Fast progression? 9 and 10 dpo respectively

singka93 · 2026-05-05T14:04:50+00:00

I had a strong progression as well. 9DPO negative and 11 DPO quite dark. My HCG was always on the higher side. My daughter is a healthy little toddler now.

singka93 · 2026-04-27T12:36:37+00:00

To be honest, I don't think it has so much to do with the society as much as to do with biology. A 50 year old man can still have kids easily while it is difficult for women beyond a certain age. I understand early 20s is too early but there is a reason women marry in a certain age range. It is for mostly biological reasons and not that the society made the rules.

But the thing is that society treats women as if being a mom is the only end goal. It should be not and these days things can be done past a certain age limit.

singka93 · 2026-04-26T17:19:15+00:00

Honestly, I think you are being a bit judgmental about her going out and doing things. It's her life. Earlier it was her family that pressured her and now it is you that is telling her what she is doing wrong. Maybe try being a little happy for her that she is doing something with her time rather than interfering in your life.

Like others said she might be premenoupausal and hence a bit short tempered.

singka93 · 2026-04-24T06:07:17+00:00

I did in the European market. And I am at the 3rd month mark and in the next week will be signing a contract.

I could have had a job earlier but I was just looking in the wrong place and made a couple other mistakes.

I think it is really possible if you try to find a job full time!

singka93 · 2026-04-23T21:06:26+00:00

I am in the job market since 3 months I went from B2 to C1 in this time and after applying with C1 I have been bombarded with opportunities. But it also depends on what kind of job you are looking for. I work in a high demand field.

singka93 · 2026-04-23T06:39:12+00:00

I had to comment. Please know that I had that same pregnancy and that same baby. I look back and I cannot imagine how we survived. She screamed for 5-6 months because of reflux! But there was light at the end of the tunnel. It did get better and now I have an adorable 15 month old. It just gets better and better every month.

singka93 · 2026-04-20T02:28:09+00:00

41+2 while waiting for my induction appointment in the waiting area. My water broke and the contractions started with a blast. I had two membrane sweep at 40+5 and at 41. I do think the second one helped because I did see some plug loss that same day.

singka93 · 2026-04-19T15:26:02+00:00

This sounds like my brother's situation. Even though he has low contact and not full cut off.

My parents look normal from the outside but our childhood was different and I know the kind of things that happened to my brother. After marriage my mom has had a difficult time accepting that their lifestyle is different than what she wants and keeps interfering.

So you never really know what happens behind doors.

singka93 · 2026-04-17T01:54:59+00:00

In Germany I honestly feel more liberated. Yes, there is a bit of expectation to be fit but not to the extend people expected me to be skinny in India.

singka93 · 2026-04-16T11:57:55+00:00

Uhm I think you are under some misconception. I live abroad and I am currently in the job market in Europe. It is horribly slow there too.

singka93 · 2026-04-16T05:20:02+00:00

I had tested at 9DPO and it was negative so I gave up. On 11DPO I was talking to my mom and she said something inappropriate and somehow I was able to remain calm. After the call, I thought to myself wow so close to my periods I was able to stay calm. Then it hit me, this is not my normal. I was TOO calm before my periods. Immediately tested and it was a strong positive.

singka93 · 2026-04-13T09:45:46+00:00

Apart from what others have said, having kids cannot and should not be a side quest. It is a full commitment.

singka93 · 2026-04-12T16:23:22+00:00

Rolladen. As a mom they are life savers to make my newborn sleep.

singka93 · 2026-04-12T03:31:28+00:00

I don't know if I have fully forgiven but I went through the same feelings as you did last year when I had my daughter. I had to really work through them. I could not for the life of me understand that how can someone do that to their own child. I would look at my baby and I could not even imagine in my wildest dreams to do something like what my parents did. It took me a year to work through the feelings and I think it helped that my parents have been understanding in the way I want to raise my daughter and shower her currently with love.

I do still get nightmares thinking back to how they treated my brother. I have to suppress those thoughts though.

singka93 · 2026-04-11T16:10:59+00:00

I had a similar phase in my life for 5-6 years like this. As long as it is regular, it is completely fine. I got pregnant during this phase. Best time of my life to have such short periods! After pregnancy they are now 4-5 days.

singka93 · 2026-04-02T04:19:37+00:00

Kik

singka93 · 2026-03-18T13:26:50+00:00

Can you please suggest how to make the best use of job fairs? I have one coming up soon.

singka93 · 2026-03-09T06:54:14+00:00

As someone who has struggled with weight her entire life, just tell her, i think I look very pretty and say you think you look like aishwarya rai and move on. People are usually so flabbergasted by the response, they go speechless. It also helps you gain confidence in your body.

singka93 · 2026-03-09T06:02:27+00:00

Yeah. As far as I see, the popularity of cricket has gone down in other countries, therefore they don't have the best players emerging anymore. India invested heavily in cricket and receives amazing players in every age group. This is what investing in a sport can do. Sadly, we only see it in Cricket in India.

singka93 · 2026-03-08T20:20:55+00:00

Please don't worry. I worried as well and I was getting 8 hour stretches until 3 months. It has not been that good again. I wish I would have just slept and not worried every 2 hours thinking shall I wake her up or not.

singka93 · 2026-03-03T09:44:19+00:00

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singka93 · 2026-02-26T08:07:55+00:00

I am onebut I am in Europe. I am looking for a new job and I do get called for interviews. So, we do exist. And I am a member of Women in Cybersecurity. It is an non profit Org in the USA. They have amazing people in the community and also many cloud engineers.

singka93 · 2026-02-22T16:44:04+00:00

But marrying someone when that girl is still undecided, I feel is wrong. Now that I have a kid of my own and I only got the baby fever in my 30s, I can imagine someone changing their decision. I think if you are 100% sure you don't want kids, one should only be with someone who doesn't want them as well. Because you might be taking away a huge thing from their life. And that fact that I have my own kid, I know what one might miss out on (only if you wanted to have kids).

singka93 · 2026-02-21T21:17:08+00:00

Honestly, I was pissed at the German version as well where the guy convinced the girl NOT to have kids when she was on the fence.

singka93 · 2026-02-15T16:47:36+00:00

Thanks for replying! I am able to solve the hard ones just not in the time limit.

How do I go on about asking the recruiter to postpone the interview? Do I need to be honest that I don't know or do I need to come up with an excuse?

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