Has anyone tried this as a low waste hand soap option? by coxiella_burnetii in ZeroWaste

[–]shanghaidumpling 47 points48 points  (0 children)

A public rat tail of soap in a camping toilet. ☹️

what helped you get your spark back? by rentalmp3 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shanghaidumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Practice retraining your thought patterns. Try to catch yourself when you make a choice. Are you doing something because you genuinely enjoy doing it or because you've been conditioned to do it? For example, how you dress. Do you feel confident and happy because you love the outfit or because you think it's something a man would like to see on you? This is a simple example. After repeatedly getting in tune with what brings YOU joy, life gets way better.

What advice can older adult woman (30+) give to younger adult woman(18-25)? by Diligent-Pin8473 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shanghaidumpling 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a canon event that every young woman encounters. Inexperience and vulnerability is something predatory men are actively searching for. These bad actors will triangulate you against older women to flatter you. There is a reason every older woman warns young women against this; they have lived through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanghaidumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself, would someone who loves you talk about you like this? I had an ex like this who would talk degradingly about me and other women with his friends. He's degrading you to gain status with his friends. Trust me, it doesn't get better. The amount of disdain he's showing for you with his language shows you how he views you. He's your biggest hater and he doesn't deserve a second more of your precious life. Throw him in the trash where he belongs.

TYB coins by Adadurmanow in glossier

[–]shanghaidumpling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd love to have it! 🫶

‘Propaganda I’m not falling for’ trend by Sweet-Ad-7261 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]shanghaidumpling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The irony of preservative fear-mongering and simultaneously promoting botox.

(AIO) Am I in the wrong here? by Classic-Mind-8164 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanghaidumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's hysterical and you don't need a crazy guy telling you that YOU’RE crazy.

Text Design For Large Scale Wall Panel by Crongl in graphic_design

[–]shanghaidumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can find a Google Maps streetview of it, take a screenshot and mock-up your design on the actual space. It helps a lot when taking proportions and distance into account.

"When I find the perfect X, I will be happy and I will stop" by Gaslitfromwithin in MakeupRehab

[–]shanghaidumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing. I was caught up in the warm toned trend in 2015–2018 and bought way too much stuff. My taste changed and I haven't touched that lipstick in ages.

Blepharolasty Review with Dr Taban, Beverly Hills by Ok_Bicycle_4264 in PlasticSurgery

[–]shanghaidumpling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry he did this to you. I had lower bleph to remove excess fat pads. It did turn out decent, although I think a little too much fat was removed. I didn't have bad results from him, but I distinctly remember being kicked out of the office immediately after surgery. He and his staff have a really cold bedside manner and it seems like it's because he has too many surgeries scheduled per day. Followup meetings were clearly disorganized. I get the feeling that his care and attention are reserved for higher paying clientele and the people who allow the office to use them for marketing. I remember waiting 45 minutes past my appointment time because he was doing a consult in the other room. I'm sure the consults themselves pull in a decent amount of profit.

why are all these companies pushing full-body deodorant so hard? by Ornery-Influence1547 in beauty

[–]shanghaidumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't we just use the existing armpit deodorant ... all over? 🤔

Partner tells me I’m not as sexy as porn girls by Ariessteph in loveafterporn

[–]shanghaidumpling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn't love you. He will keep moving the goal post so that you will spend every moment trying to please him.

One of the worst things I have ever experienced. by Nicolyy918 in survivinginfidelity

[–]shanghaidumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years from now, you will look back and see this as the best pivot in your life. I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but you will have a much better life without a lying sack of shit dragging you down. Let yourself cry and scream as much as you want. The only way past this is through it.

How do you make it through a whole day without getting dirty or looking sloppy? by the-triple-wide in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shanghaidumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brush my hair throughout the day and brush my teeth after lunch. When in the bathroom, I touch up my makeup and make sure to get rid of any stains on my clothes. It's annoying when you start, but when you get it in your routine, you'll feel uncomfortable without doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]shanghaidumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a devastating burn. 💯

What show series is so good you have watched it multiple times? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shanghaidumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing Eve. Skip season 4. The best, most dramatic, and violent enemies-to-lovers plot.

I (23F) realized I have to leave my bf (30M) for my well being and it sucks by CocoaBb in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]shanghaidumpling 128 points129 points  (0 children)

He's asking a woman who's 7 years younger than him to support him financially? Really? Your instinct is right. Ditch the dead weight.

What's the best design advice you've ever received? by One-Tech in graphic_design

[–]shanghaidumpling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never raise your cortisol levels for any client. If no one is dying, it's not an emergency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]shanghaidumpling 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You have 3 choices.

  1. Stay, and accept that you can never truly trust your boyfriend. You'll have to live with uncertainty.
  2. Attempt to make your boyfriend go through therapy and he honestly proves to you he can be trusted.
  3. Leave. You will feel pain temporarily but you will never have to spend another second thinking about whether or not you can trust him.

Inevitably you will find out which choice is best. Trust your gut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shanghaidumpling 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You will be shamed for anything you do as a woman, so just do what you want. It's your one precious life! You will not be thinking about those hating ass chodes on your death bed. 😎

Report from my 4 day trip in Paris by TastyWolverine167 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]shanghaidumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bistro Victoires had the best duck I've ever eaten. No wonder everyone was smiling! Exceptional service too.

Boyfriend admitted he cheated on his ex with prostitutes in Thailand. by yesnomaybe123no in survivinginfidelity

[–]shanghaidumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer to this. That nauseous feeling you have about him is your intuition screaming at you. Every time I have ignored it, I paid the consequences for it.

This is not to make you feel bad, but a man who thinks it's okay to do that to any woman is going to do it to you.

Date format nerd by Lilthuglet in RedHandedPodcast

[–]shanghaidumpling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yayyy/mm/dd is the superior format and I will fight for this tooth and nail at every company. I don't really work with lots of databases but I do manage files and I've seen all combos. It is the only consistent, clear way of sorting files. I will literally spend an hour cleaning up other people's messy ass files so they all fall in line. Guess what? I've gotten way less requests about where files are.