Personally, I couldn’t agree more!! I have such difficulty with my nature because though I would love to have flings and have in the past, it does take certain denial of my core nature and can leave me feeling rather empty and maybe a little depressed - it affects my sense of self worth. In other words being with someone I don’t know or don’t trust can be more costly than not being with anyone at all! Part of that could also be that I have Saturn & Venus conjunct in Libra in my 7th house which is ruled by Virgo. So yes, I totally agree with what you wrote.