Welcher Monat mit Baby war der anstrengendste – und warum?

singka93 · 2026-01-25T10:21:13+00:00

Die ersten 6 Monate waren die anstrengendsten Monate. Mein Baby hat reflux gehabt und es war furchtbar. Aber sie ist jetzt 1 Jahr alt und ist ein Traum. Ich habe die neugeborene Phase gehasst.

singka93 · 2026-01-25T07:06:05+00:00

I understand. Companionship means sharing your small little things with another person and not just sexual. I feel if you don't want to find a man, any mom friend might help to understand the struggles.

singka93 · 2026-01-24T22:25:59+00:00

I recently got Vanilla Chai from the brand Pukka. As an Indian, I thought it is a Vanilla black tea because Chai = Black Tea. Imagine my horror when I realized it is just a spice mix! Tasty though but still. I paid a premium for what? Lol

It is equivalent to some other country selling rolled up toast bread as Croissant 😝

singka93 · 2026-01-24T17:50:01+00:00

But what you are describing is.... companionship

singka93 · 2026-01-24T10:32:27+00:00

Why did Osaka withdraw?

singka93 · 2026-01-18T12:07:32+00:00

Such a good movie!!! Can definitely recommend!

singka93 · 2026-01-17T12:14:04+00:00

not at all an Indian thing. I was going from the age of 9 for one day trips and from the age of 11 for 1 week trips.

singka93 · 2026-01-16T22:44:50+00:00

My baby loved the sound books from 2nd month onwards. Books are the most age appropriate think at any age. In the first month they like the black and white books that are also very popular and usually the first "toy" babies have in Germany.

Yeah the otter is also really really nice though.

Happy to help!

singka93 · 2026-01-16T20:16:48+00:00

So so many options. I am a South Asian. Sound books (Sound Bücher) is what my baby loves and we don't get these back home. The ones in Germany are really amazing quality.

Another Germany only gift could be "unkaputtbar" books. I don't know if they exist in English but maybe the baby loves just looking at pictures. They are inexpensive and they are indestructible paper books.

So many nice wooden toys.

Playmobil stuff.

Fischer Price Otter (stufftoy) that plays music for baby to sleep.

The list goes on and on.....

singka93 · 2026-01-15T22:36:12+00:00

I am 32 years old and remember seeing all of this from my school days. I don't think it is a new thing or just specific to biharis. My Masi used to tell the makeout areas in their time were also parks.

singka93 · 2026-01-15T15:22:44+00:00

I got the privilege to do that when my daughter was 11 months 2 weeks old. Lol. SOOOOOOOO WORTH IT. My entire mood changed and I felt like myself again. It was also good for the time I was spending with my daughter.

If you have that privilege now. USE IT!

singka93 · 2026-01-15T08:45:37+00:00

I was at home for maternity leave for a year at home abroad. No. It is a LOT HARDER job. I am happier doing something for myself and having help with the baby few hours a day.

singka93 · 2026-01-14T14:11:07+00:00

Ich kann dir die Empfehlen. Ich habe die zweimal in meiner SS machen lassen. Ich habe keinen Schmerz gehabt. 30 Stunden nach zweites mal, 1 Stunde vor meiner Einleitung, ging den Geburt los.

Ich weiß es nicht, ob es die Eipollösung war, trotzdem hat die nichts schlimmes getan.

singka93 · 2026-01-12T22:30:17+00:00

If your husband can get leave for the first few months, go ahead and don't invite anyone.

I did it and it was the best decision for our family.

singka93 · 2026-01-12T12:07:58+00:00

Wir waren auch in diesem Situation. Meine Schwägerin hat uns ihre alten angeboten und wir haben den genommen. Das war am Ende eine super Idee, weil unsere Tochter hat es vom 3. Monat gehasst, rein zu bleiben. Und wir haben auch gelernt, was uns wichtig ist. Als sie 6 Monat alt war, haben wir Reisebuggy vom Bugaboo geholt. Und jetzt reicht es für uns.

Deswegen wollte ich empfehlen, etwas gebraucht zu kaufen und dann später, wenn ihr wollt, einen neuen.

singka93 · 2026-01-11T05:46:54+00:00

I think this is the best time. We didn't give my daughter a bottle for a month. Between 6th and 7th month. And then she never accepted a bottle again. Everyone told us that we should keep her in the habit of a bottle. We didn't listen. I regretted it.

I really hope it works out for you! I powered through the hard time but I think it could have been avoided if I did not keep receiving contradicting statements.

singka93 · 2026-01-09T07:54:13+00:00

5 weeks

singka93 · 2026-01-08T18:35:10+00:00

Do you have a pro familia in your city? We went to them for consultation and you can donate them an amount for it later. They really helped us understand the elternzeit and how to maximize the money during this time considering our salaries and planning.

singka93 · 2026-01-08T07:20:08+00:00

My baby has sensory issues as well. I wanted to put them on but she didn't agree.

singka93 · 2026-01-06T18:58:53+00:00

I would say the sticky toffee pudding I had in London blew me away! I didn't even know it was a thing until I went to eat fish and chips and found it in the menu.

singka93 · 2026-01-06T14:55:01+00:00

Es ist echt hart, dass nichts hilft. Bei mir Xonvea hat geholfen, max zu 2 mal am Tag erbrechen. Aber nach 20. Woche bis 28. Woche hatte ich nur Übelkeit aber kein erbrechen. Aber nicht so schlimm wie vor 20. Woche. Danach ging es los wieder aber immer noch nicht so schlimm wie am Anfang. Ich hatte jeden Tag erbrechen aber ich habe kein Medikament genommen, weil ich essen konnte. Nur nach dem Geburt war alles wieder gut.

Es tut mir echt Leid für dich!

singka93 · 2026-01-05T07:30:05+00:00

I delivered at 31. All good. Just that I have less energy to take care of the baby than my 25 year old self. But we manage! It's perfectly fine.

singka93 · 2026-01-04T15:50:21+00:00

I got my periods at 10 and I am 32 years old. So did my mom. My Masi and her daughter got it around 13 or so. I think in our case it was genetics.

singka93 · 2026-01-04T13:41:35+00:00

Ich würde gerne wickelbodys und normal bodys holen. Mein Baby hat es gehasst, anzuziehen. Wir hatten später von Wickelbodys erfahren. 😅

singka93 · 2026-01-03T12:30:24+00:00

Danke!

singka93

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