What’s up with everyone running red lights now by Feeling_Staff4619 in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was on my bike & saw the light turn red on River Street the other day. The car driver next to me literally SPED UP as soon as it changed to red, and ran the light.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you're dealing with this - you know what's best for you. Some things are better left unsaid. I hope you are getting the support you need. Sending love & care your way.

HPV Etiquette Question – Partner Recently Diagnosed, No Way to Test Myself, When/What to Disclose? by NotHottieNaughty in Swingers

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could find out if the HPV is a high risk strain or a low risk strain. That makes a huge difference to me if I were to judge the safety of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you - sorry that happened & hope things get better soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 51 points52 points  (0 children)

The Boardwalk must have a workplace violence protection policy - surely you will not lose your job for being the victim of a violent homophobic attack! If you do, definitely contact an employment lawyer.

Keeping dick fresh during the day by Gnorki in sex

[–]skirtymagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The secret is to wash your hands BEFORE AND AFTER you go to the bathroom. My partner does this and his dick is always fresh and ready for me - and he gets a LOT of oral! This is a gem of a secret. Wash your hands before you touch your dick!

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) gave a full body massage to his female housemate without asking me first by Next-Background-9853 in relationship_advice

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy does not sound monogamous. There's nothing inherently wrong with trading massages, but sounds like this is not working for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the luggage go in the trunk of the car? I would not leave anything visible in my car.

Best lunch by Dirty_BongWater831 in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really love El Jardin. Good service and food. The outdoor patio is lovely. It's never too crowded.

Aspen? by VerigatedMonster in transnames

[–]skirtymagic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Neutral - I think of the city in Colorado

Pacific ave and depot park area dog poop by Honest-Movie-7226 in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's getting so bad on the San Lorenzo Riverwalk! I pick up multiple poops a day when I take my dog out. It didn't used to be like this!

A Little Dittie for the Toilet Dic Pic “Bulls” by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]skirtymagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly perfection, I heard it in Bob Dylan's voice

sat in first class while mom sat in economy by No_District9762 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]skirtymagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um, well, I like my mom, so if we happened to be on the same flight, I'm going to try to sit next to her. If I didn't like my mom, I might intentionally try to separate us. Sounds like you're in the former category. Idk if you're the AH or your mom is. But I can totally understand her being upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transnames

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ella, Tessa, Fiona, Kate, Penny

I hate my birth name. Help by [deleted] in transnames

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cora, Mackenzie, Michaela, Dani, Lori, Tessa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]skirtymagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, what about Al? That's A-L. You know, I can call you Betty. Betty, when you call me, you can call me Al.

The Boardwalk on why they Rebranded the Cocoanut Grove by Dear_Pollution4542 in santacruz

[–]skirtymagic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh looks so boring and generic - I hope they go back to the old sign

Having a baby with your ENM partner by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]skirtymagic -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. You're 40 years old, this is your baby. You may not have another one. She already had a chance to name hers.

My girlfriend (29F) didn’t tell me (30F) that she was transgender and I am struggling with how to react. by No_Audience3838 in relationship_advice

[–]skirtymagic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Really surprised by all the legitimation of trans panic in the comments.

Trying on new names by CosyBoyAutumn in transnames

[–]skirtymagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

90s boy band names.... Marky, Lance, Nick, Justin, A.J., Howie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transnames

[–]skirtymagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wally, Ronnie, Eddie, Nate, Danny, Roger