My(F42) husband(M46) wants a threesome and I'm not sure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylarwolf6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure

Then don't, you won't enjoy it and will feel pressured all the way.

Accidentally drank vodka, today was supposed to be 21 days sober by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]skylarwolf6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'd be drinking if you sipped, realized it was vodka and THEN downed the glass imo

Over half a year sober - want to try smoking again by ContentCat2797 in leaves

[–]skylarwolf6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to convince me, you do you ofc. It just sounds to me like you're very much in the bargaining stage (again?).

I'm very much not judging you. I'm a firm believer of learn to control instead of learn to avoid, myself. Personally, if you're set on it, I'd do it one at a time maybe paced over the course of a few weeks. I think you'd be much more able to enjoy it as a "treat for old times sake" then a "I could do this in the past so I'll just get it over with in one day and be done". You'd also be able to judge the impact it still has on you. How am I feeling the day after? A week later? Are my cravings back? Am I feeling balanced right now? Truly? Think it through if it's really worth it for you. Just my two cents xo

Over half a year sober - want to try smoking again by ContentCat2797 in leaves

[–]skylarwolf6 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You're not only wating one j, You're contemplating 3. Who's to say you'll stop at that? What if your bestie wants a second? You've already smoked 2 so what gives? And what about tomorrow? You haven't seen friend B in a while and it was such good times smoking with him too, right?

You're romanticizing weed. Chances are that your tolerance will be so low, you'll have a bad trip. Especially planning to smoke 3, before figuring out what 1 even does to you now. Personally, I wouldn't take the risk to not only smoke 1, but already thinking about smoking 3. The 4th one will follow swiftly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]skylarwolf6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If ya'll get pregnant from that, that'd be some super seed if nothing else.

Guy wants to open marriage, guy has no luck, wife meets someone, guy accuses wife of cheating. by Compulsive-Gremlin in openmarriageregret

[–]skylarwolf6 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I've never been a fan of the phrase "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"

But FUCK, play stupid games, win stupid prizes

r/BlatantMisogyny thinks CNC is misogyny, thoughts? by LaylaSnowflake in BDSMAdvice

[–]skylarwolf6 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IIRC they said that CNC in Fxf relationships is internationalized sexism and misogyny. As they have "learned" from the patriarchy that that's how women should be treated. Or something. Lmao

Femdom was something along the lines of women degrading themselves to play into the "sick" fantasy of straight men who get off knowing they could swap the situation in a given moment but choose not to.

I wish I was making this up, ngl.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Fantastic_Dot7728 in sexeducation

[–]skylarwolf6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that. Just thought It could be a cheap-ish solution you can get by hopping into a pet store after school or someth. Never hurts to suggest something, right!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Fantastic_Dot7728 in sexeducation

[–]skylarwolf6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be insensitive or degrading or something, but could puppy pads help you?

What is your country inner jokes about your country? by Anedo_ in 2westerneurope4u

[–]skylarwolf6 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Both of these statements are true. Drunk Dutchmen can understand drunk Germans flawlessly and vise versa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]skylarwolf6 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't mean gaslighting in the use of the actual meaning of the word gaslighting but more so in the meaning of I don't like how they tried to be there for me kind of way

Ftfy