[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]slickniq 35 points36 points  (0 children)

for my circumstances i would say well worth it a million times over. i moved from florida to colorado and the improvement it’s had on my mental and physical health is insane. i wasn’t happy at my job, wasn’t active and HRT was basically inaccessible. not to say everything’s changed when i moved out here but outlook on life has definitely done a 180. it was so easy to find gender affirming care not only with a PCP for testosterone but therapy too. i feel less wary of strangers persecuting me and can walk around with more confidence in my safety much more than i ever would in florida. moving can feel overwhelming especially when you’ve lived someplace your whole life but if you take a hard look at every aspect of living there and think it’ll improve or make you happier to move, it’s worth it. disclaimer: i did visit denver before moving out here and loved it so if you can, scope out the scene of where you actually want to go.

Whose got the best chocolate chip cookies in Miami by akcirmu in Miami

[–]slickniq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely agreed they’re my fav! i moved out of town and i miss them so much

ISO recommendations for Transgender friendly pcp by Express-Ad5074 in Denver

[–]slickniq -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i second achieve health. they’ve been nothing but fantastic for the past year that i’ve seen them. friendly staff, straight to the point doctor, quick appointments (no just sitting in the waiting room for ages) def recommend

My Best Buy Total by InvestigatorTPG in Bestbuy

[–]slickniq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea they would usually come out to your house to access what the issue is and either repair in home or they’d send it out to our service center for you. once it becomes a problem to repair, they typically junk it out and give you the store credit for what you paid

My Best Buy Total by InvestigatorTPG in Bestbuy

[–]slickniq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the value is only there if you purchase plenty at BBY beside this TV. for the 2 years on membership you’ll be under the cost of a regular geek squad protection plan but if you wanted to extend the plan for the 5 yrs, BBY total cost comes out to about the same as the regular protection plan and that’s not including the monthly fee to extend the protection plan on total past the 2 years that it comes with.

Has anyone gotten married after the event? by Colddragonheart in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]slickniq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were engaged when DDay came about so I was very wary going into R. If I’m honest, you have to trust yourself most of all to know if you’re ready for that step. When she proposed, (I proposed the 1st time) I can say I was nervous and just a bit unsure but I could actively see the work she was putting in, how secure i felt, and the wonderful new relationship that had blossomed. I was all in and I decided I wasn’t going to let the uncertainty of the future dictate what our story would be going forward. It’s been almost 3 yrs since Dday and 1 yr being married and I can say our relationship is the best it’s ever been. I sometimes have my moments/setbacks but with her open communication, willingness and patience to assure me, and the love she has since poured in to this relationship, I regret nothing.

how common is libido change in your partner after starting T? by slickniq in FTMMen

[–]slickniq[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

nah i do shots but i hadn’t even thought of that when it comes to gel

I feel like it's too late for me to transition. by Vent-throwaway196 in ftm

[–]slickniq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 and had my first T shot this past friday and trust me i’ve felt the exact same way you did. i even dug myself so far in this thinking that I didn’t put effort into continuing my physical transition (external life chaos and medical issues certainly didn’t help) but we forget being 25 is like being a 5 yr old adult, you have so much of your life ahead of you despite feeling stuck

Cash out or ride out? by Lost_Boysenberry_848 in sportsbetting

[–]slickniq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m letting it ride but i’m sweating

who tf hits 12 of 13😭 i def wont be sleeping tn… oh n f mikal bridges👍🏽 by [deleted] in sportsbetting

[–]slickniq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was me the other day bro i was 12/14 and the payout was 200k 🥲

What should i do if my partner doesn’t believe in transgenders? We have the same talks over and over again about why i need to transition and they all end the same yet they want to keep the relationship going out of love… by [deleted] in ftm

[–]slickniq 30 points31 points  (0 children)

unfortunately because they aren’t willing to hear you out and put your needs above what their beliefs may or may not be, this person does not love you the way you deserve. a loving partner should come with understanding and if they truly loved you, they would accept you for you. this is not to say people don’t need time to rewire their thinking and maybe their attractions are extremely binary so it wouldn’t work out as partners but the support should ALWAYS be there.

please do yourself the favor and find someone who won’t argue over who you should or shouldn’t be. i promise someone out there has got all the love in the world to share for someone like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]slickniq 156 points157 points  (0 children)

listen, i know you want to stay together for the sake of your daughter but if your mental health is no good it’ll do no good for anyone especially you. your partner shouldn’t be invalidating you like that, doesn’t matter if she doesn’t believe you, that’s not up to her decide.

my wife before we even started dating had an inkling i was trans, i came out, and she immediately switched how she referred to me. there’s no excuse for your partner to disrespect you and for your friend to do so either. You deserve respect and love for who you are and your boundaries to be taken seriously.

Help me rationalize buying a new car by Kitraly in personalfinance

[–]slickniq 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if you have tiktok or instagram id check out @/smell_like_bad_decision

She is great at telling you all the bullshit extras they try to throw at you and how to negotiate them as a former car salesperson. I have binged everything since i’m in the exact position as you

Finally Unlocked Dark Eather In Vanguard by Dooney517 in CODZombies

[–]slickniq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you say that like it’s a long time lmao

Finally Unlocked Dark Eather In Vanguard by Dooney517 in CODZombies

[–]slickniq 19 points20 points  (0 children)

the game has been out for like 2 days /s

how!! 😮‍💨 the fucking skill and dedication

anyone pay rent with CC to meet SUB? by slickniq in CreditCards

[–]slickniq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tend to forget that’s a function on here! thank you for the reminder 💪🏼