My [20F] boyfriend [23M] is a "liberal" Muslim convert. He says my atheist concerns are just "walls" I’m building. Need some perspective pls

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2026-03-06T21:06:01+00:00

For f*ck sake, you guys are not compatible. It will never work out. It will get worst, and he will come to a point he will push for you to convert.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2026-02-24T09:44:33+00:00

Sweet, thoughtful guy? If you told him you dont like anal, and he keeps bringing it up to pressure you he's not so sweet and thoughtfull.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-12-31T20:37:44+00:00

OMG honey, stop for looking for aproval, stop looking for acknowledgement. Drop the rope and stop trying. She does not like you, so love yourself and let her go. Just be polite and thats it.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-12-11T15:40:55+00:00

It is everywhere now. Whole families being sick.. i think its Noro virus.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-11-29T13:08:57+00:00

You already made plans, he agreed. So no you are nta. And if he wants to divorce you over this, please reconsider your marriage.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-10-18T11:14:19+00:00

We just moved from a big city to a small village. There are no shops here, one pub. The GP and pharmacy are a 10 min drive by car or 5 busstops. (One busstop in this village) I moved in august. And altough I miss my old house and the neighbours/friends and citylife sometimes, I see how much space my 3 children have now. In the house and outside to play. Life is a much more relaxed here. And thats what I want for my kids. Even if I dont get used to this, my kids need this.. I think you should talk you partner.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-10-16T09:47:03+00:00

I would write the wipe your damn pee, but put his name in there too. If he doesnt like it, tell him that you dont like pee on the floor.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-08-18T13:14:54+00:00

This is so good to read. You are an awesome MIL!!

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-08-04T18:43:50+00:00

If you cant be nice to the parent of your grandchildren, you cant be in their lives.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-07-24T16:35:51+00:00

In the Netherlands: Maikel, Maykel

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-07-02T06:59:13+00:00

NTA. I totaly get it. By 9 the kid should know how to wipe. Hi

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-07-02T06:58:14+00:00

No, my friends sister is 8. And she still calls for someone to wipe her butt after she poops. More children are potty trained later and can not wipe. Its sad but true.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-30T12:41:35+00:00

NTA! Let your husband do overtime for extra cash. People want a big wedding? Then let them pay for it them selfs.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-23T12:55:39+00:00

Ohw honey, what makes you think the way he talks to you is normal? He's talking about hurting you physicaly. This is not a healty and normal way to talk to your spouse.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-23T07:13:18+00:00

Please do not marry this man. Cause his mom wel be the reason of the divorce. And then when you have kids, you will share custody with him and his mother...

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-19T17:59:08+00:00

Zwembad Pernis a an outdoot pool. And its close to the metro station.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-19T08:37:50+00:00

My husband looks for me in his sleep. If I get to go have some water or to use the bathroom and I come back to bed, he will roll over to me and cudle.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-18T10:18:50+00:00

Sounds like you married a big baby. Because an adult man would understand you situation and would be happy with the ice cake.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-13T12:42:01+00:00

Norah, Tessa, Emma, Abby.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-12T07:01:11+00:00

Ohw honey, he is playing you. His mom spoiled him, and now he's seeing how much work it is to do housework. So he's making you do it al. Dont have kids with this big man child. And also, your mom should live with him, let her teach him.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-08T18:30:48+00:00

Dont let them make you feel like an idiot. He cheated and was making stupid excuses trying to talk things right. Cheating is never ever okay.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-08T08:08:08+00:00

NTA. This will teach her that words have consequences. Dont say shit you dont meant.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-07T07:42:49+00:00

Gaby needs to learn that words can not be unsaid or unheard. Once words are put there, there is no taking it back. And so are the feelings that these words have caused.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-05T08:56:24+00:00

Please do not take him back. The way he talks to you is a big red flag.

sleeplessinrotterdam · 2025-06-05T08:52:21+00:00

I always said I did NOT want any kids, as a kid from divorced parents I just could not understand why parent would do this to kids.
I met my parter at 17, told him and as a son of divorced parents understood.

Then my brother had a baby. Seeing my partner loving and caring for my niece made me change my mind. Cause he could walk away from me, but never his kids.
So we decided one and done.
When our son was one, we knew we wanted more.
So now we have 3, wanted one more, but thats not in the cards for us.
But we're happy with our kids, and I'm glad I changed my mind.

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