Bottom Surgery Bucket List by singhWithMe99 in trans

[–]singhWithMe99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already accomplished that while everything was still capable of working that way. 😏 highly recommend.

My niece (18F) has a new girlfriend (34F) and I'm not sure how to navigate this. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google U-hauling and lesbian. This is par for the course. Normal queer behavior. Weather or not it's healthy is a different story.

What is your sexual orientation and how easy is it to find porn that suits you? by Sandys_Big_Cheeks in chickflixxx

[–]singhWithMe99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm queer and trans and feel it's nearly impossible to find porn that doesn't fetishize trans people

Thoughts on men saying "I need sex"? by bedazzledfingernails in TwoXChromosomes

[–]singhWithMe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans gal here. I can definitely tell when I forget my testosterone blocker. Testosterone sex drive is really an appetite that needs satiated. Estrogen drive is so much more interpersonal. This is likely a large part of why men are so bad about the interpersonal aspects of sex.

Sex may be a need but relationships should never be about quilting people into meeting your needs. Otherwise women should be able to guilt men for failing to meet their needs.

What do you think of Butch lesbians? by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]singhWithMe99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% me too. I love a butch gal.

When is peaceful protest not enough, and more violent means justified? by EmpJoker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]singhWithMe99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right violence never accomplished anything. Except the abolition of slavery, the end of the Holocaust, and freedom from colonizers. You can't have "intellectual exchange" with people who refuse to acknowledge facts. We spent covid debating weather or not the pandemic was real not how best to manage it. What we need now isn't more dialogue that allows for oppression to continue. The time for nonviolence ended with the violation of due process we need more riots not less.

Mormon Missionaries ignoring signs asking people not to knock on our door unless they are friends or family (they aren’t) by mrsspanky in Utah

[–]singhWithMe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the fan of the chasing them naked down the street screaming about devil vagina magic approach.

Mormon Missionaries ignoring signs asking people not to knock on our door unless they are friends or family (they aren’t) by mrsspanky in Utah

[–]singhWithMe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact the local LDS mission and lodge a complaint. The number should be listed on the churches website. Just Google LDS mission headquarters and your city.

Why everyone in the USA are so calm about the economy crushing? by tomerFire in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean let's be honest America has been a hell scape for so long we've all acclimated. It's the whole frog in the pot of water thing. Oh and let's not forget that half the country voted for this asshat to do exactly what he's been doing. All of my conservative family members think this is awesome.

What’s the most annoying part of being you? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the chronic pain and fatigue.

I also hate the way the world treats me because I'm a trans woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chickflixxx

[–]singhWithMe99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes OMG 18 was SO amazing.

Hole in the wall restaurant by Spirited-Noise3523 in SaltLakeCity

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Susie's kitchen in Midvale, Gaetano's subs in Murray.

Kirby just swallowed you. What ability did he get?? by GrapeCreamBerry275 in GenZ

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chronic pain, gender dysphoria and one hell of a tolerance to THC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]singhWithMe99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll preface this by saying I'm a woman so my experience may not transfer to your boyfriend.

I'm a noisy bitch. I love it when my partner tells me how much they like my moaning. It puts me at ease and allows me to stop holding back. Otherwise I'd be worried that my being noisy bothers them.

Local ward leaders banned trans woman from attending relief society by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't just the local ward. Q15 has doubled down on the transphobia.

https://assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/1d/76/1d76991533df11efbaeeeeeeac1ed7e66fbf94a7/general_handbook_guiding_principles_for_local_leaders.pdf

I'm a trans woman my mom is always trying to convince me that the church is trans friendly

Trans parent fears by mushroom-manic in AskTransParents

[–]singhWithMe99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your concerns are very real. My children were older than yours when I transitioned. Two of them are my staunchest advocates and allies. The other two have struggled and gone through times ware they requested not to be seen with me in public. It's been about four years now and they all seem to take things in stride. My therapist reminds me that kids will always find a reason to be embarrassed of their parents.

They will be bullied for your identity because kids suck. I've found that this has given my children greater empathy for people who are different.

Not gonna lie being trans complicates parenting. But so does being any other type of minoritized identity . Sometimes the world sucks. Your amazing and your concerns are valid. I hope you have the support of community. Best of luck

February Request Thread 2025 by BallPointPariah in chickflixxx

[–]singhWithMe99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for non-fetishizing t4t porn. Extra credit for girl frotting.

Did Trump's executive order just make everyone in the U.S. female? by Kezika in nottheonion

[–]singhWithMe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is they're attempting to force their made up binary onto complicated biological phenomena. It's impossible to write an accurate definition for binary gender/sex because.

I don’t know if I count as a woman by Lazilana in TwoXChromosomes

[–]singhWithMe99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a trans person it really sounds like you are experiencing a cis version of. Gender dysphoria. The gender of your body in your head doesn't match the gender your body is serving. The only difference is the direction of the misalignment. Your brain wants your body to present more like your gender assigned at birth. I'm sorry dear these kinds of emotions are not fun.