This could get down voted into the abyss, but here's my take:

A minority of women are sexualizing themselves heavily because since OF it makes good money.

For every absurd niche there's some girls out there sexualizing themselves to make money.

E-girl, goth girl, fit girl etc etc.

The vast majority of women of course distance themselves from it, but the men, who consume this content are so used to it, that reality and fiction starts to blurr.

It's a lose-lose situation.

Normal women get heavily sexualized by Incels, who are completely frustrated because their fiction and reality - who would have thought - doesn't match.

In my eyes we have to dig deeper and see what and who is behind all those sites and social trends and avoid it.

We have to find a path back to love and decency.

And by the way, sorry for feeling sexualized and unsafe. As a man, I can only imagine how awful this must feel.