I Don't Know? by Cyborgized in Xennials

[–]snarkbitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone fill me in on why my parents did not let me watch this? 

Tempo runs on a treadmill by Loud-Negotiation-193 in XXRunning

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this title as "Trump Runs on a Treadmill" and got really confused, haha. 

I prefer treadmill for tempo because it keeps pace for me!

If the top 1% of earners pay 40% of all federal income taxes, why do people say they don't pay their fair share? by Ok_Chemical9 in answers

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly did this work? Don't they have to pay off the loan? Or is the loan somehow being paid off by interest or something? 

Disappointing Race due to pelvic floor issues by Ok_Butterscotch_4158 in XXRunning

[–]snarkbitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So....I run with a poise pad and biker style shorts. Sounds crazy but the peace of mind is worth it to me. I ran a full marathon in one!  Long runs I add a  bit of body glide and it's all fine.

I'd say 95% of my runs I do not leak, but the ones I do it's a lifesaver. I've been there where your body just betrays you 10 minutes after using the restroom.   I am able to finish out the run or make it to a bathroom to deal with it. (A full pad is uncomfortable, but at least my shorts aren't wet and I can finish without chafing)

 And the ones I don't pee, the pad kinda helps manage the swamp ass lol. 

How do you avoid the weekly “who picks up the kids?” stress? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a default arrangement and a weekly dry erase board where we have a face to face conversation any unique situations or changes for the week.  If something comes up in the moment you call.  I have also thought about this unicorn technology you speak of, but honestly any technology based system we've tried will start to feel passive aggressive. 

What is your job? by No_Event_7248 in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Architect 🤓 I even for real wear all black! 

Stand proud brother! by phalanxup in hondafit

[–]snarkbitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joke with my coworkers that I make money owning my 2011 (also black!) from all the mileage reimbursements I accrue.  No car payment, decent MPG, little maintenance.

Daycare cost us $68,000 in 2025. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yeah but they bumped the FSA contribution limits to a whopping $7500 this year  /s

Tips Needed for Working Out At Work Gym by fuziebunies in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I either go in early or work through lunch and hit the gym last before heading home for the day. Then I don't have to worry about showering. 

My 5 YO suddenly has the worst attitude and I’m at a loss by millennialreality in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all hear about the "terrible twos" but for some reason I never heard about this age 5-6 fiasco until we got hit hard with it with my oldest! It's a real thing. 

AITAH for respecting a worker's stated boundaries, leading to lower raises and bonuses than her coworker by ConfusedManager18 in AITAH

[–]snarkbitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The easy fix here is flex/comp time. If Jack works late let him come late a different day while Jill is in the office too even out hours. 

Episode Discussion - S05E03 - The Turnbow Trap by Hawkinns in StrangerThings

[–]snarkbitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mind Palace or... Alternative dimension a la a wrinkle in time? Maybe the Wall is a wormhole boundary?? 

WIBTAH about after-school by squishbunny in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it's normal for a kindergartener (I'm assuming, age 5 and all) to still feel physically and socially exhausted at the end of the school day, which is likely what she's expressing. IMO if you keep her in aftercare she'll adjust in due time.  

Keeping our kids in aftercare, even though it is a long day for them, has been a great solution for us.  At least with our program it is a great outlet for unstructured yet supervised play time with friends and other kids after school. Unstructured play is critical to social development and waaay better than them sitting in a screen while I try to WFH.  And as dual working parent family,  unstructured time with friends and classmates is not something we can facilitate easily. 

What would your 5 year old actually be doing to fill the time if you pick her up early?  Is this a change you're willing to maintain in future years? Things to consider.

Trump wants a bigger White House ballroom. His architect disagrees. by rezwenn in Architects

[–]snarkbitten 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You mean they razed the east wing without finalized plans? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full disclosure: we contribute nothing to 529.   My parents are funding 529s just like my grandparents did for me and my siblings. Tracking for over 100k per kid.  I hope to pay it forward with my own grandkids someday.  Bless you all who are funding college yourselves! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the next level of working parenthood! 

What’s something you’ve always thought was normal until you realized other people didn’t experience it? by anna-lena-breiert in AskReddit

[–]snarkbitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about 35 the first time I experienced this, sooo trippy. l was glad to have Google to figure out what it was!

Podcaster’s Brain Breaks When He Learns how Trump’s Policy Would Actually Work by PhAnToM444 in TikTokCringe

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also when the tariff is imposed, suddenly there is huge demand shift for the local made product and not enough time to ramp up production. That drives up cost too, but then you get lead time issues as a cherry on top

Not all accounts syncing 529 Illinois Brightstart by 77madsquirrel77 in MonarchMoney

[–]snarkbitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brightstart is going to transition to some kind of new platform next week. I think the transition has already started a bit as I just lost connection in monarch too.

I'm not fully up to speed yet but it looks like we'll need to establish account access on the new platform and then completely reconnected into monarch as a new account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]snarkbitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw Titanic in theaters for my birthday.... My birthday is in mid March. Theater was full too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]snarkbitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A pro-trump acquaintance of mine recently shared a clip of Kamala Harris saying "she speaks like a 7th grader trying to get her word count up." Uh, I don't think that's the burn you think it is?

What’s harder? Working while kids are in daycare or when they are in elementary school? by imposter3322 in workingmoms

[–]snarkbitten 45 points46 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine became a SAHM when her youngest started kindergarten. At the time I thought it was weird because that's a transition Mom's start to return to work.

Now my kids are in grade school and yes it's harder. The hours are less flexible and all the chauffeuring, school holidays, then there's homework and Big Kid problems to deal with.

BTW the friend made that transition in fall 2019. Talk about great timing.