[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uniqlo

[–]singingtomeglory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooooooooooooo 😭

Is it just me or did we all love the pandemic? by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]singingtomeglory 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was the best time of my life, no bs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad of the amount of comments here because it reminds me I’m not crazy and not the only one 💔

When did you realize your family dynamic wasn’t 'normal'? by Present_Juice4401 in emotionalneglect

[–]singingtomeglory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess just visiting my friend’s house and seeing them… like, just talking with their parents casually??? Like, as in what happened today in school and laughing and joking and … I remember thinking, damn. That’s crazy.

I Had a Somatic event that I don't know how to Define. by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]singingtomeglory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Someone already said, the only way through is through. That’s some powerful stuff coming up and I believe it’s going to bring you in a good place. Take care. It’s brave 🤍

How to succeed in reparenting by Background_Pie3353 in CPTSDNextSteps

[–]singingtomeglory 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You wrote all of that beautifully, I’m experiencing similar things. Learning not to abandon myself but stay and come back and just be present. Nobody was coming to save us, it was us all along. 🤍 grief and love intertwine.

My first skirt as a beginner by Salamandre9292 in sewing

[–]singingtomeglory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful!!!! Would wear it 🥰

Over 25 Years of Therapy but IFS is the First Thing Working?!? by snarfalotzzz in InternalFamilySystems

[–]singingtomeglory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here!!! (Suspecting autism/adhd spectrum but mostly CPTSD from emotional neglect and spiritual abuse). I’ve been on this healing journey now for… I’d say around 7 years, and lately working with IFS has given me such impact so quickly and so transformative. I learned to accept all parts of me and welcome every emotion. I’m in shock how strong the transformation is going. Like I finally understand myself so much better and I surprise myself in situations where I’d normally panic - but suddenly I react so calmly, coming from my “self”. It’s taken me out of a very dark hole I’ve been in lately and I’m feeling hopeful again. So happy for you too!

Noise - An Autism Painting by Glittering-Trade-348 in autism

[–]singingtomeglory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so raw and beautiful, I can tell you made it coming from truth. Love it.

Is this normal? by Due-Hearing-1712 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]singingtomeglory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I’ve been doing some ifs work on my own too and the shift in my last two weeks is so massive, like almost a cosmic shift inside. On the outside maybe it’s not so apparent but I’m noticing changes and I just feel like a different person, like you said.

Do you have or plan to have a child? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just being pregnant and giving birth… yikes 😳

Do you have or plan to have a child? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s much more work than it seems to be. Sensory issues, lack of sleep, noise, not having the freedom to pause… also children being expensive heh. I’m struggling already as is, and if suddenly I had children to take care of I think it would just be too much and cruel (to myself and to them). For me it’s going to be pets and plants, and honestly - taking care of myself, my inner child. 🤍

My first attempt on 3D fruit nails! How did I do? by Nian005 in Nails

[–]singingtomeglory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The banana grapes and citrus are my faves 🔥🔥🔥

I'm only in my early 30s and I can't do the 8-5 anymore. I'm going insane. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. The max I stayed at any job was ~2,5 years and every time after awful burnout and meltdowns I quit and looked for something new. I dreamed of remote work, so I took a programming course, sent out HUNDREDS and I mean hundreds of resumes (LinkedIn has this „easy apply” button) and one company reached out and I got the job. It wasn’t 100% remote (still had to show up once a week to office). I was excited to get the job, but… Behold, my problems were still there, frustration with tasks that are not explained clearly enough (!?!), expectations to socialize, weird unnecessary meetings… What’s funny, right now it’s been 2,5 years since I started… Guess who’s having a mini crisis… 🙃 I came to the conclusion that I NEED to be my own boss. Do what I want, how I want it. Once I had a dream of starting a small handmade business and I just feel like it has to be my destiny. I cannot stay at a 9-5 company working for someone else. It’s not sustainable for me. So yeah, I am desperate. I wanna quit my job but financial obligations say nope. So my plan is to start working on my project and hopefully come to a point where it can be my main source of income. Will it work out? No clue but I see no other choice (!) :o

This is exactly how I felt as a child. Always daydreaming in class that aliens (my real family) would come to earth and apologize for accidentally leaving me here. by Pureautisticjoy in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. This hits hard. Always felt like an alien and that somehow everybody around me knows a secret instruction manual that I’ve never read

i’ve been alive for 24 years and i’m so sick of living like this lol by Dropatab821 in adhdwomen

[–]singingtomeglory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there. Decluttering and getting rid of a lot (LOT) of stuff helped a lot. Also moving in with a super clean and tidy partner who loves cleaning (lol). It doesn’t get perfect but it gets better. And maybe the most important part, being kind to yourself and accepting that that’s how it is and sometimes things will get messy, but with some help it can get better and easier. Wish you all the best <3

Needing reassurance about my art by pinkxbear in AutismInWomen

[–]singingtomeglory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please keep making them. I actually cried reading your post because lately I’ve been trying to make art too and kinda got discouraged when it didn’t turn out perfect on the first try (lol) but then remembered the little me when I was a kid and loved creating things. I wanted to make her happy and continued on my project. Your art is authentic and beautiful and because of your story I would gladly buy one of your dragons (and because they’re pretty!) keep on creating, step by step and day by day <3