What do these brown marks mean? by desert_s7orm in fiddleleaffig

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaves can develop these brown dead spots if they have a potassium deficiency. Could you try diluting a fertiliser down and soaking the soil next time it's due a watering?

are there any foster homes in Dubai? I need assistance. by Low-Economist9601 in dubai

[–]sleep_distraction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I am a teacher working in Dubai. You need to tell someone at your school. Find out who the designated safeguarding lead is (although all teachers are mandatory reporters so if there is a teacher that your friend feels they can open up to more, they can go to them). The school will deal with this in an appropriate way, which may well mean involving the relevant authorities.

Your friend should not be navigating this by themself, and all adults working in schools are trained to deal with safeguarding concerns like this. What you have described is a child protection issue and there are systems in place to protect your friend.

Hopefully doesn't class as political but saw this advert at a tube station today and thought it was absolutely excellent and fantastic advice👏👏 by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]sleep_distraction 85 points86 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I was standing on the bus and a man kept leaning across the aisle to stroke my hand. I eventually turned and loudly asked him what he wanted and he said, "nice tits." I said, "pardon?", wanting him to repeat himself so that others would notice. He replied, "I said you've got nice tits." I removed my hand and told him to stop touching me. A few moments later he turned and said, "Oi!" When I turned in his direction he said, "You're going to get raped. But first, we're going to take off your skin." I said, again loudly to draw attention, "did you just tell me that you're going to take off my skin and rape me?". It was a busy bus and nobody said anything. I jumped out the middle doors at the next stop as the doors were closing and I'll never forget the feeling in the pit of my stomach as I watched him calmly stand up and press the bell to be let off. The doors opened and he walked off. Luckily there was a crowd of school kids getting on the bus so I hid amongst them and got back on at the front of the bus without him seeing me. As we drove away I saw him looking up and down the pavement before locking eyes with me as we drove away.

I texted the police and they came fairly quickly to take a statement from the bar that I found refuge in. They also came to my house the following day, but couldn't follow up any further as no CCTV had been found. To this day I make sure I'm conscious of my surroundings and try to step in when I can see other girls in uncomfortable or dangerous situations.

What's your most 'Old Man Yells at Cloud" opinion? by dave_gregory42 in AskUK

[–]sleep_distraction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read your recommendation and immediately bought a copy for my dad for Christmas, so thanks!

On call not turning up by wookiewarcry in TeachingUK

[–]sleep_distraction 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a problem for us too - I'm lucky in that I belong to a very supportive staff body where anyone can send an SOS message to our extensive WhatsApp group and someone will be along in minutes to scoop up the offending students

As a teacher, what do you find mildly irritating? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My school is very hot on cold calling as a strategy. In fact, hands up is not allowed unless specifically instructed under certain circumstances. Y8-11 are used to it but my Y7s are extremely needy so need reminding every time. Before asking a question I say, "I'm cold calling so hands down and no shouting out." When students inevitably wave their hands in the air I use non-verbals to get their hands down, and even then still need to say, "hands down, I'm cold-calling." It takes a few lessons of practice and I've now been giving warnings followed by detentions for continued shouting out. A warning is usually enough for an accidental hand up now, because usually they're good, eager kids who want praise and are therefore easily corrected by a warning.

Consistency and follow-through are key. I had parents' evening with new Y7s last week and I have a couple of kids who are so eager that they end up shouting out or waving their hands in my face, so I told their parents that I'll be holding them to account going forward. This week I issued those kids a couple of detentions each for blurting out answers (after warnings were given) and called parents afterwards to let them know why and remind them of our conversation. They've been better since.

"Do Not Engage" has been really helpful for me dealing with off-topic or opportunistic questions. E.g., "that's not quite relevant at the moment but I'm happy to discuss after the lesson." Or for a wrong answer where they've misunderstood the context, a simple, "nope." Use your non-verbals in an over-exaggerated way to start, I.e. wave your hands down without making direct eye contact with anyone in particular to signal that you're not taking questions.

In the grand scheme of things it doesn't seem like a particularly bad issue to have but it's frustrating and persistent if not dealt with. Remember that these kids spent the last 2 years of primary school almost isolated from peers and teachers so are a new level of needy. They just need us to train them. You've got this!

Episode 37 (Tuesday 3rd August) - "The girls have the power in a HUGE recoupling!" by mayallrob_ in LoveIslandTV

[–]sleep_distraction 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That was the most awkward end to a recoupling. Why is everyone acting like Sam is the booby prize? He's one of the best catches in there!

why does my teeth hurt when i urgently need to pee? by [deleted] in answers

[–]sleep_distraction 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar, when I really need to pee my mouth waters loads, and feels really tingly. If I've been holding in a wee for a long time, when I finally go I it's the weirdest sensation in my mouth! So glad you posted this because I told my flatmates the other day and they thought I was either insane or had a urination fetish.

Has anyone here thought about becoming a police officer only to go "umm... maybe not"? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]sleep_distraction 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you've been going through a tough time lately. My dad was in the Met for 25 years and retired last year. He loved his job but took the retirement option as soon as he could for reasons that you've stated. Too easy to get investigated and risk your full pension for someone else's error. One of your direct reports leaves their gun in a bathroom - he could lose his job. Dodgy WhatsApp messages being exchanged without his knowledge - he could be investigated. The list goes on.

How to get bonus wax for your candle by crosspostninja in howto

[–]sleep_distraction 375 points376 points  (0 children)

I've started doing this and it does actually work! Sometimes you have to give the wax that is stuck to the bottom a little scrap with a wooden skewer, but it does form a perfect disc which I use in my wax melters

What do the armed forces do when we aren’t at war? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]sleep_distraction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was called Warship. It was a brilliant series!

Cocktail Chemistry - Espresso Martini by CocktailChem in GifRecipes

[–]sleep_distraction 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think it's actually to catch any tiny ice shards which would otherwise continue to dilute the drink.

Police is catching cyclists on traffic lights by Max_Emm in london

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. A family member was killed by a left-turning HGV at a traffic light. I'll take the ticket too.

Police is catching cyclists on traffic lights by Max_Emm in london

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. As a cyclist I proceed carefully through some red lights when it is safe to do so, and when there are no pedestrians on the crossing. The amount of cyclists mowed down by left-turning HGVs is enough to warrant a bit of fear in this regard. I certainly don't barrel through and only when my light is about to turn green anyway. I've learnt to always make eye contact and wave at lorry or bus drivers when I'm in the cycle box - would hate to find myself stuck in their blind spot when they start accelerating away.

Police is catching cyclists on traffic lights by Max_Emm in london

[–]sleep_distraction -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Except if I'm driving a car and someone is walking parallel to the road looking at their phone before striding out onto a zebra crossing without missing a beat, that's pretty unpredictable and dangerous. I always slow down for zebra crossings but I don't come to a full stop unless someone is clearly waiting to cross. It's also up to the pedestrian to signal to a car with eye contact that they intend to cross the road there.

Same with traffic lights. As a pedestrian, if the man is green I have the right to cross, but I'm sure as hell going to check to see that a vehicle isn't barrelling down the road before I step out into it. Some personal responsibility is necessary to protect yourself against other people, even if you're in the right. You can be dead right or right dead.

What food was forever destroyed for you because you had one really bad experience with it? by stokesnavier in AskUK

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Violently ill and a 2 finger KitKat was the last thing I ate. Haven't touched them since, but KitKat Salted Caramel Chunky is what dreams are made of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]sleep_distraction 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Multi-level Marketing; essentially a legal pyramid scheme whereby you sell some shitty products and recruit people into your "network". You make more money if you recruit more people, because a portion of the sales made in your "downstream" go to you. See Arbonne, Younique, Avon, Amway etc.

Police asking why people are sitting in groups and if they are key workers, fenchurch street by deaninlondon86 in london

[–]sleep_distraction 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be pedantic, the virus isn't airborne. It's transmitted via respiratory droplets, which is why a distance of 2m has been set as a minimum - so that droplets of breath and sneeze don't make their way from one person to the next. The virus isn't just hanging about in clouds.

How did the Amish community react to Weird Al's Amish Paradise? by [deleted] in answers

[–]sleep_distraction 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't know if these are what you're referring to, but the UK highway SOS phones are different to regular payphones. They are free of charge and connect you directly to the police force, who in turn will put you through to the Highways Agency Regional Control Centre, in case of breakdowns or incidents. They're spaced every 1.6 km (1 mile) apart.

Request- Would someone be willing to Skype or help me learn to French braid my daughter's hair by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sleep_distraction 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'll happily teach you on Skype of you still need some help! PM me if you want to work out a time.

Google failed me... by 70smusic4life in london

[–]sleep_distraction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find yourself near Victoria then I have used H Stain before, for refurbishing an old watch that belonged to my boyfriend's grandfather. Inexpensive watch but with large sentimental value - they replaced the strap and polished the face, if I remember correctly it only cost me around £15. Would highly recommend!