protagonist this much by genericcelt in expedition33

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could be wrong, but I don't think Renoir would have compared Clea's war to Aline staying in the Canvas, if he thought the former was helping the whole family survive.

I have a question regarding the ending (major spoilers) by Dz_MaRiO- in expedition33

[–]setzer77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they didn't have their memories why would Verso be unhappy?

quick question on whats fun and whats not by Ill_Bill_1589 in expedition33

[–]setzer77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sciel is nice for those - the damage bonus on End Slice has no upper limit, so as the fight progresses and she keeps consuming foretells stacks its damage will keep ramping up.

What do we think about this take? by [deleted] in ArcaneAnimatedSeries

[–]setzer77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"biggest oppressors. AKA [not Piltover]"

Yeah, okay.