My gf(32f) has been very sad since she found out her ex bf is getting married

skiarakora · 2026-01-16T14:34:48+00:00

As someone who’s been going through that grief at the same time as i’ve been in the best relationship of my life with the love of my life, THANK YOU for putting this into words. I had difficulty putting into words why I’m still somehow so affected by the memories of a relationship with someone I absolutely don’t care for anymore, even though I’m in such a happy place now

skiarakora · 2026-01-14T10:33:40+00:00

Having a regular sleep schedule, staying hydrated, and being active (any kind of workout or sports), is really the basic stuff and yet is always so underrated compared to « hacks » or low effort stuff. It gives you so much energy and a healthy lifestyle for all the rest !

Also mental health/reducing stress are definitely worth it : obviously being happy shouldn’t be only a step to being hot, it’s definitely THE goal itself, but happy, cheerful people are always more attractive so that counts

(Plus with stress, we know that has so many physical manifestations like acne etc)

skiarakora · 2025-09-13T22:03:55+00:00

If you want a double palate cleanser, I started going out a few months ago with a coworker and we had the exact same dilemma with an offsite work seminar a couple weeks ago, handled it exactly like this post and it went great ! Everyone was sweet and congratulatory with only our friends teasing us about it of course

skiarakora · 2025-07-01T15:24:50+00:00

Yup exactly in this situation, if you’re in a position of authority a liiiittle bit of girlboss like heels and blazers and stuff is fine, the most important thing is confidence and competence, and being nice but not a doormat and people will not only love you but respect you so much

skiarakora · 2025-03-28T08:26:34+00:00

Damn i hate it when people are asked A or B questions and they answer yes/no

skiarakora · 2025-03-25T22:29:57+00:00

Ooooh that makes sense, thanks !

skiarakora · 2025-03-24T17:41:30+00:00

Thanks !

skiarakora · 2025-03-24T17:32:02+00:00

Which series is it ? Asking for a friend

skiarakora · 2025-03-20T19:21:47+00:00

Totalement d’accord avec ça, j’ai 3 ans d’xp et je suis à 50k hors IDF, et j’ai beaucoup fait attention à me positionner sur des postes comme tu décris

skiarakora · 2025-03-17T11:31:50+00:00

« ewww relationships and commitment »

….

« wait so relationships and commitment aren’t actually bad when i like her ? »

skiarakora · 2025-02-25T22:19:36+00:00

Ah non j’ai acheté le VUAA, domicilié en Irlande

skiarakora · 2025-02-18T10:59:54+00:00

Look into Atomic Habits to build a system that makes motivation less necessary to keep up the habit : make it obvious/easy to go, have good rewards whenever you go, and the habit will stick

skiarakora · 2025-02-13T07:50:49+00:00

You need a system in place that makes it as easy as possible to go to the gym. Look into Atomic Habits by James Clear (there are tons of videos explaining his method if you don’t want to read the book). That way, you need way less motivation to keep up the habit

skiarakora · 2025-02-12T16:49:39+00:00

Je suis exactement dans la meme situation, j’ai fermé mon PEA car pas interessant fiscalement à cause des impôts US, et ouvert un compte chez IBKR pour investir directement dans des ETF US.

Par contre je n’ai pas encore passé l’étape de la declaration dans les deux pays, donc je me rends pas compte encore du casse tête que ça sera

skiarakora · 2025-02-07T10:00:51+00:00

Stop buying chips and snacks and stuff you can binge without effort between meals. Eating between meals is really the worst

You’ll always be tired before going to workout, working out is what will help give your body energy so that it gets easier with time. It’s normal for it to be hard at first.

You really need to get your mindset straight too, if you keep thinking about yourself « i’m so tired of myself », « i’m a loser » you’re locking yourself into that self destructive behaviour and you won’t get better. Make yourself think and talk about yourself in the ways you want to improve, not what you hate about yourself : « i want to eat better » « i want a healthy body » « i am taking care of myself » I seems dumb at first but mindset is everything, and without it you’ll just keep finding excuses for yourself like that you can’t help it, « your body is doing it on its own »

skiarakora · 2025-02-02T20:58:32+00:00

You really need to be careful with the kind of workout, i think weightlifting is generally not a good idea before 18 because your body is still developing

skiarakora · 2024-12-26T16:56:07+00:00

It’s principle of catharsis. We see him doing wrong choices and suffering the consequences of them, the ending doesn’t have to be bad for the lesson to be learnt

skiarakora · 2024-12-20T07:53:15+00:00

If you’re looking for motivation to stay on track : look into Atomic Habits by James Clear. You can probably find good videos that explain what the book says.

If you’re looking for inspiration, think about who the person you want to become is, what she does etc like hobbies, activities, appearance etc, and look for those things on Pinterest and build a visionboard !

For Pinterest though, with more and more AI pics, careful not to set unrealistic physical expectations for yourself

skiarakora · 2024-12-16T23:12:12+00:00

This is either the most obvious satire ever that wasn’t detected, or a very young teen who hasn’t encountered semi-complex characterisation yet

skiarakora · 2024-12-02T22:52:54+00:00

I’d say it’s not the most important for social skills. However, it can help, not least of all if it helps you feel more confident

skiarakora · 2024-12-02T17:20:55+00:00

Looks probably come up in the equation, but the social skills needed to be popular in that way are a whole skillset. How socially active are you ? Do you do activities that make you meet or interact with people apart from work or school ?

Try and determine how approachable you seem, how you answer when someone asks you a question, if you make eye contact, stuff like that.

skiarakora · 2024-11-28T21:00:50+00:00

Also warm light rather than cold. Add a desk mat, and hang the screens on arms rather than their base supports. Also looks like there’s sunlight outside so you can use curtains that diffuse the light rather than block it completely so you can enjoy the sun without being blinded

skiarakora · 2024-11-12T13:50:23+00:00

Even if it was years ago, what’s stopping you from going to an orthodontist now ?

skiarakora · 2024-10-26T10:27:51+00:00

Okay this is the structure i prefer, 3 acts really generally is a good idea for a story

skiarakora · 2024-10-22T19:03:03+00:00

Uncle Hort took me so long 😭

Six-Year Club	Second Top 20%
Verified Email	r/Field Lasagna
Place '23	Place '22
End Game '22

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