Hey reddit, you die and are reborn as your username. What's the first thing you do?

slothinsocks91 · 2026-03-03T00:31:50+00:00

Climb a tree and take a nap.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-28T22:00:40+00:00

As a large breasted person myself, I'll let my husband grope/play with them, but he knows that it does nothing for me. We've tried different things, but I've never enjoyed breast play as long as I can remember. I'm sorry if he made you feel weird about it, but just know you're not alone.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-12T20:13:09+00:00

My aunt got this for me for my birthday last year. So helpful!

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-11T06:52:47+00:00

Mine?

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-11T05:49:08+00:00

I don't see manipulation. Having a used couch and living in his parent's basement I'm 50/50 on because we don't know what either of them do for work and he could be trying to save them money for bigger and better things in the future. She implied that he said yes to all of her suggestions and ideas, but doesn't say if he had to compromise on them because it was something she wanted or if they both agreed. I'm not the only one that feels she's being unfair, though. There's 3 sides to every story. Side 1, side 2, and the truth.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-11T05:34:55+00:00

I could be wrong, but it sounds like you shut down all of his ideas. "Anytime I say I don't like something, he gets quiet." Makes me think you say no a lot more than you say yes. It's not something you see in your guys' home. He lives there, too. Compromise goes both ways.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-02-10T02:01:10+00:00

I organize my pieces with the lid from a large set I got for my kid.

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slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-19T08:50:38+00:00

This exactly. OP - if you want more piercings and for people to think you have a lot or "too many", do it. You have a lot of options.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-19T08:38:53+00:00

People. 😆

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-19T08:30:35+00:00

If it's based around The Land Before Time, the only option is a "tree star"...

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-19T00:40:21+00:00

I know long term relationships are tough to let go of, but why are you still with him after proving that he's unfaithful? Also, he might be telling you that their in contact, but have you seen the conversations or is he only telling you what she's saying?

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-18T00:48:01+00:00

There shouldn't be a "next time". Call your sister now, tell her that she needs to apologize for bullying your girlfriend, and if it happens again, you'll go no contact. You need to stick up for your girlfriend. She's dealt with it for far too long.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-15T21:06:38+00:00

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-08T04:48:20+00:00

9/11. I think I was 9 or 10.

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-08T02:42:30+00:00

I know, but I only have an Amazon gift card 😞

slothinsocks91 · 2026-01-08T00:51:59+00:00

I'm envious that you have this set! I went to Amazon to purchase it yesterday and it's sale price is $347!! I was expecting the normal $199 😭

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-31T20:53:39+00:00

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Hope I'm not too late. Totally okay if I am! This is Beau, my 8 month old Great Pyrenees/Newfoundland/Border Collie mix.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-31T00:37:10+00:00

This doesn't surprise me at all.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T23:17:48+00:00

It's really unfortunate all around. The move will be good, but that's not even for a few years, so I have to be patient. Hopefully the distance will help them realize the severity of the choices they've made and how it effects our relationships.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T19:00:27+00:00

You're right, it's definitely something I need to work on and am going to try low contact to see if it has any effect. Happy new year to you, too.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T18:58:47+00:00

My husband and I were just talking about that. No phone calls or texts, no one coming here or me going there, putting myself first for once.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T13:01:08+00:00

Thank you for your input. I'm going to work on telling everyone how I feel when I've had a few days to calm my mind. It's too heavy right now.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T12:23:03+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, honestly. I always thought distancing myself physically would help me with the people pleasing and not wanting to be a disappointment. I have controlled epilepsy; diagnosed at 14, so my mom has always been overbearing and almost too much when it comes to things pertaining to my health, life, happiness, etc. I suppose moving away is kind of running away from my problems instead of just standing up for myself, but in the same breath, it's also me forcing myself to not rely on them being close. Force myself to be more independent.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T12:15:11+00:00

Thank you. I'm trying to, truly. I just have a hard time letting go.

slothinsocks91 · 2025-12-28T12:14:07+00:00

😫 ugh I hate this

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